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NeptunianSag
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posted April 22, 2014 03:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NeptunianSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyone else feel like they can't connect with people who just want to get with you just for the sake of getting together? The relationship just feels like an empty shell to me, with no meaning or purpose.

I think this is down to my Venus aqua conjunct Saturn, relationships take time to develop for me, I'll not put up with cheating, games ect. Either I'm going to meet my soulmate in this life or die alone, sounds harsh but I really dislike meaningless chit chat relationships.

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I'm so cappy
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posted April 22, 2014 03:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy.

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lifefullofwords
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posted April 22, 2014 03:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lifefullofwords     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, I feel the same way... unless the relationship is serious it's not even worth my time. I think it's because I have Venus square Saturn and Mars in Cap. For some reason I'm sure I'll meet someone someday despite being picky, I think that's Venus trine Neptune.

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I'm so cappy
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posted April 22, 2014 03:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy.

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LucieLemonade
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posted April 22, 2014 05:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LucieLemonade     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not interested in superficial relationships. No point really. I don't put up with games and non-sense. But not all important, non-superficial, serious relationships are meant to be forever and ever.

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I'm so cappy
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posted April 22, 2014 05:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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But not all important, non-superficial, serious relationships are meant to be forever and ever.

Shhh! You're spoiling the mood

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I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy.

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LucieLemonade
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posted April 22, 2014 05:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LucieLemonade     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Shhh! You're spoiling the mood


Oh... sorry.

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ShineYourLight
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posted April 23, 2014 06:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ShineYourLight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah I also feel the same way.. I'd rather just be alone than to be with someone that I think is "okay".. I cringe whenever I see people getting into relationships just cuz they're lonely..

I have this lovely Yod between Saturn/Moon and Venus at the Apex in the 7th which is supposedly making me search for a "perfect" love... #help

+ I also don't think it's fair to get into a relationship with someone that you don't really care about.. that feels so wrong to me.

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LeeLoo2014
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posted April 23, 2014 07:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:


Based on your Persona charts, not a chance

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I'm so cappy
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posted April 23, 2014 07:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That was a visual commentary to lifefullofwords' reply

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Pure
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posted April 23, 2014 07:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I used to dislike superficial relationships but then I decided to stop being pretentious.

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LucieLemonade
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posted April 23, 2014 09:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LucieLemonade     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Pure:
I used to dislike superficial relationships but then I decided to stop being pretentious.

LOL.

I don't mind superficial relationships with friends. Not so much with someone I'm dating. It just seems empty after a while. I mean obviously I can date them and have fun just eventually they end up in the friend zone.

You have to get out and date to find out if it's going to ever become "un-superficial".

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Chiemi
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posted April 23, 2014 09:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chiemi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm like this despite having my Venus in Libra. Even though I'm "relationship oriented" I won't just date anything to say I have someone.

Maybe it's my Virgo Sun (picky)
And my relationship houses:
Pluto/Mars/Jupiter in 5th/Scorpio on 5th house cusp
Uranus/Neptune in Capricorn on 7th house cusp

Oh and my Venus persona chart has Scorpio Ascendant with Scorpio Moon/Mars/Pluto in 1st and Saturn in the 5th and it's also in the Scorpio duad.

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Scorpy_bull92
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posted April 25, 2014 01:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpy_bull92     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

quote:
Originally posted by lifefullofwords:
Yeah, I feel the same way... unless the relationship is serious it's not even worth my time. I think it's because I have Venus square Saturn and Mars in Cap. For some reason I'm sure I'll meet someone someday despite being picky, I think that's Venus trine Neptune.


^^

Very similar feelings. I have venus square saturn, venus trine neptune, but my Mars in Aries sometimes gets me trouble.

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starlitroad
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posted April 25, 2014 01:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starlitroad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Scorpy_bull92:


^^

Very similar feelings. I have venus square saturn, venus trine neptune, but my Mars in Aries sometimes gets me trouble.


I have exactly these aspects ..wow..
and I can see from miles away somebody who isn't in for a deep connection and just wants the time to pass and talk for the sake of talking.
I am not in for superficial bonds, but I afford to talk abb non-sense( gem sun) after the bond is created, than I can talk of whatever

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Tulipe
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posted April 25, 2014 01:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Tulipe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by starlitroad:
I have exactly these aspects
and I can see from miles away somebody who isn't in for a deep connection and just wants the time to pass and talk for the sake of talking.
I am not in for superficial bonds.

Yay for Venus/Pluto/Saturn

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