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Topic: Relationships & age gap
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IrisRainbow
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From: Pluto
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 31, 2013 01:44 PM
  
Who do you think would jump in a relationship with a much older/or younger person?Placements aspects ect And what is your opinion about those relationships? IP: Logged |
DaniPepper87
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From: Curitiba, Brasil
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 31, 2013 01:48 PM
As I have Venus Conjunct Saturn, older men always get my attention, and yes, I'd jump into a relationship with them!  For the younger, I guess Venus with Uranus. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted October 31, 2013 01:50 PM
^ Exactly.IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted October 31, 2013 01:55 PM
I hear saturn in the 7th.
Venus/saturn
Moon/saturn for men.
Not sure about younger.
In general men like younger women so...As far as I'm concerned people can do who they wish. I have friends significantly older than me but I've always been intimidated being with someone who is on a completely different stage in life..
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IrisRainbow
Knowflake Posts: 539
From: Pluto
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 31, 2013 02:00 PM
I have Venus Trine Uranus and Venus Sextile Saturn lol
I have always been attracted to older men(Well not creepy old men that are like 40 o.o) because they seem smarter but it depends on the person,I guess.
I just don't like this ''swag'' and stuff of my generation,makes me want to throw up.IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
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From: vodka fine, I'm so divine
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posted October 31, 2013 02:04 PM
Saturn is the automatic older planet thing...but I imagine Mercury or Moon for younger, no? Idk...Uranus is more of a wildcard in my experience, not necessarily younger.  IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted October 31, 2013 02:16 PM
When I was young and my childrens father was 5 and 7 years older than me. Today I never ever will be attracted to an older man..Just now I feel equal to the men who are 5-10 years younger than me. We women lives seven year longer than men so I also think there is an natural thing that women often changes their mind when they get older. Ive seen young women married older men and they often been very unhappy when they been older...Of course not everyone.Ive venus trine saturn IP: Logged |
IrisRainbow
Knowflake Posts: 539
From: Pluto
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 31, 2013 02:20 PM
I'm not talking about marriage here but I see where you're coming from.IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 31, 2013 02:21 PM
I've never been interested in younger guys. It's hard for me to even imagine myself with one, at least now. Peers? I'm not saying never. Older men? What can I say, they have like 95% of my attention. But what do you mean by much older exactly? 15? 20? 30? I guess I would have doubts about someone who's 20+ years older than me. But if it seemed like we are very compatible, have a lot in common etc. then I would probably go for it  This is what I suppose makes me so:
Capricorn stellium (Sun, Saturn, Uranus and Neptune, NN)
Venus conjunct Saturn (wide though)
Moon square Saturn
Mars trine Saturn What's funny, my friend who was born a week before me is into younger, sometimes even much younger guys (which weirds me out) so Cap dominance might not be enough 
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I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy.
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DaniPepper87
Knowflake Posts: 447
From: Curitiba, Brasil
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 31, 2013 02:24 PM
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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
Saturn is the automatic older planet thing...but I imagine Mercury or Moon for younger, no? Idk...Uranus is more of a wildcard in my experience, not necessarily younger.
Have to agree, Uranus is a wildcard. I met one 3 years younger... And very Uranian \o/ IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted October 31, 2013 02:43 PM
I'm with Caps on this one.
Hardly ever pay attention to people my age; not even mentioning younger people.I'm sure it's all about my daddy issues.  Although, I'm definitely open to suggestions from younger people - "never say never" and all that. 
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IrisRainbow
Knowflake Posts: 539
From: Pluto
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 31, 2013 02:48 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
I've never been interested in younger guys. It's hard for me to even imagine myself with one, at least now. Peers? I'm not saying never. Older men? What can I say, they have like 95% of my attention. But what do you mean by much older exactly? 15? 20? 30? I guess I would have doubts about someone who's 20+ years older than me. But if it seemed like we are very compatible, have a lot in common etc. then I would probably go for it This is what I suppose makes me so:
Capricorn stellium (Sun, Saturn, Uranus and Neptune, NN)
Venus conjunct Saturn (wide though)
Moon square Saturn
Mars trine Saturn What's funny, my friend who was born a week before me is into younger, sometimes even much younger guys (which weirds me out) so Cap dominance might not be enough
I have a very heavy saturn influence and obviously...daddy issues as well so that might be why I like older men :P
Well,I find 20-year-old girls with 50-year-old men just too..weird o.0 I can deal with about 20 years difference but not more IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
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posted October 31, 2013 02:51 PM
Haha. Daddy issues rule  ------------------
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somethingexcellent
Knowflake Posts: 3673
From: vodka fine, I'm so divine
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posted October 31, 2013 02:54 PM
I have Venus trine Saturn and Saturn in H7 and older people aren't interesting to me...I mean, I guess I might be open to that if it ever came to that, but I have eyes for hot, young, fit people like myself...  Given my age group, anyone younger than me is kind of illegal, so that's out.  IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
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posted October 31, 2013 02:58 PM
Yeah...The girl I mentioned didn't mind to fool around with a 14 year-old  I can't wrap my head around it. ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
IrisRainbow
Knowflake Posts: 539
From: Pluto
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 31, 2013 03:16 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Haha. Daddy issues rule
No sh*t IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 31, 2013 03:28 PM
I dunno actors actresses in there 30's are pretty hot, i'd say hotter than most 20 year olds.
I've seen people in their late 30's that are much more attractive than my age group ....
I'm not attracted to hipster girls and swag fags  I can appreciate it but realistically it would probably be awkward unless it's a bang bang see you later situation. IP: Logged |
IrisRainbow
Knowflake Posts: 539
From: Pluto
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 31, 2013 03:34 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I dunno actors actresses in there 30's are pretty hot, i'd say hotter than most 20 year olds.
I've seen people in their late 30's that are much more attractive than my age group ....
I'm not attracted to hipster girls and swag fags I can appreciate it but realistically it would probably be awkward unless it's a bang bang see you later situation.
Now that you mentioned actors... Jensen from SPN and Ian Somerhalder are two very good examples-drools- IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
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From: vodka fine, I'm so divine
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posted October 31, 2013 03:39 PM
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Kerosene: I can appreciate it but realistically it would probably be awkward unless it's a bang bang see you later situation.
Lmfao! Which is just the way I liked it. No but really celebrities are untouchable, so I don't care for them. I mean, there are a few I suppose I consider celebrity crushes...but I don't see the point in being invested in them, I guess. It's not hot to me if when I go to touch it, it's just a computer/television screen! IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 31, 2013 03:46 PM
Same here.. actors are untouchable, bad example. I dunno my boss is really hot...
Mid 30's single
Aries/Aqua moon
Successful, ambitious, and smart..
I'm totally thinking of all the sexual things I would do while I should be working. I'm just the intern.... I don't want to ever feel like I'm less, or that I'm lucky to be with this person, you know what I mean? Younger person with an older person does not seem equal... I like equality in relationships, isn't that what a partnership is about? That's why I don't go after people significantly older than me. IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted October 31, 2013 05:07 PM
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Originally posted by IrisRainbow:
I'm not talking about marriage here but I see where you're coming from.
Not me either... the point was age gap.. Where do you think I coming from? IP: Logged |
ELoveCherishEndure
Knowflake Posts: 360
From: EJonesLandiainSuburbia (LOL)
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted October 31, 2013 05:45 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I hear saturn in the 7th.
Venus/saturn
Moon/saturn for men.
Not sure about younger.
In general men like younger women so...As far as I'm concerned people can do who they wish. I have friends significantly older than me but I've always been intimidated being with someone who is on a completely different stage in life..
I agree... I would find it really difficult to date a man in his 30s. It just would be awkward for me. I don't know what we would have in common. It just would make no sense to date someone who is that much older in my case. I guess it is because I have a sister that is five years older and it feels extremely weird to date someone older than her.
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ELoveCherishEndure
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From: EJonesLandiainSuburbia (LOL)
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted October 31, 2013 05:48 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
I've never been interested in younger guys. It's hard for me to even imagine myself with one, at least now. Peers? I'm not saying never. Older men? What can I say, they have like 95% of my attention. But what do you mean by much older exactly? 15? 20? 30? I guess I would have doubts about someone who's 20+ years older than me. But if it seemed like we are very compatible, have a lot in common etc. then I would probably go for it This is what I suppose makes me so:
Capricorn stellium (Sun, Saturn, Uranus and Neptune, NN)
Venus conjunct Saturn (wide though)
Moon square Saturn
Mars trine Saturn What's funny, my friend who was born a week before me is into younger, sometimes even much younger guys (which weirds me out) so Cap dominance might not be enough
Damn that is a whole lot of Saturn there. Maturity is no issue in your case. I agree about peers, though. It is very hard to find peers who are on the same level as women when they're young.
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Ellynlvx
Knowflake Posts: 778
From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 31, 2013 05:54 PM
Venus on the South Node sometimes denotes something out of time, or off on the timing like that.Synastry-wise, if I'm remembering right... IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted October 31, 2013 06:43 PM
I have cap venus conjunct 1st house saturn, moon square saturn, and I've never been attracted to much older or younger men. I usually like to play with my peers lol. Often, the limit is 5 years older than me or 1-2 years younger than me. I sometimes find myself drawn to people who are much older than me coz I often see them as "older and wiser", I love listening to their stories, experiences and such. My opinion??? Hmm I think it's ok if people fall in love, it's their business. But relationships with a big age difference are not for me. With prominent saturn/capricorn in the chart (sun/venus/asc/saturn/uranus/neptune/NN), I sometimes attract much older men, heh. I find it weird, like "Uncle, go play with someone your age, geez". IP: Logged |
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