posted November 14, 2012 08:25 PM
Hi Pisces-sweety,There definitely are so indications of clashing in this synastry, although it isn’t all bad.
First off your Sun at 20 Pisces is square his Moon at 24 Gemini. This is not an especially tight aspect, as I prefer to look mostly at aspects under 3 degrees to see what the most important dynamics are in a relationship, but it’s a Sun/Moon aspect! Which makes the connection quite significant. It’s interesting that he is the man and you are the women and yet it’s your Sun that squares his Moon. The Sun is the a powerful masculine influence in the natal chart, and shows the forces of our personalities and our tendencies toward leadership and domination. Maybe that’s why he thinks your TOO MUCH? It’s possible that as a man he may see you as an overly dominating women, while maybe to you he seems too sensitive… Like he’s overreacting to the stuff you do. The Moon is all about Sensitivity, and is like our personal antenna for picking up the vibes around us. Your activities have a bigger then average impact on his psyche.
Your Sun in Pisces (20) also squares his Uranus in Sagittarius (19). This aspect is tight. Perhaps for some reason he sees you (the Sun) as interfering with his freedom and innovation, while you think some of his approaches are off-the wall, as in strange or too radical. Alternatively, because you Sun challenges his Uranus it could be that he thinks you’re the one whose bit weird. This is one of those aspects that could go either way.
The next thing I’m noticing is that you have a Virgo Moon (16) /Pisces Mercury (13) opposition, and that this opposition is squaring his Sagittarius Mercury (15). What this indicates is that your way of mentally and emotionally processing things clashes with his intellect/ communication style. The Mercury square Mercury aspect indicates verbal spars, bickering, and not seeing eye to eye on details. The fact that your Moon is involved may mean that you find his speech agitating. Like he greats on your nerves, and he might say things that hurt your feelings sometimes. This might not be done on purpose. He just has a rather blunt, straightforward approach and this can make him seem insensitive toward you at times.
Funnily enough the two of you have a Venus/Mars square. Venus/Mars aspects often indicate attraction but not always. His Mars in Scorpio (7) is square your Venus in Aquarius (5). This is compounded by the fact that his Pluto in Scorpio (6) is conjunct his Mars, and also squaring your Venus. In his chart his Scorpio Mars/Pluto conjunction sits on his South Node, opposite his Taurus North Node (7), which again squares your Venus. To him it may feel as if your style of relating is some type of challenge or contradiction to his path, or journey forward overall. As if your getting in the way somehow even if it’s unintentional. Does he seem overly harsh toward you sometimes? His Mars/Pluto squaring your Venus indicates that he might be quite aggressive or controlling towards you, and may even feel like he wants to ‘censor’ you at times. He may think that you are too much, but he may be too much, as well, in the way he overreacts toward you. The fact that Pluto is involved indicates that there may be some type of power play at work here.
The last configuration I’m noticing here is that his Jupiter in Aquarius (17) is conjunct your North Node in Aquarius (16). Perhaps there is something you feel you can learn from him, even if there are parts of his personality that you’d rather not deal with. It’s almost like he shines the light on a way of doing things that can help move you forward, in a way that you haven’t thought of before. However, you Pluto squares your nodal axis in your chart, and as such squares his Jupiter on top of all this. This indicates that his optimistic, idealistic side clashes with your inner intensity, and perceptive nature. Maybe he feels that you have a way of pointing out things that ‘rain on his parade’ so to speak. And you may feel that he makes too big of a deal out of the things you say, like you violated some code or something by making an observation.
One positive aspect that the two of you have is that your Venus in Aquarius (5) is sextile to his Saturn in Sagittarius (4). This means that you both should be capable of putting your differences aside, and cooperating in a mature way, for the sake of keeping the peace in the environment. This aspect is about courtesy and maturity in harmony with each other. The many squares in your synastry indicates that there is a lot of ‘drama potential’ between you, but this can be managed to some extent with the courtesy and maturity of the Venus/Saturn aspect.
The funny thing about this synastry is that there are a few aspects between you that indicate attraction between the sexes. The Sun/Moon and Venus/Mars aspects. I’m NOT saying that you’d choose to get involved with him, nor am I saying that you want him. With the amount of hard synastry between you I wouldn’t recommend it, anyway. I’m just saying that there is probably a bit of sexual tension between the two of you. Which probably feels weird and inappropriate more then anything else. You may see him as appealing even if he gets on your nerves, and he may have the same regard for you. The synastry is very harsh though, and this can lead to a kind of attraction/repulsion thing. If the two of you work together it’s best just to keep a professional attitude, and to try not to let your personal differences became a sore point.
Let me know if my reading rings true for you, it’s always good to get some feedback on how well I’m doing with my interps.
Lindaland
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