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Topic: Insecurity
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Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1857
From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 09:21 PM
  
The one thing that annoys and irritates me the most!  What could or would in a chart cause an Adult person to be insecure whether it be about their looks, what they're wearing or anything!?...IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 3080
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 09:30 PM
It must be hard for you to live on this planet then. 99% of people are insecure about something.------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1857
From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 09:32 PM
Not the people I'm around lol. I don't hate it I just don't care to be around people like that. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 3080
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 09:32 PM
Haha. They might simply hide it.------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1857
From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 09:35 PM
Could be. They just keep it locked in their heads. My group of friends are like me. We're all happy and optimistic. Negative energy such as that isn't allowed.  we forbid it. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1857
From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 09:35 PM
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NeptunianSag
Knowflake Posts: 213
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 09:36 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
The one thing that annoys and irritates me the most! What could or would in a chart cause a person to be insecure whether it be about their looks, what they're wearing or anything!?...
Libra/virgo - i have libra asc virgo moon i'm pretty depressed with how i look because i'm not perfect. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1857
From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 09:41 PM
@NeptunianSag I'm sorry you feel that way. No ones perfect and you shouldn't ever strive to be. Hell I'm not but I'm happy with myself and love myself. I used to to be extremely depressed so I know what it's like. I promise it'll get better though ❤️IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 3080
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 09:43 PM
Sag, I feel you. This mix is a killer. Perfectionism plus sensitivity to disharmony. Ugh.Barbie, if you used to be the same then why are you so annoyed? Now it sounds like some kind of supression. You should show some sympathy, not bit**. ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 7677
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 10:17 PM
everyone is insecure about something. The more someone tries to convince me they aren't the more I suspect they are extremely insecure.IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1857
From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 10:38 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Sag, I feel you. This mix is a killer. Perfectionism plus sensitivity to disharmony. Ugh.Barbie, if you used to be the same then why are you so annoyed? Now it sounds like some kind of supression. You should show some sympathy, not bit**.
Not at all Cappy. I was depressed with things a lot bigger than the way I looked that eventually the depression took over and it got there. I guess I should've said adults. I can't stand when 'adult people' are like that. I'm not ******** . Please don't go there with me.
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Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1857
From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 10:39 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
everyone is insecure about something. The more someone tries to convince me they aren't the more I suspect they are extremely insecure.
Not true. Why can't a person be sincerely happy with themselves without coming across as vain or that they're lying? Once you reach that level you'll know that what you just said isn't true. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 3080
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 10:42 PM
I don't think sincere happiness exclude feeling insecure sometimes. It's called being human.------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
MsPrism
Knowflake Posts: 909
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 10:43 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Not true. Why can't a person be sincerely happy with themselves without coming across as vain or that they're lying? Once you reach that level you'll know that what you just said isn't true.
Our bodies are withholding our spiritual self. The 12th House feels so scary because it's loss of ego, our physical representation in this life. Don't be insecure if I run up with a knife to kill you. I'm only trying to set you free... >.> IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1857
From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 10:44 PM
^^Oooookay but when you're happy with yourself there is no need or reason to feel that way...IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1857
From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 10:45 PM
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Originally posted by MsPrism:
Our bodies are withholding our spiritual self. The 12th House feels so scary because it's loss of ego, our physical representation in this life. Don't be insecure if I run up with a knife to kill you. I'm only trying to set you free...>.>
I don't understand lol? IP: Logged |
MsPrism
Knowflake Posts: 909
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 10:46 PM
Insecurity is inherent.To deny the darker side of life, Libra is next to Scorpio for a reason, is to deny balance. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 3080
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 10:47 PM
Prism, you're killing me.
Barbie, this world is not known for perfection. We can't be perfectly happy all the time.------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1857
From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 10:48 PM
^^I'm not denying that I just don't allow myself to get that way. It only causes more negative energy that I don't need. I'm a very optimistic person if you can't tell  IP: Logged |
11nahyt
Knowflake Posts: 2803
From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 10:50 PM
quote:
Originally posted by MsPrism:
Our bodies are withholding our spiritual self. The 12th House feels so scary because it's loss of ego, our physical representation in this life. Don't be insecure if I run up with a knife to kill you. I'm only trying to set you free...>.>
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StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5155
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 10:51 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
^^I'm not denying that I just don't allow myself to get that way. It only causes more negative energy that I don't need. I'm a very optimistic person if you can't tell
That's just normal for Libra, Barbie  IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1857
From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 10:51 PM
Again I don't like negative feelings or being around negative people or energy. I don't deny it I just don't like to let myself get too involved in it. Once I'm in a hole there's no digging me out. It's all my body's way of protecting me and my heart. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 7677
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 10:52 PM
My definitions for confidence and insecurity are radically different from most people's. most people see confidence as being arrogant and denying or ignoring ones flaws. To me a truly confident person can look at their flaws and admit them to others.like me , I will readily admit im average/plain looking and people tell me im insecure for admitting this. Maybe im missing something but IMO no amount of ego is going to change the way I look. Even if I delude myself into thinking im brad Pitt it's not going to change anything. So why try to fool myself or others?IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 3080
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 10:53 PM
Oh, I see. So called defence mechanism.------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1857
From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 10:54 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
My definitions for confidence and insecurity are radically different from most people's. most people see confidence as being arrogant and denying or ignoring ones flaws. To me a truly confident person can look at their flaws and admit them to others.like me , I will readily admit im average/plain looking and people tell me im insecure for admitting this. Maybe im missing something but IMO no amount of ego is going to change the way I look. Even if I delude myself into thinking im brad Pitt it's not going to change anything. So why try to fool myself or others?
It's not just about the looks. It's your energy, your attitude and the way a person carries them self.
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