posted November 06, 2013 08:41 PM            

are you very good at focusing on and reading people, to the point where you can hurt your own sense of self?

posted November 06, 2013 08:47 PM            

I started being friends with someone else who smoked the light version of the same brand so I started them, too, and when my other friend found out about it, he got really upset that I no longer smoked what he did.

Then I started hanging out with someone who didn't smoke at all and that's when I stopped entirely, too.

The one friend who smoked the lights is a Virgo with Pisces moon and soon I began speaking like her, she had some peculiar mannerisms when talking, like saying I'm sure and repeating the last words of her sentence. I still do that sometimes which kinda annoys me. People ask me why I repeat the last words like that I have to explain I got into the habit when I hung around with someone who did the same thing.

posted November 06, 2013 09:22 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I have moon opp Neptune and what the books say about feeling in tune with people is so true, I was close to someone who smoked a brand of cigarettes and so I smoked the same brand.

I started being friends with someone else who smoked the light version of the same brand so I started them, too, and when my other friend found out about it, he got really upset that I no longer smoked what he did.

Then I started hanging out with someone who didn't smoke at all and that's when I stopped entirely, too.

The one friend who smoked the lights is a Virgo with Pisces moon and soon I began speaking like her, she had some peculiar mannerisms when talking, like saying I'm sure and repeating the last words of her sentence. I still do that sometimes which kinda annoys me. People ask me why I repeat the last words like that I have to explain I got into the habit when I hung around with someone who did the same thing.

So, I have to watch it.

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ah! i smoke depending on who i am around, too. like i only started smoking again because people at work were.. then i was working at another site and no one i liked smoked so i stopped. etc etc etc.

posted November 06, 2013 09:39 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Haha, Cappy. Why is that scary? I no longer smoke :s

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That's good. What's scares me is high susceptibility to outer influences.

posted November 06, 2013 09:40 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
That's good. What's scares me is high susceptibility to outer influences.

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posted November 06, 2013 09:41 PM            

I only have mutable Mercury and angles.

posted November 06, 2013 10:35 PM            

Hmmm. I would say I can feel what someone is feeling when they're upset. I'm very good at reading people, and being able to just know what they're feeling.

If someone near me is upset do I feel upset? No, I "understand" how they feel, but I don't feel upset personally. I can feel their pain. When I was younger it affected me too so to speak. Now, not so much. I still feel their pain, but I don't bear it and carry the weight of it like I used to in my younger years.

I'm sensitive, but I don't cry/hurt easily. Heck, I don't cry at all, and at times I can simply detach myself from a situation and simply just not care. Of course that was something I learned as I got older. People say I'm too sensitive :/. Then again I could say people are not sensitive enough, but then again that would come off as judgmental, and people are free to act as they choose.

I'm very careful with words and actions, lol I guess you could attribute that to cancer mars/mercury. I would never intentionally hurt someone. Unless I felt that was the only way to address the matter. Lol, I've also learned to be very blunt and assertive. Lol, this is a complete 180 of my character, but that's what happens when you live in new york city for a couple years. Some people only listen to violence and aggression it seems. I hate it, but they leave me no choice.

posted November 06, 2013 10:41 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I have moon opp Neptune and what the books say about feeling in tune with people is so true, I was close to someone who smoked a brand of cigarettes and so I smoked the same brand.

I started being friends with someone else who smoked the light version of the same brand so I started them, too, and when my other friend found out about it, he got really upset that I no longer smoked what he did.

Then I started hanging out with someone who didn't smoke at all and that's when I stopped entirely, too.

The one friend who smoked the lights is a Virgo with Pisces moon and soon I began speaking like her, she had some peculiar mannerisms when talking, like saying I'm sure and repeating the last words of her sentence. I still do that sometimes which kinda annoys me. People ask me why I repeat the last words like that I have to explain I got into the habit when I hung around with someone who did the same thing.

So, I have to watch it.

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you have no idea how much i relate to this. a single comment from family or friends has installed a crapload of changes in my life.

posted November 06, 2013 10:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I'm water dominant. I have Cancer mars, Scorpio Pluto and Venus. I pick up on literally everything around me. I can feel instantly when someone's sad or mad. When it's someone that I wouldn't expect to react that way it really bothers me and I tend to get upset that they are. I'm scary good at reading people and just knowing things I should just because that's how my brain works lol. I've never changed myself or did things a certain way because a friend did them that way though. I'm very emotional yes but very very very(and I put extreme emphasis on the very) protective about them. I don't like to get too deep and personal with anyone. Probably will be that way until I'm married. Now that I'm getting younger I've learned to just not take things so personally. I ignore things and really I'm just hooked on happy. I used to be so sad and depressing that now I just shove all of those feelings and all of my emotions in being happy. I have so many people constantly asking if I'm high because they can't get over how happy and upbeat I am. So my magic potion is just positivity and being happy

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*tips imaginary hat off to*
cancer asc, scorp sun, 8th house stellium

ah i've tried to ignore things, but it hasn't been working out too well for me. maybe i'll just try to find my own little happy place.

posted November 06, 2013 11:01 PM            

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Originally posted by socialgraffiti:
*tips imaginary hat off to*
cancer asc, scorp sun, 8th house stellium

ah i've tried to ignore things, but it hasn't been working out too well for me. maybe i'll just try to find my own little happy place.

@Starlight: sorry for replying twice (weak wi-fi), didn't see your own reply
but that distribution must be handy, well-balanced.

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