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lovehate122
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posted October 18, 2012 02:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lovehate122     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Peolpe always see what they want to see in me and it seems to be never good. I don't know who i am and i feel like i never will , i couldn't tell you my personality it would make more sense for me to ask you .
I also wonder what it means to have Neptune opposite the DSC ?
because if its conjucnt my rising it has to be opposite my 7th house .
i;ve heard that Neptune is the planet of misfourtune!
I always like guys who are too old or interested in someone else but whenever someone likes me i don't like them!
And whenever someone is intersted in me its because they think im perfect (neptune synastry)! but i know im not and i worry that if i don't end the relationship they will find out all my flaws and end it for me!

i FEEL LIKE IM DESTINED TO BE ALONE , I DON'T KNOW WHATS WRONG WITH ME !

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the89freespirit
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posted October 18, 2012 02:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for the89freespirit     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Don't feel so bad. Neptune isn't a misfortunate planet. I know this can be a difficult placement -- I am Neptune rising too in Capricorn, by 8 degrees -- but there's a lot of good to it as well.

It gives you the chance to develop your spirituality and achieve a rather transcendent outlook toward life. Neptune is the planet of undoing and I think the lesson for Neptune rising people is to be egoless, while also retaining their boundaries. I also feel like people tend to see me in dramatically different lights at times. People often only see what they want to see in me.

But I also know its a two way street because I can assimilate other people's energies very acutely. I tend to unconsciously take on the traits of people that I admire. I'm often really good at manipulating myself into believing whatever I want to believe about myself. There have been many times when that self-image has been shattered and I've realized I was living a lie or living out the desires or motivations of other people.

So, now, I try to remain centered in my own sense of self. I think the opportunity this placement gives is a sort of detachment from worldly opinions. Since people's opinions of me are so variable and subjective, why get attached to them? There is a huge amount of freedom that comes with that. It's the egolessness that can lead you to a Nirvana here on Earth.

Also, don't forget the potential for boundless compassion and empathy with having Neptune on the Ascendant. Still, it's important to not let people's demands drain you. But go with the flow of it. There is great creative potential and imagination available with this placement, too. This gives an ability to tap into a very wide range of archetypes, personalities, characters, fantasies, etc. I've been learning to use that to my particular advantage as an actor.

So, don't be down on yourself. NO placement is inherently bad. Some just require more or different work than others.

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posted October 18, 2012 03:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DepTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by lovehate122:

i FEEL LIKE IM DESTINED TO BE ALONE , I DON'T KNOW WHATS WRONG WITH ME !

That might not be a bad thing...think about it there are people who would like to be alone but who are trapped rather in a marriage that is less than stellar,a dominating family and or with pushy inconsiderate friends.

You might be alone,but there might be other people worse off who would rather be where you are.

Don`t feel so down.

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Lonake
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posted October 18, 2012 03:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I disagree with the above poster.
It's OK to feel down (obviously) but Neptune can dissolve into protracted self-pity so that's the thing to watch for.
That being said I think there's more to the story (ie the rest of your chart) because what you described doesn't sound like it's Nep-toon all the way there.

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lovehate122
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posted October 18, 2012 04:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lovehate122     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
should i post it?

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Ami Anne
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posted October 18, 2012 06:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have it in the 1st House. Neptune is a mixed bag, for sure. It would be kind of hard to have on the ASC. I think your sense of self may feel amorphous. This is, always, really hard.

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posted October 18, 2012 06:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GirlinSeattle     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Neptune on the ASC is not a bad thing... no aspects/houses are. It's how you use it. Instead of feeling down about it, you can use your Neptune to help others because it heightens intuition.

I don't have it personally, but I've dealt with people who do or at least I found this out after the fact. They are sponges, and they don't even realize it. When their friends are upset, so are they. When they associate with people who have certain "ticks," or catch phrases they use, they pick it up, too. For example, one of my friends started dating a girl and within two weeks, picked up her speech mannerisms. They were subtle, but still noticeable. All of a sudden, in a month, you're like, who are you? I think, as long as you are honest with yourself and others, it's a great aspect.

Yes, it causes confusion and self-image problems, but I believe that meditation and time spent alone to reflect on who you really are will help tremendously.

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quinnlycanastro
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posted October 18, 2012 07:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for quinnlycanastro     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Issues with identity are more often linked to the Sun. The asc is only the mask, the face you present when you first meet others. I have said the same things about myself.... and I've got a very dominant Neptune, [and it's in the 1st] but you need to look at the Sun.

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posted October 18, 2012 07:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Neptune on my ASC. Love it.

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Krista_Kay_1993
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posted October 18, 2012 07:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Krista_Kay_1993     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i have this in capricorn

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astrofan123
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posted November 08, 2012 12:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for astrofan123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lovehate122:
Peolpe always see what they want to see in me and it seems to be never good. I don't know who i am and i feel like i never will , i couldn't tell you my personality it would make more sense for me to ask you .
I also wonder what it means to have Neptune opposite the DSC ?
because if its conjucnt my rising it has to be opposite my 7th house .
i;ve heard that Neptune is the planet of misfourtune!
I always like guys who are too old or interested in someone else but whenever someone likes me i don't like them!
And whenever someone is intersted in me its because they think im perfect (neptune synastry)! but i know im not and i worry that if i don't end the relationship they will find out all my flaws and end it for me!

i FEEL LIKE IM DESTINED TO BE ALONE , I DON'T KNOW WHATS WRONG WITH ME !


definitely nothing to do with destined to be alone. I have Neptune in the 1st house Scorpio/Sag and I am married 12 yrs now. I'm 37.
it's normal that you like someone who doesn't like you or vice versa. we all have that happened to us.
I don't know how old you are. I think you will get more into your own skin as you get older.

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indigomoon8
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posted November 08, 2012 01:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for indigomoon8     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a Neptune Dom, its most heavily aspected in my chart not to mention trines my Sun & Asc.

Neptune is a beautiful thing to me. It's so dreamy, creative, and other worldly. I love the ocean. Having logical, intelligent Mercury as my Dom also helps take away the negative traits Neptune could have.

I don't care for drinking or smoking, never did. & each time I did it I could never overindulge or become addicted. Sometime I do get deceived but I am always able to sort through and come out on top.

I always felt lonely but that also comes from a strong Uranus. too. But it was overcome with strong bonds to a few people and my dreamy neptunian dream world.

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