Posts: 293
From: The Planet Mercury
Registered: Oct 2010

posted November 07, 2012 07:00 PM            

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Hello all, what are your experiences with Sun square Saturn in synastry? How was the experience? Was the overall synastry good or bad? Has any of you experienced a double whammy Sun square Saturn?

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

And yes, I'm a guy!

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From: los angeles, california, USA
Registered: Jul 2010

posted November 07, 2012 10:51 PM            

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Sun-Saturn in Synastry
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My first ex boyfriend and I had strong Saturn aspects in our synastry chart. It made total sense, given the fact that Saturn was transiting my 7th house at the time. More specifically, my Saturn was conjunct his Sun in Scorpio. My most recent ex had his Sun in Aquarius square my Saturn in Scorpio. Incidentally, he had Saturn transiting his 7th house when we were together.
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Sun-Saturn aspects in synastry are apparently very common aspects to find in the synastry charts of married couples and long-term partners. Indeed, my relationships with those two lasted quite a few years, but it wasn’t without difficulty.
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As the Saturn person, I felt both insecure and committed to each of them. Each one of them brought out many of my insecurities. Just by being themselves and expressing their individuality, my fears of rejection and getting hurt surfaced. In response, I criticized them and judged them harshly. I wanted to dominate them, control them, and stomp on their fun. I didn’t want them to “grow”, because I was too afraid they would grow apart from me.
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Another reason I was so critical of these two guys was because I genuinely felt their ideas, feelings, and beliefs were incredibly stupid. Sounds harsh, I know, but some of their opinions and beliefs simply ****** me off. Instead of calmly voicing my own opinions, I insulted theirs. This, in turn, discouraged them greatly, but I felt I was doing them a favor. When I look back, I know I was a bit too harsh with them, but I felt (and STILL feel) they were childish and needed a good reality check.
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The Sun-Saturn energy in synastry is much like the energy between a parent and child. In those two relationships, I felt that I was scolding my misbehaving children.
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I was already into astrology when I met the Aquarius guy, so I knew this energy would manifest in our relationship somehow. I tried my best to keep my Saturnian energy in check, but when it came down to it, I simply couldn’t help but criticize him. Trust me- I tried.
​ http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!saturn-in-synastry-relationship-hell/cv4v

^^ sums up my Saturn square Sun experience pretty perfectly. It's hard.

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posted November 08, 2012 10:46 PM            

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sun is too selfish
long term relationship
saturn is too good for sun

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