posted August 29, 2011 08:39 AM            

The guy has to persist in a respectful, flirtatious, and dominant (but not dominating) attitude until she feels comfortable and then he has to get through the touchy-feely stage, eventually professing his love. Needless to say, she doesn't often date LOL.

Any Scorpi-esque courting ritual is similar to how actual scorpions mate. It's a dance requiring a bit of vulnerability mixed with a lot of circling the goal. Male scorpions actually give the females little stings throughout the mating dance, so they will be too doped up to kill the male once the deed is done.

As for Scorpio Moons, My experience with them has been fairly straightforward. In order to feel secure, they require a deep and genuine willingness to be vulnerable. They need to feel safe and will do whatever they can to protect their personal space and those they accept into that space (even stand in harm's way). They can come off as severe, harsh, or private on occasion. The truth is, they are a serious emotional force to interact with.

Imagine you are being chased by bad people and you find a dark cave to hide in. As you run deeper into the cave, you realize you are very lost and have forgotten where the mouth of the tunnel is. Fear overcomes you as your feelings become the only force which differentiates you from the darkness. After several minutes, your eyes begin to notice light which was not noticeable before. You see you are alone in the cave and you no longer feel scared once you get an idea of the shape of your environment. Soon the voices of your pursuers can be heard close by, a shot of fear overcomes you again as you witness three dark figures approaching. Suddenly you realize the figures are stumbling blind. You can see them, but they are completely vulnerable and clueless of your presence. You are now very safe and the situation has tilted in your favor. - Connecting with any intense Pluto person can be a bit like running into a dark cave to discover you are a bit lost and very vulnerable. Once you learn to really see the light in the depths and embrace the conditions which make you vulnerable, you step into a position of inner-power. When you first approach a Plutonian person, you are like a formless figure groping around in the dark. They must use their feelings to assess you first and may even hide in the shadows or make scary noises in the hopes that you will not violate their vulnerable space. It's the people who stick around through the hiding and the spooky noises who stand out to the Plutonian. Being willing to endure the initial fear and pursue a space of trust and vulnerability is the ultimate goal.

posted August 29, 2011 09:48 AM            

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Originally posted by heartstrings:
@taineberry:

thanks to your reply! so, how would a typical scorpio mooner want the person they fancy respond to their subtle flirting? any advice would be helpful

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I would be turned on if the person "mirrored" my behavior and did the same thing back to me in a subtle way.... this would sort of encourage me to get more and more playful and daring with the contrast between saying/doing. I guess it is because Scorpio Moon always likes to keep something a little hidden behind the obvious! Good luck! It is a fun game when you get into it!

posted August 29, 2011 10:03 PM            

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Originally posted by heartstrings:
thanks Xiiro and Taineberry, they were very insightful.

" Usually if you get a feeling of intense attraction toward them and they respond to your flirtation, you are on the right track" sounds kind of right Xiiro

god! i am waaayyy too attracted to him(no wonder why i'm on this site right now lol!) the thing is, i don't even know if he's being overtly friendly to me or if he's actually flirting! if he's all talkative, and laughs a lot when the two of you talk, and i mean just the two of you, like one on one inside a room(cause that's when i notice that he changes attitude when it's just the two of us talking...sometimes he would start a conversation about stuff and he would start off by asking me about my life, well, not literally, but what i want to do in my life,he asks me how i'm dealing with my ridiculously strict and perfectionist mum(she's a virgo for goodness sake!) he gives me advices too..,he tells me about his previous crushes and tells me how he doesn't like them anymore, tells me how he sometimes find his bestfriend annoying but he has a respect for him...but then some other day he'll be just all shy around me when i'm with my other friends...i know right? he's so confusing!) is that even considered as scorpio moon's way of flirting? being all open one day then completely closed the next? like, he's still friendly with me the next day but sometimes both of us becomes too shy and won't even make eye contact! ooops..heheheh

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Sounds like he's into you. I'm Sun Sag, Moon Virgo, Venus Scorpio, so I can identify a bit with the feeling of romantic elation mixed with a heaping serving of doubt. Don't let fear stand in your way. Follow your feelings, if you feel like you are attracted, flirt. The worse that could happen is he's not the one right? Then it's best to get him out of the way and make room for something better.

Sag/Virgo Sun/Moon square is kind of the epitome of thinking the crap out of a situation, because one has the keen Virgo eye of scrutiny and the clairvoyant sight of the Sag. We spend a lot of time focused on our toes or the hill a mile away, but not on the apparent path. With sight like that, deal with whatever arises in the moment and you will never make a wrong decision.

posted August 30, 2011 08:50 PM            

I have the the moon here in house 6. I can flirt sometimes...but then I have an Aries Sun, and Gemini rising.

But lets see...sometimes I really think the stare can have that impact...I'll be really surprized on the impact sometimes.

Like if I'm attracted to a guy...but also am not sure about him. I guess those combos of a starring like "I'm really atracted to you and I see through all your bullsh!t)" stare that equals the guy to be interesed LoL

posted August 31, 2011 09:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
ooo! I wanna hear the cool story! But no pressure. lol

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posted August 31, 2011 12:14 PM            

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Originally posted by heartstrings:
It felt that my eyes were kind of like glued to his and its just him, his face that i see. it lasted for like 4 or maybe even 5 seconds but it felt like we stared for more than a minute! I had to look away or else its just going to look completely awkward hehehe..

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If he has a Scorp moon and he is doing this..... trust me.... it means he fancies you!

posted August 31, 2011 03:18 PM            

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Originally posted by heartstrings:
yeah i know you wanna know britterfly's story but i just posted mine anyway LOL

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posted August 31, 2011 04:09 PM            

I remember being with him and he got mad at me the next day saying I should of just made him snap out of his siutation and not get too deep.This offended me (leo moon) as I had tried to listen to him and solve the issue.

Anyway, I think scorp moons are great if you can handle them, I am not sure I could but many others can!

posted September 01, 2011 06:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Taineberry:
I would be turned on if the person "mirrored" my behavior and did the same thing back to me in a subtle way.... this would sort of encourage me to get more and more playful and daring with the contrast between saying/doing.

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