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Topic: Mars in Gemini natives and steadiness of feelings
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I'm so cappy
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posted November 07, 2013 02:12 PM
  
I noticed this topic came up in another thread  ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
vickymadness
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posted November 07, 2013 02:13 PM
my "FEELINGS" are steady. My interests are not. As in: I may loose interest in you, but I will still care about you.IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart
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posted November 07, 2013 02:16 PM
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DaniPepper87
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posted November 07, 2013 02:17 PM
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
my "FEELINGS" are steady. My interests are not. As in: I may loose interest in you, but I will still care about you.
I don't know anything about my ex anymore, but our common friend told me that he wanted to know how I was. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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posted November 07, 2013 02:19 PM
lol @ the gifWhat if you're in love? ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
vickymadness
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posted November 07, 2013 02:20 PM
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Originally posted by SmilingHeart:
mars in gem
oh haha, please edit this or else I wouldn't be able to get in this thread without waking up the neighbors.
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Gabby
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posted November 07, 2013 02:20 PM
My feelings are steady...it seems everyone gets attached to quick, think way to much into just being friends and trying to get to know each other and they move so fast i cant keep up, and dont want to....then they wonder why im backing off....they never gave me the chance to get attached before they started pressuring me about being serious. Its not fun!
Why cant we enjoy getting to know each other without all the drama and pressure immediately?IP: Logged |
DialecticLady
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posted November 07, 2013 02:32 PM
I'm very interested in this too...is possible the love feeling endure, like in a marriage, with this mars placement?*LMFAO @ that gif...I'm never be able again to dissociate this image of mars in gemini  IP: Logged |
vickymadness
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posted November 07, 2013 02:39 PM
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Originally posted by DialecticLady:
I'm very interested in this too...is possible the love feeling endure, like in a marriage, with this mars placement?*LMFAO @ that gif...I'm never be able again to dissociate this image of mars in gemini
Yes possible.
In love, mental connection is very very important. I really cannot stress enough on this. If I feel you're on my same wavelength, then even if you're ugly and cruel I will still fall for you. Once hooked, you have to keep things interesting and fun. If you knew how to master these two, then I would be yours forever. I have a taurus venus, so maybe that saves the day for me.
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DialecticLady
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posted November 07, 2013 02:51 PM
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
Yes possible.
In love, mental connection is very very important. I really cannot stress enough on this. If I feel you're on my same wavelength, then even if you're ugly and cruel I will still fall for you. Once hooked, you have to keep things interesting and fun. If you knew how to master these two, then I would be yours forever.I have a taurus venus, so maybe that saves the day for me.
Thanks for answer vicky! I love a guy with this placement...he has moon and mars conjunct in gemini...I don't feel secure about this placement of him because I know you are bored very easily. He is also an aquarian with sun in 3th house...so you can imagine! I'm an aqua moon and rising, so my moon is in his 3th too and my leo sun in his 9th but I don't know if it's enough...my only placements in gemini are my NN and chiron  IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted November 07, 2013 02:52 PM
I agree completely with Vickymadness, when in love im there forever...unless abused!
Theres nothing more important than a mental connection to turn me on....thats why its so hard to get with us, we really need the time and space at first to connect mentally before we can fall in love....i also have venus ruled venus, but in libra...i think its my saving grace to!Looks mean nothing compared to a mental connection because beautiful people turn ugly and ugly people turn beautiful when we are given the opportunity to learn about who you really are from the inside out and that is when we fall in love forever! IP: Logged |
DialecticLady
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posted November 07, 2013 03:00 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
I agree completely with Vickymadness, when in love im there forever...unless abused!
Theres nothing more important than a mental connection to turn me on....thats why its so hard to get with us, we really need the time and space at first to connect mentally before we can fall in love....i also have venus ruled venus, but in libra...i think its my saving grace to!Looks mean nothing compared to a mental connection because beautiful people turn ugly and ugly people turn beautiful when we are given the opportunity to learn about who you really are from the inside out and that is when we fall in love forever!
WHOA! I feel like this too...exactly. Maybe it's because my NN and chiron are in my 5th and I'm a Leo one? Or because in my draconic chart I have Sun and Venus in gemini?? What you said about beautiful people turn ugly and ugly turn beautiful is the story of my life lol
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Gabby
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posted November 07, 2013 04:27 PM
I could see leo finding beauty in depth over the superficial appearances, at least a mature leo mars with a lot of depth themselves! Even though both Gemini and Leo get a bad rep for being superficial, both signs when matured enough to see depth as beautiful will only want that depth and superficial things will not be attractive to them!Edit- concerns because of your current relationship and his gemini mars, if he's mature....you have nothing to worry about. Squares to his mars are issues sometimes. The Gemini mars I've known we're good unless they had a square to something like Venus or Neptune.
Mine only trines my Uranus, I've been faithful in my relationships... Went without seeing someone I loved deeply because work made him go out of country for year....I wouldn't have dreamed of being with someone else. I only wanted him because no one else kept up with me and listened to me no matter how crazy and random my thoughts were! I had so respect and appreciation for the way he handled me, he made me feel cared about! IP: Logged |
DialecticLady
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posted November 07, 2013 04:29 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
I could see leo finding beauty in depth over the superficial appearances, at least a mature leo mars with a lot of depth themselves! Even though both Gemini and Leo get a bad rep for being superficial, both signs when matured enough to see depth as beautiful will only want that depth and superficial things will not be attractive to them!
I'm a Leo Sun, my Mars is in Scorpio  IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted November 07, 2013 04:39 PM
Leo energy matured just the same, your desire for depth shows your depth. Although having scorpio mars would make it much easier for you to be deep! Scorpio is a deep sign. Are they squared or to far apart to aspect?IP: Logged |
jjj
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posted November 07, 2013 04:45 PM
This Gemini mars I know has been married a very long time... even though he has Aries Mercury/Venus that make him even more restless. He told me that he has been faithful to his wife, but he is very flirty... or rather playful. We have an emotional connection (or rather emot affair... bad I know)... his interest for me has been constant in spite of even months that go between we see each other in a group environment. I think that Gem mars can be faithful, but he needs excitement and playfulness in his life. He has a strong cappy saturn that anchors him.
If he had a Gemini venus as well, he would be a player, Im sure. His Pisces sun makes him insecure and sensitive and thus counterbalances his gemininess. We have many Chiron connections, we shake each others (inner) lives.IP: Logged |
DialecticLady
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posted November 07, 2013 06:43 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Leo energy matured just the same, your desire for depth shows your depth. Although having scorpio mars would make it much easier for you to be deep! Scorpio is a deep sign. Are they squared or to far apart to aspect?
Hey Gabby! Thanks for help me to understand this They make a wide square (8 degree). I actually see myself a little bit plutonian since I've got Pluto on MC, Saturn in Scorpio,venus in 8th house and sun/moon midpoint in scorpio too. However I don't know if gemini mars would like all this "deep" in me, but, if you're are saying as they get older the better, I'll pray for this His gemini mars (7th) is opposite his neptune (ASC)... IP: Logged |
DialecticLady
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posted November 07, 2013 06:50 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Mine only trines my Uranus, I've been faithful in my relationships... Went without seeing someone I loved deeply because work made him go out of country for year....I wouldn't have dreamed of being with someone else. I only wanted him because no one else kept up with me and listened to me no matter how crazy and random my thoughts were! I had so respect and appreciation for the way he handled me, he made me feel cared about!
Wow, very good to know this! He said that he likes to tell his thoughts to me, only.He said that he can't open up to anyone besides me but with all my scorpionic vibe in my chart I'm suspicious. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted November 07, 2013 06:55 PM
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Originally posted by DialecticLady:
Hey Gabby! Thanks for help me to understand this They make a wide square (8 degree). I actually see myself a little bit plutonian since I've got Pluto on MC, Saturn in Scorpio,venus in 8th house and sun/moon midpoint in scorpio too. However I don't know if gemini mars would like all this "deep" in me, but, if you're are saying as they get older the better, I'll pray for this His gemini mars (7th) is opposite his neptune (ASC)...
Ive a gemini mars....i love the deep stuff your interested in! I think there is hope! Hmmm, but i do have pluto on my Ascendant under 2 degrees, that might play a part in my love of the deep stuff! Does he have anything, maybe pluto aspecting his mars, sun or angle or in scorpio? Your 8 degree square wont be too intense, probably somewhat of a struggle to deal with these two energies that clash....but being so far apart it wont be as intense as it could be. Gemini mars opposite neptune, usually the hard aspects arent so great but neptune touching gemini mars at all is going to give gemini mars either delusions or a desire to find enlightenment which would bring the depth...they can conflict or compliment, usually maturity and experience will bring around the compliment. IP: Logged |
geea
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posted November 07, 2013 07:02 PM
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
Yes possible.
In love, mental connection is very very important. I really cannot stress enough on this. If I feel you're on my same wavelength, then even if you're ugly and cruel I will still fall for you. Once hooked, you have to keep things interesting and fun. If you knew how to master these two, then I would be yours forever.
dont give them away all our secrets!  IP: Logged |
DialecticLady
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posted November 07, 2013 07:07 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Ive a gemini mars....i love the deep stuff your interested in! I think there is hope!Hmmm, but i do have pluto on my Ascendant under 2 degrees, that might play a part in my love of the deep stuff! Does he have anything, maybe pluto aspecting his mars, sun or angle or in scorpio?
He has Pluto trine: Sun, Moon and Mars! Pluto squares his venus (cappy) too \o/ Thanks so much again Gabby
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DialecticLady
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posted November 07, 2013 07:10 PM
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dont give them away all our secrets!
Heeeyy!!! Be good to me, pleaaase! IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted November 07, 2013 07:13 PM
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Originally posted by DialecticLady:
Wow, very good to know this! He said that he likes to tell his thoughts to me, only.He said that he can't open up to anyone besides me but with all my scorpionic vibe in my chart I'm suspicious.
Oh, wow! Thats awesome...when we find the person who lets us be us, doesnt judge or make us feel strange for our out there thoughts....we dont ever want that person to be to far away!
Its so rare to get that...if you can try to keep suspicions to a minimum because that makes us feel we arent understood and all we really want is to understood....we feel so out there with the constant storm in our brains...its nice to find some shelter with someone who will accept us as is!
I still have so much love for the person who did that for me, and i will to the day i die! Hes genuinely my best friend, the very few times hes looked at me like i was crazy....it broke my heart!
I know i could say anything, and he'd see the validity in my point even if he disagreed with it! Thats all we want is to feel understood and accepted! IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted November 07, 2013 07:22 PM
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Originally posted by DialecticLady:
He has Pluto trine: Sun, Moon and Mars! Pluto squares his venus (cappy) too \o/ Thanks so much again Gabby
Your so welcome, i love this stuff!
The trines are awesome, they wont be as intense as your scorpio placements but he will be able to keep up...trines build up steam as they go, they grow....conjunctions or your scorpio placements are more like, "BAM" no denying the intensity! The square will give just as must intense energy but it will be an energy that causes stress...possibly temperamental.
If he gets angry at times with your intensity, its possibly because he feels the same within himself but cant express as he thinks he should, he feels blocked and your effortlessly expressing yours reminds him of something he doesnt like about himself and wishes he was more like you....but what guy is going to be aware enough to know thats why hes angry? LOL
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DialecticLady
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posted November 07, 2013 07:27 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Oh, wow! Thats awesome...when we find the person who lets us be us, doesnt judge or make us feel strange for our out there thoughts....we dont ever want that person to be to far away!
Its so rare to get that...if you can try to keep suspicions to a minimum because that makes us feel we arent understood and all we really want is to understood....we feel so out there with the constant storm in our brains...its nice to find some shelter with someone who will accept us as is!
I still have so much love for the person who did that for me, and i will to the day i die! Hes genuinely my best friend, the very few times hes looked at me like i was crazy....it broke my heart!
I know i could say anything, and he'd see the validity in my point even if he disagreed with it! Thats all we want is to feel understood and accepted!
Thanks for sharing this Gabby! My suspicion is because sometimes I can't believe I'm the only one like he says, I don't get how matters to him feel truly understood for someone. But you made a point when you said it's rare find someone that don't judge you...I always forget this because I'm an aqua moon and almost nothing shock me. Loved your insight IP: Logged |
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