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Topic: Disliking superficial relationships
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NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 722 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 22, 2014 03:41 PM
Anyone else feel like they can't connect with people who just want to get with you just for the sake of getting together? The relationship just feels like an empty shell to me, with no meaning or purpose.I think this is down to my Venus aqua conjunct Saturn, relationships take time to develop for me, I'll not put up with cheating, games ect. Either I'm going to meet my soulmate in this life or die alone, sounds harsh but I really dislike meaningless chit chat relationships. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 5880 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 22, 2014 03:44 PM
------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
lifefullofwords Knowflake Posts: 153 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 22, 2014 03:54 PM
Yeah, I feel the same way... unless the relationship is serious it's not even worth my time. I think it's because I have Venus square Saturn and Mars in Cap. For some reason I'm sure I'll meet someone someday despite being picky, I think that's Venus trine Neptune.IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 5880 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 22, 2014 03:55 PM
------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade Knowflake Posts: 627 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 22, 2014 05:12 PM
I'm not interested in superficial relationships. No point really. I don't put up with games and non-sense. But not all important, non-superficial, serious relationships are meant to be forever and ever. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 5880 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 22, 2014 05:14 PM
quote: But not all important, non-superficial, serious relationships are meant to be forever and ever.
Shhh! You're spoiling the mood ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade Knowflake Posts: 627 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 22, 2014 05:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: Shhh! You're spoiling the mood
Oh... sorry. IP: Logged |
ShineYourLight Knowflake Posts: 169 From: Registered: May 2013
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posted April 23, 2014 06:59 AM
Yeah I also feel the same way.. I'd rather just be alone than to be with someone that I think is "okay".. I cringe whenever I see people getting into relationships just cuz they're lonely.. I have this lovely Yod between Saturn/Moon and Venus at the Apex in the 7th which is supposedly making me search for a "perfect" love... #help + I also don't think it's fair to get into a relationship with someone that you don't really care about.. that feels so wrong to me. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 798 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted April 23, 2014 07:35 AM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Based on your Persona charts, not a chance IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 5880 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 23, 2014 07:37 AM
That was a visual commentary to lifefullofwords' reply ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Pure Knowflake Posts: 235 From: UK Registered: Apr 2012
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posted April 23, 2014 07:58 AM
I used to dislike superficial relationships but then I decided to stop being pretentious. IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade Knowflake Posts: 627 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 23, 2014 09:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by Pure: I used to dislike superficial relationships but then I decided to stop being pretentious.
LOL. I don't mind superficial relationships with friends. Not so much with someone I'm dating. It just seems empty after a while. I mean obviously I can date them and have fun just eventually they end up in the friend zone. You have to get out and date to find out if it's going to ever become "un-superficial". IP: Logged |
Chiemi Moderator Posts: 1451 From: Michigan Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 23, 2014 09:18 AM
I'm like this despite having my Venus in Libra. Even though I'm "relationship oriented" I won't just date anything to say I have someone. Maybe it's my Virgo Sun (picky) And my relationship houses: Pluto/Mars/Jupiter in 5th/Scorpio on 5th house cusp Uranus/Neptune in Capricorn on 7th house cusp Oh and my Venus persona chart has Scorpio Ascendant with Scorpio Moon/Mars/Pluto in 1st and Saturn in the 5th and it's also in the Scorpio duad. IP: Logged |
Scorpy_bull92 Newflake Posts: 8 From: Dreamworld, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted April 25, 2014 01:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by lifefullofwords: Yeah, I feel the same way... unless the relationship is serious it's not even worth my time. I think it's because I have Venus square Saturn and Mars in Cap. For some reason I'm sure I'll meet someone someday despite being picky, I think that's Venus trine Neptune.
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Very similar feelings. I have venus square saturn, venus trine neptune, but my Mars in Aries sometimes gets me trouble. IP: Logged |
starlitroad Knowflake Posts: 122 From: romania,botosani Registered: Feb 2014
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posted April 25, 2014 01:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by Scorpy_bull92:
^^ Very similar feelings. I have venus square saturn, venus trine neptune, but my Mars in Aries sometimes gets me trouble.
I have exactly these aspects ..wow.. and I can see from miles away somebody who isn't in for a deep connection and just wants the time to pass and talk for the sake of talking. I am not in for superficial bonds, but I afford to talk abb non-sense( gem sun) after the bond is created, than I can talk of whatever
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Tulipe Knowflake Posts: 325 From: France Registered: Feb 2014
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posted April 25, 2014 01:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by starlitroad: I have exactly these aspects and I can see from miles away somebody who isn't in for a deep connection and just wants the time to pass and talk for the sake of talking. I am not in for superficial bonds.
Yay for Venus/Pluto/Saturn IP: Logged |