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AnastasiyaEnchanted
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posted February 09, 2014 07:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AnastasiyaEnchanted     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A friend of mine was looking at my natal chart and quickly said that in my prior life I was very relationship oriented but in this life time the relationship department is very slow. This kind of put me down. I feel like I really want to be in a partnership with someone and its important to me. As of now, I never had a relationship yet, can anyone say if I have a potential to or am I doomed to stay single forever?

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FruityLlama
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posted February 09, 2014 08:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruityLlama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think they meant that this lifetime is a time for you to concentrate on yourself as you have all your planets between houses 1-6 which are the personal houses. I don't think this means that you'll be single forever. You won't be if you consciously want it and go for it. I mean, I'm no expert, I just noticed how concentrated the personal side of your chart was. Plus you're ascendant is Libra which is a sociable, attractive sign

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FruityLlama
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posted February 09, 2014 08:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruityLlama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
plus, you're north node conjuncts the ascendant. It's very much about the individual.

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m.blade
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posted February 09, 2014 08:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for m.blade     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by FruityLlama:
plus, you're north node conjuncts the ascendant. It's very much about the individual.

Yes.

South node conjunct descendants means your used to being in relationships, business encounters are familiar around others

With nn conjunct ascendant, your path of life is independent, you will learn to be independent, assertive and to more or less, be yourself.

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posted February 09, 2014 04:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What's in your houses from 5-9?

But don't worry, you are still very young, it's normal to be single at this age…actually very good too!

But having a relationship, shouldn't be an issue, with venus conjunct mars and conjunct jupiter… you also got a libra ascendant, sextile your venus, which makes your venus very strong in your chart, along with jupiter Moon in aqua can be tricky, cause you need emotionally to be out of reach sometimes, and not available, but it's in 4th house and sextile jupiter, so you're probably very optimistic in general, and actually very lucky! You just have to find a person who understands that you need freedom, and they DO exist

Venus/jupiter aspects - lot's of short relationships, but many romances and flirts through life
Venus/mars aspects - attracts the opposite sex, many admires and it's easy to flirt

--- you'll find out with time how easy it is to find someone, trust me

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AscTaurus
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posted February 10, 2014 02:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AscTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
First off, Saturn

Saturn is in the 5th house. You don't do much "playing" around or even flirting; unless that flirting will lead to something substantial

Second Pluto

Sun/Mercury/Pluto.

You are only interested in meaningful exchanges. Anything that smells superficial or is of no real depth bores you

Third

Uranus and Neptune squares the Asc.

Neptune conjunct Uranus square Asc suggests someone who is not easy to read. You may feel "alone" even if you are not. Feel incompatible to the relevant environment you find yourself in. Always, it seems, you just don't "belong" anywhere.

Lastly

True Node conjunct the Asc.

I'll agree that this placement gives the native a far more "self" oriented point of view. And with this in mind, relating to others becomes more challenging.


You are still very young and should just relax. You are more likely to understand yourself better as you age.

You may also attract older people into your life because you seem like the type who "plays only for keeps".

This need to "nest" or be in a relationship could be transiting Saturn hitting your Moon by square in the 4th house.

The square always suggests that we are trying "too hard". This need to nurture or be responsible for something is brought on by this Moon square. Just be careful of the type of guys you attract because of it. They may have a "mamma" complex.

Or you may find yourself thrust with a lot of responsibility overnight if the decisions you make aren't well thought out.

I know a lady who felt her life was missing "something important" during this transit, She decided to have a baby and the problem is, she was not finished with her studies and managed to "cramp" her life tremendously after the baby was born.

Although she adores her kid, she has many regrets and admits the timing was off!

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Gabby
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posted February 10, 2014 03:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What I notice is your Venus is at a very important degree, cap@0....a new beginning degree in a cardinal sign, this is showing in this lifetime you will be wanting to learn a new way to relate love and relationships! You will probably find your first few relationships just don't make you feel good about yourself, not that anything is wrong or they don't treat you good....you just know you can have more depth and more maturity in a relationship and that is what you really are desiring in this life!

With a SN in aries on your DC I would say you jumped into relationships without thinking and your responsibility towards your relationship was low because it wasn't your 1st priority and this left your partner carrying the burden of responsibility and maturity alone in your relationship. You must have seen this about yourself, maybe towards the end of life and wish there was more time to change it but there just wasn't!
There is a lot of things that you focused on in your past life....why is your Nodal axis making this one thing stand out?
Because your higher self, your soul said this is something that is very important to you to change this time around! You don't want to be that person anymore!
So you made a life path that will force you to focus on it and start a new way of relating to relationships!

You probably will marry or find your true love later in life because before then, you will be using relationships to grow, change and learn about yourself and watch how your behavior affects others, you will love but you will know your not doing as good as you want to...you will still be questioning what's good, what's bad?

You probably will feel frustrated and overwhelmed with your relationships for quite awhile but remember it's not the relationship that's upsetting you....it's that you hVe a standard in your heart of what you want to be but you don't know how to be that person, you feel let down and disappointed in yourself through your relationships for awhile!
Just keep this in mind!!! Your purpose is not to be perfect your purpose is to learn....don't expect perfection expect to mess up and then learn from it!
After you've been on this path of always feeling let down when you enter relationships, eventually you will think you want to give up and you will probably choose to stop engaging in relationships!
This is the period of time that all you've experienced will start to sink in, you will spend a great deal of time watching others and how they are in their relationships and things will start making sense to you...you will see and feel your mistakes and know what to do to be different so you don't feel like a failure in relationships...

Cap in 3rd is willing to return to the innocence of saying I just don't know, I don't have the experience to yet...please teach me! That's what your doing with love in this lifetime! So you won't be afraid to say I don't know!
It will be after this that you will find that special person your meant to share what you've learned with, and learn more from because you've allowed yourself to be vulnerable to them...it may not immediately after because you will still be putting everything together and learning to use it in the way that makes you feel good....but it won't be to long afterwards you will find that love that makes you know your on the right path!!

Your NN in libra means love, true love is your life's mission....but first you must know what it means to truly love another!

I'm sorry for the typos....I'm on my phone but your question touched me, I felt an innocence in you. Your kind of fragile because you fear nobody will love you in this life...I believe your spirit would be crushed if that were true, but that's not true! You really love, love! But you soul recognizes your need to learn how to love with more maturity and that's going to take time! So hang in there and you will get it, and then you will feel more loved than you have ever felt before!

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Gabby
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posted February 10, 2014 04:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Look at the sabian symbols for your past life....
Blain Bovee...
Aries 26: A man possessed of more gifts than he can hold
So many talents. If I could only make up my mind...
Aries 26 is all about an abundance of talent, potential, ability.
There is a natural sense of being able to do so many things, so well. So, which one to choose? It is not by accident that Aries 26 works in tandem with Libra 26 to form what I call "The Superman Degrees".

Somehow that abundance proves a problem in many cases. It is hard to be really good at all things.
With so many balls in the air, hesitation is disastrous ('dis-aster; the unfavorable influence of a star). The Aries 26 person is best when a true Aries: act first; consider later. But it is also possible that the Aries individual acts without hesitation, but just cannot stay with one thing for long. In this case, rapid forward movement is hindered by having to keep so many balls in the air.


***this is me***...to me, I think this is showing you probably dropped the ball on your relationships in the last life, you jumped into it but then didn't stick with it, somewhere along the way you saw how it hurt the people you love.....in this life you want to correct it so you feel good about your accomplishment in love, you want to focus on that and learn how to love in a way that makes you proud of the way you love others!

Your cap Venus would be rounded up to Capricorn@1

The sabian symbol for that....
Capricorn 1: An Indian chief demands recognition
Theme: Stepping up.
Inspiration: The son says to his father, "Its time for you to turn over the keys to me."


You could also say instead of 'stepping up'...'growing up'!
When it's time for a father to hand over the keys to his son, it means that son has worked hard, practiced and proven he is ready to take the responsibility and do a good a job!
He has shown he is worthy of respect and by saying..."dad give me the keys, I can do it!"
He saying dad please recognize how hard I've worked to be mature and please see I'm ready to do this the right way!
This is the attitude you will have in this life regarding love and relationships! You want to do it right and won't settle for anything less of yourself!

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Gabby
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posted February 10, 2014 04:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your North Node purpose...

(LIBRA 26) AN EAGLE AND A LARGE WHITE DOVE CHANGE INTO EACH OTHER

[Keynote: The interaction of the spiritual Will and of the Love principle when critical needs arise.]

The sequence of symbols concluding the Libra phase of the cycle deals with problems met by the seeker for the fulfillment of a higher life of Relationship. Implied here is a kind of Yang-Yin interplay. When the circle encompassing both principles rotates fast, they appear to change into each other. Consciousness operates beyond duality, because the polarized energies of the Soul (or Spirit), Will and Love, though ever distinct, work for a single purpose.


****Showing your will is desiring to combine itself with love and move forward as one in this life!
This is no easy process, but it will be a huge accomplishment, so hang in there!

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AnastasiyaEnchanted
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posted February 10, 2014 06:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AnastasiyaEnchanted     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you! I really appreciate everyone looking at my chart and answering my question. So many good and wise answers, each one was very helpful :3

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posted February 10, 2014 06:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 7thGuardian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Based on your chart - your long term relationship implies a dominant figure - though, you tend to fall in love with dreamers. So maybe a mix between this two. He might be a foreigner and you might meet him on the internet.

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Kerosene
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posted February 10, 2014 07:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
you're 18... Teen dramas are fantasies that only happen to few kids.
I know kissless 25 year olds not because they are unattractive but never put themselves out there.
Esp in this generation which is more introverted than past generations.
Kids spend more time in solitude doing hobbies rather than going out.

If you're too afraid try online dating if you interact with someone online for a few weeks you may be more comfortable around each other.

Go to parties with your friends. that's the most classic way to meet people. I guarantee if you go out more to social functions you will meet some cute boy that fancies you.

but honestly your chart is fine and again you're a teenager....

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posted February 15, 2014 08:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astrofan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by AnastasiyaEnchanted:
A friend of mine was looking at my natal chart and quickly said that in my prior life I was very relationship oriented but in this life time the relationship department is very slow. This kind of put me down. I feel like I really want to be in a partnership with someone and its important to me. As of now, I never had a relationship yet, can anyone say if I have a potential to or am I doomed to stay single forever?

it will be much later in life. by then your personal and professional ambition is already achieved. you will have relationships before that, but less fulfilling, flaky and prone to abuse

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geminigal2805
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posted February 16, 2014 04:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for geminigal2805     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anastasia enchanted don't worry about it. I have my NN sitting exactly on my cancer Asc!
When I was of your age I yearned for a serious relationship. Sadly it lead to heartbreak and abuse.It broke my self confidence. Then I stayed single n concentrated on my career n made few selfish decisions against my family's wishes. I put my wishes/ambitions before others. Surprisingly being selfish didn't come easy or natural at the beginning. But now I'm a happy person with a beautiful family of my own.
Good luck to you. If u ask me u r still young.Go out n have some fun. Serious relationships r not always fun u know lol.

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