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Topic: questions re: Mars in Pisces
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andstuff Knowflake Posts: 1058 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted January 17, 2013 08:11 AM
So anyway, I've read this thinghttps://www.goodgollyastrology.com/your-mars-and-venus-playbook/mars-in-pisces.html and I went a bit WTF? when i reached the bit stating Mars in Pisces come across as victims whilst actually being in charge of any romantic situations. Having this placement (conj Venus out of sign), I never really noticed this about myself. Perhaps on second thoughts it may be true, but it does seem like a massive paradox. Whats your experience of Mars in Pisces? Or of Mars in Pisces you have observed? Do they really unknowingly control things while feeling unhappy and whatnot? Just looking for a tendency or mechanism I suppose Thanks in advance IP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 330 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 17, 2013 10:51 AM
my bf is mars in pisces. i would say that yes, he has more control over the relationship emotionally, because he can easily manipulate me into helping him/giving him what he wants by playing the 'victim.' he is the victim in the sense that he makes me feel bad for him in some way so that, ultimately, he gets what he wants. so i see him as using emotions (mine and his) to get his way. in that way he has more control in the relationship for sure. it can range from actual pouting and overt sadness to teariness to just making me feel bad somehow that i am not being a good person or kind or compassionate, etc. somehow i end up feeling guilty and he gets his way. i think it's quite trueIP: Logged |
bridgetostars23 Knowflake Posts: 235 From: virginia, usa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 17, 2013 10:16 PM
My experience with my Mars in Pisces: I have been a manipulator with a victim mentality with people very close to me. When I was very young it was unintentional and when I am tired or very emotionally distressed it may be unintentional but now that I am aware of it I try very hard not to do that. A person like this can have control while looking like they are submissive by making others take action for them or by making others tell them what action to take themselves. IP: Logged |