posted April 30, 2022 09:21 AM            

Especially since she is willing to watch your kid so you two can have alone time. No one is perfect but she can't be that bad since your husband trusts her with your son.

I feel like Saturn makes us deal with things we don't want to deal with.

posted May 02, 2022 12:19 AM            

Saturn on Ven limits the tolerance one has for relationships of no real value to them. They break apart and only those which are enduring/ sincere last. In fact anything considered of value (Ven) by the native during this transit, is heavily tested for durability.

Generally Ven rules money, relationships (platonic as well as romantic), our sensitive/feminine side (together with the Moon),pleasure/leisure as well as one's own sense of self worth/value.

During this transit, our self esteem may hit an all time low(this especially if we based our value/self worth on external factors I.e how many friends we have, how attractive people think we are or how much stuff of monetary value we have etc.)

Saturn may hollow such things of Venus to be/feel very shallow or superficial. This to a point where they bring no lasting joy or feel 'cheap'.

When this happens, we feel like we haven't acquired anything at all that is worth something. So we may turn this inward to say "I have nothing. Therefore I AM nothing." Depression can set in and then we contract (Sat) temporarily to figure out what TRUE worth or TRUE value is.

We may spend more time with friends that are true. And if we are not sure of the bond, we spend time busy re-evaluating just who our friends are and what that bond means.

This attitude may be extended to all types of relationships and Venus related themes in the chart(look at where Ven is and what it rules) . These things will go through an "audit".

Moon-Uranus natally suggests that the bond between the baby and the maternal figure(Mom or otherwise) was interrupted very early on OR was (due to often unforeseen circumstances beyond anyone's control) couldn't be stabilized and therefore(over time) grew platonic or estranged.

The native with such a position will feel a detachment towards their maternal figure and by consequence,a sort of "divorce" from their own emotional natures because the 1st person who was was supposed to help them connect with their feeling part(Mom/maternal figure) represented by the Moon, was dislocated from them early on.

When it's in the 12th house, Mom can feel "oceans away " that even if she is not physically living on the other side of the world,the emotional distance between the native and the Mother is so great. She might as well be🤷🏿‍♂️.

Sometimes the Moon-Ura aspect with the 12th house combo suggests a maternal figure who has some impediment-either a physical ailment or mental illness etc. That made them unable to be consistently there for the native.

Maybe they went to prison/were put in an asylum or became distracted with other external (and often pressing matters) at critical points of the native's life? Simply put-they(maternal figure) were simply not there. Or the native didnt feel their presence.