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sunflower-moon
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posted October 17, 2012 11:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sunflower-moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I recently met someone who just instantly creeped me out. There was nothing particularly wrong with them, they seemed like a nice person and were polite and everything, but I still couldn't shake that feeling. Anyone know what aspects could cause this?

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posted October 17, 2012 12:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice77     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sun conjunction Pluto, makes people react immediately, good or bad. Someone with Pluto in 1st or 12th might get a sense about people

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posted October 17, 2012 01:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you have a lot of neptune energy, either through pisces or neptune conjunct personal planets you probably can feel ppl's intentions. Like animals are able to sense good and bad in ppl we can to, when we decide to pay attention to it! Neptune positively aspected makes you comfortable with and aware of energies!
Its not psychic, its just being aware of the energy around you and not blocking or denying it!
If youve ever noticed how some dogs are more aware and reactive to ppl and some only occasionally react...its probably the sensitivity in their charts to neptune...a sq to neptune can make it where you can't sense these energies as easily, its a block.
But in synastry it's a lil different, if you have a venus/sun/moon/mars conjunction to someones neptune you feel neptunes dreamy, soft, floating on a cloud energy and might miss reality...it makes it easy for them to deceive you because you are easily disillusioned by them...
If you felt a negative energy from someone perhaps their neptune sq's your sun/moon or mars...you wouldnt sense any softness in them because the square would block it, you would feel tension and maybe even wonder if you cant trust them. The energy between you would feel esp hard!

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posted October 17, 2012 01:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars conjunct Saturn in some cases or
malefics in your 12th house

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posted October 17, 2012 01:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lava Flower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gabby, that make's a lot of sense, I wouldn't have ever thought of Neptune. I was going to say Pluto or Saturn originally but Pluto is magnetic and Saturn take a while to rear its head.. Interestingly, there's a couple I know who have many, many lovely aspects and overlays. Sun trine Sun, Venus trine Venus, Sun opposite moon and a nice composite with a love stellium. Then they have Mars square her Neptune and Sun/Mercury square his Neptune and they are very insensitive towards one anther, it was actually awkward for me (and other people) to be around them at times because they openly fight and not in that how can we work this out but in that annoying petty way, though they value a lot of the same things. Would have thought Neptune squares would lead to over sensitivity and lack of boundaries so this gives it another possible layer, great insight!!

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posted October 17, 2012 01:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lava Flower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lalalinda:
Mars conjunct Saturn in some cases or
malefics in your 12th house


Since the melifics are mostly the outer slow moving planets, other than mars, would it depend how they are aspected by your chart? I have my Saturn in someones 12th.

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posted October 17, 2012 01:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A strong synastry aspect (conjunction, opposition,s quare) of a personal and outer planet, that is not repeated/ does not resonate in your natal.

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posted October 17, 2012 01:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice77     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
IMO figured Neptune was dealing with illusions, while Pluto uncovers or unmasks situations, people, etc.

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posted October 17, 2012 01:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It mainly depends upon the synastry.I have pluto in first house and most people dont really like me.They just observe me from distance.I have to approach them all the time.I had no friends when I was a kid because other kids used to stay away from me.

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posted October 17, 2012 01:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted October 17, 2012 02:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lava Flower:
Gabby, that make's a lot of sense, I wouldn't have ever thought of Neptune. I was going to say Pluto or Saturn originally but Pluto is magnetic and Saturn take a while to rear its head.. Interestingly, there's a couple I know who have many, many lovely aspects and overlays. Sun trine Sun, Venus trine Venus, Sun opposite moon and a nice composite with a love stellium. Then they have Mars square her Neptune and Sun/Mercury square his Neptune and they are very insensitive towards one anther, it was actually awkward for me (and other people) to be around them at times because they openly fight and not in that how can we work this out but in that annoying petty way, though they value a lot of the same things. Would have thought Neptune squares would lead to over sensitivity and lack of boundaries so this gives it another possible layer, great insight!!

Ya, i hate neptune squares...theres no softness! Its like neptune conjunction picks you off your feet and you fly away on a cloud, then a neptune sq will drop you on your butt and get mad that your complaining about getting hurt.
Insensitivity and annoyance is the theme with a square...you dont like the way they do things, you dont like the tone of their voice, they just bug you but you dont really know why!
Neptune probably won't feel the irritation energy as much as the planet person, but they will feel picked on for no reason!

I bet many ppl who get bullied, the victims neptune squares the bullies mars or sun, maybe even nessus!
The victim has no idea why hes the target!

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posted October 17, 2012 02:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
After posting that i decided to go look at my ex, who was very abusive to me. I'd never checked his nessus to my neptune...
His gemini nessus is conjunct his sun by 4 degrees in his 4th house of family, then my opposing saggy neptune and his virgo moon in his 7th relationship house, make a nice little t-square...no wonder!

A neptune sq is mean! How it happens will depend on the personal planet person but...they will somehow be trying to tell neptune their dreams are stupid, to get their head out of the clouds, grow up! The aspect is the best for bursting bubbles and making you feel like your dreams are stupid and a waste of time! But its never any serious big issue, its just constant picking...ugh!

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posted October 17, 2012 02:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for waxlobster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi sunflower-moon,

There are no aspects that would make me steer clear of somebody, only my intuition would do that and if you feel that way then please do trust it. Not to say right the person off but keep it in mind, of course it could be that they reflect your fears also.

Certainly anything we don't *own* in ourselves may make us uncomfortable around those who do. I have Pluto in the 12th square Moon so I suppose I was more wary of strong Plutonians until I got to know that side of myself (now I love them).

A difficult Mars placement can show up as suppressed anger in some. Probably more so in those who have suffered from this themselves. Unaspected Mars in Cancer or 4th House, or square Saturn, conjunct Chiron...there are many possible aspects which can show up this likelihood but it obviously depends entirely on the person.

Mostly if it's a personal difficulty we have with another the source then synastry is going to tell the story. For instance I've recently noticed anger from boss to an employee that seemed entirely out of character and context. The charts showed that the boss has Mercury conjunct his employees Saturn and Pluto in Leo. The need to communicate supremacy is compromised by her natural strength in this area of Leo.

I was expecting the synastry to show her having the astrological 'power' so to speak, otherwise he'd not feel the need to enforce his alleged position of 'power'.

Ego battles :/

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posted October 17, 2012 09:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
To the topic question, Mars sq/conj Mercury, Saturn opp/sq Mercury, Mars opp Saturn, Mars sq Pluto. There are others but these are off the top.

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