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Topic: Attractive people(astrology) is it hard to be together with them?
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next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 1217
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 12, 2014 06:18 AM
  
I'm gonna collect some of the aspects/positions I think really attract some romance flings and attention from the opposite sex like:Venus-jupiter
Venus-mars
venus-moon
venus-pluto
mars-neptune? venus in libra, venus in scorpio, venus in 5th, 8th, 7th house? The more of these aspects/position a person got, the more they seem to attract romantic love affairs, right? Is it a bit difficult to be with people who get this much attention? Like for an example venus-jupiter people often take relationship and love for granted because it's so easy for them to find something new….? IP: Logged |
AnastasiyaEnchanted
Knowflake Posts: 231
From: Canada
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 12, 2014 06:37 AM
I got:venus-mars
venus-jupiter
libra rising
venus sextile ascendant
venus minor aspects to pluto and Neptune
mars sextile ascendant Unfortunately for me, I don't seem to attract a lot of male attention. I just give off this "sweet" vibe that people say makes it easy to be around me. I would consider myself to be pretty average. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 1217
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 12, 2014 06:44 AM
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Originally posted by AnastasiyaEnchanted:
I got:venus-mars
venus-jupiter
libra rising
venus sextile ascendant
venus minor aspects to pluto and Neptune
mars sextile ascendant Unfortunately for me, I don't seem to attract a lot of male attention. I just give off this "sweet" vibe that people say makes it easy to be around me. I would consider myself to be pretty average.
really? That seems very hard to believe somehow:S Where is your saturn? IP: Logged |
FireMoon
Knowflake Posts: 1610
From: Minnesota
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 12, 2014 06:59 AM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Is it a bit difficult to be with people who get this much attention? Like for an example venus-jupiter people often take relationship and love for granted because it's so easy for them to find something new….?
I have Venus opp Jupiter, Venus sextile Moon, Moon and Pluto in 5th, Venus in 8th. I can own up to this part. It's not that I'm some sort of an attraction magnet or anything, it's just that yeah I've been hurt like everyone else, and I do get attention but I see that looks and sex appeal can be cheap... so it's hard to decipher what's real and what's not. And I have this mentality where if something isn't working out I just think "there's always more fish in the sea" which there are... but I don't want to be swimming around aimlessly forever lol IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 1217
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 12, 2014 07:05 AM
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Originally posted by FireMoon:
"there's always more fish in the sea" which there are... but I don't want to be swimming around aimlessly forever lol
Well you aren't with all those placement…
I think people with these aspect cannot go for too long without a little romance or at least flirting in their lives…
Venus in 8th house might be a little dramatic like scorpio venus… I got scorpio venus in 5th house conjunction pluto and venus quintile moon, and venus trine jupiter, it has never been hard for me to find love, really… but to "keep them" is a whole other thing lol:P IP: Logged |
Selene
Knowflake Posts: 626
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Registered: Apr 2013
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posted April 12, 2014 07:05 AM
I have Venus in LibraVenus/Mars
Venus/Jupiter
Mars/Jupiter
Venus/Moon
Moon/Jupiter
Moon/Mars Every single marker that says that there would be much attention from males. And yes, there is. But that doesn't say that i've got great relationships, because it isn't so. If i fall in love, then i love that single person, but unfortunately we don't have that kind of relationship. And so others come and go, we do a couple of dates and then i just fade away... I don't know, what's wrong with me. Actually, no. I do. Apart from all the great aspects above, i also have Sun/Saturn square, Venus/Neptune square and Venus/Saturn square. Damned. IP: Logged |
FireMoon
Knowflake Posts: 1610
From: Minnesota
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 12, 2014 07:11 AM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Well you aren't with all those placement…
I think people with these aspect cannot go for too long without a little romance or at least flirting in their lives…
Venus in 8th house might be a little dramatic like scorpio venus…I got scorpio venus in 5th house conjunction pluto and venus quintile moon, and venus trine jupiter, it has never been hard for me to find love, really… but to "keep them" is a whole other thing lol:P
Yes! It's true... People think the "pretty girl" always attracting attention has it so easy.. but they have no idea what the flip side of that whole equation is like and how difficult it can be lol
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next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 1217
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 12, 2014 07:15 AM
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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Yes! It's true... People think the "pretty girl" always attracting attention has it so easy.. but they have no idea what the flip side of that whole equation is like and how difficult it can be lol
Yup that is the issue with all these aspect… It can be hard to be with a person who get that much attention, that it feels like "Ok so what if I dumped you right now, so you would just go out and find another one tomorrow?" IP: Logged |
FireMoon
Knowflake Posts: 1610
From: Minnesota
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 12, 2014 07:24 AM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Yup that is the issue with all these aspect… It can be hard to be with a person who get that much attention, that it feels like "Ok so what if I dumped you right now, so you would just go out and find another one tomorrow?"
Lol and maybe they would. That's life... Relationships are messed up seriously. What's it like having Scorpio Venus in 5th? Are you also a Cancer Asc then? I have Aqua Venus in 8th and it's weird having planets in houses that would square them by sign... IP: Logged |
Jinni
Knowflake Posts: 66
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 12, 2014 07:34 AM
The girl I know who gets more attention from men than any other girl I know almost none of aspects or positions what original poster said but she has five (!) planets in fifth house but her unaspected Venus is not one of them. I think that her charm is from fifth house stellium and unaspected Venus. Also moon conjunct ascendant can give her charm and moon also makes barely nothing, just few almost too wide aspects.On the other hand I have all the aspects op mentioned (pluto-venus is almost out of orb though)Venus is third in aquarius but I do not receive tons of attention but when someone takes an interest in me they do not give up easily and can hold their feelings for years  IP: Logged |
Leorpio
Knowflake Posts: 122
From: Cypress
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted April 12, 2014 08:13 AM
Ahah I'm the attractive guy then.
Mars sextile Venus
Venus trine Jupiter
Venus trine Pluto
Venus square moon
Venus in 7th house.
Venus Conjunct Sun
Venus opposition UranusI definitely do get a lot of attention from girls and can talk to them whenever I want. They usually like me but it just depends on if I like them enough to really talk to them and flirt. Otherwise I kinda just ignore them lol. ------------------
Leo Sun
Scorpio Moon
Capricorn Rising
Leo Mercury
Leo Venus
Libra Mars
Sagittarius Jupiter
Pisces Saturn
Capricorn Uranus
Capricorn Neptune
Scorpio Pluto
Virgo Chiron IP: Logged |
SunMoonStars
Knowflake Posts: 131
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 12, 2014 10:50 AM
I don't think Mars&Neptune is one those aspects, but I'd include Venus&Uranus, definitely.IP: Logged |
Jo B
Knowflake Posts: 447
From: London, UK
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted April 12, 2014 11:22 AM
I have Venus conjunct Mars/MC (in Leo), opposite Moon, square Neptune and trine Eris.My love life is a bit erratic, to say the least. Don't usually have a problem attracting lovers (well when I was young and fit! haha). I sometimes do relationships too but I find after a while they lack excitement. I can never seem to get a happy medium of passion and commitment. (I give up!) IP: Logged |
PeterPan
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted April 12, 2014 11:44 AM
From what ive experienced;Venus-moon makes women very attractive. Venus-sun does the same for men. I don't think it makes them hard to be together with, but these aspects make them value appearance more, and it can make them more superficial. but it's far from a make or break thing. IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag
Knowflake Posts: 688
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 12, 2014 12:11 PM
Well, more good Venus aspects you have more choice and people could get competitive over you. I'm an aqua Venus, I don't have a type of person and I'm confused at what I actually want from a relationship. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 9972
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 12, 2014 12:44 PM
Venus conjunct AscSun conjunct venus Moon conjunct Venus Venus square Jupiter Mars square Neptune- which is where I get all my seduction abilities from so yes I include it. Ive dated people who I consider way more attractive than me and they are kinda insecure around me in public... unless they are really confident. Which is probably why I don't like going out with my so in public too much Ive been told my aura extremely vibrant and I outshine most people in the room.  So yeah its hard to be in a relationship with me and Plus I have saturn conjunct Mc so I intimidate people too.
Most people who I know like me wont even approach me unless I make an effort to go after them but honestly I don't always do that either.
it's like if youre scared of me screw you Im nice lol Im not really that confident naturally, other people had to build up my confidence over the years.
Like if I don't hear a compliment for awhile I'll forget that I was attractive lol...
Like I will look into a mirror and be like i like what I see but its like do others though? But that's the thing with prominent Venus is that they are dependent on others IP: Logged |
theunknown
Knowflake Posts: 890
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 12, 2014 01:01 PM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I'm gonna collect some of the aspects/positions I think really attract some romance flings and attention from the opposite sex like:Venus-jupiter
Venus-mars
venus-moon
venus-pluto
mars-neptune?
I got all of them. I also have venus neptune, venus uranus, venus square moon and moon square uranus.More people like me than I like them. And I can totally adapt certain role to please people. However Neptune-mars and Neptune-venus make me very picky and idealistic. I have jupiter in 5th and i haven't had one single real relationship. I do flirt with lots of people but attention isn't everything.
Also, I have capricorn venus so I prefer not be given too much attention or unreal attention. When people give you attention, it doesn't mean anything. I want someone who will be there for me... and the people who give me attention don't necessarily stay by me.
If that makes sense... IP: Logged |
yellowelevator
Knowflake Posts: 43
From: Michigan/Pluto
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 12, 2014 03:31 PM
i have venus conjunct jupiter by 1 deg.
venus square mars
jupiter square mars
moon conjunct mars
venus/jupiter square moon but kinda loosely (9 deg.)
venus/jupiter trine neptune and uranus
venus/jupiter sextile pluto
mars inconjunct neptune
sun sextile asc.
eros sextile moon exactI would say that I do feel like a lot of the time I can tell I attract men, but it's not like incredibly overtly obvious and like a crazy-crazy attraction, but i've had my fair share of stares, occasional cat-calls, and i usually get along with men fairly well for the most part. I think I am just average looking. I've never really had a serious relationship though, but I'm still young. I do recall being able to sense quite clearly many times, say for instance, being around a group of girls, or my female cousins or whatever, and any males around that were friends, even meeting them for the first time through someone, i could tell they were somewhat attracted to me/my personality. It can be upsetting in way though because typically nothing ever goes anywhere for me lol. And I'm not really fond of stares and cat-calls lol, it's uncomfortable in a way to me, even though it can be flattering too. Ah well....lol IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 1217
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 12, 2014 04:38 PM
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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Lol and maybe they would. That's life... Relationships are messed up seriously. What's it like having Scorpio Venus in 5th? Are you also a Cancer Asc then? I have Aqua Venus in 8th and it's weird having planets in houses that would square them by sign...
I KNOW they would hehe… but it's a kind of irritating thing to think about… that the moment you dump them or you get dumped, they just go out and find another right after, like you were dirt to them:/ But yeah I got cancer ascendant too! Well I've been told that I'm intense…  IP: Logged |
coolingembers
Knowflake Posts: 543
From: California
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 12, 2014 05:58 PM
I have scorpio venus in the 5th and a cancer ascendant also. Conjunct jupiter in scorpio. Mars opp Neptune exact. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 9017
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 12, 2014 06:31 PM
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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Yes! It's true... People think the "pretty girl" always attracting attention has it so easy.. but they have no idea what the flip side of that whole equation is like and how difficult it can be lol
Because the pretty girl does have it easy.. She holds all the cards and all the power in the dating game. However she does have the responsibility to pick the right guy, its disappointing how many girls cant see douchebags for what they really are. Especially since they brag about their intuition and psychic abilities. IP: Logged |
FireMoon
Knowflake Posts: 1610
From: Minnesota
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 12, 2014 06:52 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Because the pretty girl does have it easy.. She holds all the cards and all the power in the dating game. However she does have the responsibility to pick the right guy, its disappointing how many girls cant see douchebags for what they really are. Especially since they brag about their intuition and psychic abilities.
Lol I have to admit I was thinking of you a little bit when I wrote that comment... Except that's just not true, if all you want is sex and shallow relationships then yeah maybe but other than that attractive ppl don't really have it any easier. And that's not just exclusive to girls.. But attractive is such a subjective term anyway and there are tons of hot ppl on this planet. I know you hate this kind of talk but sometimes it really is more in how you carry yourself that attracts others. Anyway with moon sextile venus I get along with women as friends and don't get caught up in the catty drama or competitiveness. I would blame your moon square venus for some of those perceptions... IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 9017
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 12, 2014 08:33 PM
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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Lol I have to admit I was thinking of you a little bit when I wrote that comment... Except that's just not true, if all you want is sex and shallow relationships then yeah maybe but other than that attractive ppl don't really have it any easier. And that's not just exclusive to girls.. But attractive is such a subjective term anyway and there are tons of hot ppl on this planet. I know you hate this kind of talk but sometimes it really is more in how you carry yourself that attracts others. Anyway with moon sextile venus I get along with women as friends and don't get caught up in the catty drama or competitiveness. I would blame your moon square venus for some of those perceptions...
But the thing is it doesn't have to be all about that. Women have the power to choose guys who arent like that but alot of them dont. IP: Logged |
Astro keen
Knowflake Posts: 1527
From: UK
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 12, 2014 08:45 PM
I think the most strikingly attractive Venus placement is Venus on the ascendant. Emmanuelle Beart has it. Doubly so as her Venus is conjunct both ASC and SUN. In Leo. http://31.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mbj6flkSEe1ro2c2ro1_400.gif IP: Logged |
pocaloca
Knowflake Posts: 245
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Registered: Dec 2013
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posted April 12, 2014 08:59 PM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I'm gonna collect some of the aspects/positions I think really attract some romance flings and attention from the opposite sex like:Venus-jupiter
Venus-mars
venus-moon
venus-pluto
mars-neptune? venus in libra, venus in scorpio, venus in 5th, 8th, 7th house? The more of these aspects/position a person got, the more they seem to attract romantic love affairs, right? Is it a bit difficult to be with people who get this much attention? Like for an example venus-jupiter people often take relationship and love for granted because it's so easy for them to find something new….?
I am Venus 180 Jupiter
Venus 90 Pluto
Venus 90 Moon.. I def attract but as hard it is for a man to be with a woman having this aspects it is hard for a woman to make that man believe that she is only in to him and with him...if more love, more mistrust, jealousy and pain...devils circle and to make things worse always there are other "sharks" around to make things even more complicated...hope you understand. IP: Logged |
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