posted March 06, 2015 12:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Koho:
I don't believe is a Venus square Saturn thing. I feel that's something confined to your own chart.

Check to see if a personal planet makes aspects to that generation's outer placements

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I agree with the others.

posted March 06, 2015 01:00 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
I agree with the others.

I think she means it's her own Saturn that conjuncts her Venus.

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I'm more inclined to believe that Venus conjunct Saturn within her own natal chart is a indicator of a personality attribute and her affective manner.

It has been my experience that synastry tells you what age groups you tend to attract. For instance, my Venus squares the Saturn of people born in fall/winter of 1989. This is a common age group I am surrounded with. Despite being in numerous scenarios of attraction with people born this period I can never move it forward. It's like a Saturn block to the people of that period. Even in cases of significant attraction something always blocks progression. No such issues with people born in the earlier parts of 1989 when the square is looser, or the 88, and 90 crowd that I'm also surrounded by

Another example is a friend of mine that has her personal planet (I forget which) making a strong positive aspect to 1988 Pluto. She is older than this generation but attracts people of this year like a magnet; generally in a sexual manner and other Pluto significances.

posted March 06, 2015 01:06 PM            

I've always attracted people much younger. The age gap seems to widen with time.
I never have investigated it.

posted March 06, 2015 01:16 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
I agree.
The coming across as a more mature person is what I was thinking, but certainly the rest could too.

I've always attracted people much younger. The age gap seems to widen with time.

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I've always liked older women but they don't like me. I'm kidding, kinda not kidding. Probably my Capricorn Moon conjunct Saturn wanting seriousness in a partner that I couldn't find in my drunken frat boy years

posted March 06, 2015 05:09 PM            

I just turned 26 and though the tally isn't high, I've been with more 30-somethings than 20-somethings.

Perhaps my attraction to older men is in my natal chart (5 planets, including Venus and Saturn, are in Capricorn), but I chalk it up to the fact that I'm a wandering basket case and I'd like to be partnered with a grounded man who has his sh*t together. :P

posted March 06, 2015 05:27 PM            

I don' feel respected by older people in general plus it seems like the men who hit on me are doing it for all the wrong reasons.

Some of my friends date older men because they themselves are psychologically mature and don't have much in common with the guys their age, but I usually get hit on by men with an obvious Lolita complex.

posted March 06, 2015 11:10 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:

The age gap seems to widen with time.

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That's kind of funny DF. Why do you think that is?

posted March 06, 2015 11:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Koho:
I've always liked older women but they don't like me. I'm kidding, kinda not kidding. Probably my Capricorn Moon conjunct Saturn wanting seriousness in a partner that I couldn't find in my drunken frat boy years

First time I've made this connection

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I would think that Capricorn Moon conjunct Saturn would work both ways for you, Koho.

posted March 06, 2015 11:33 PM            

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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
That's kind of funny DF. Why do you think that is?

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You know I still am not 100% sure. Obviously we're looking at outer planets for clues.

I of course keep getting older. LOL
But women born in the '88-'92 time frame have Uranus and or Neptune trine my sun or Venus. Also could be squaring my mercury/mars/asc/Pluto.
It's not good but it's an energy that can have initial pull.
Uranus stood out to me though as that's a planet that might support accepting the age difference aspecting sun or Venus.
Also women born in '72 for some reason and '79 seemed to be popular.
There was a few others of course.

So... most common were
88-92
Closer to my age but seemed to be a pattern
79
72

posted March 06, 2015 11:46 PM            

Now I'm curious if I can find anything about 72 and 79.

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79... only thing I saw was maybe Uranus sextile Venus. (Sort of a love at first sight aspect but certainly electric!!)

posted March 07, 2015 12:46 AM            

I have a very strong 8th house Mars in Capricorn. It is possibly the Capricorn and Saturn influence that does it.

posted March 07, 2015 01:02 AM            

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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
I would think that Capricorn Moon conjunct Saturn would work both ways for you, Koho.

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Well I do have the sneaking suspicion my current boss hired me partly due to finding me cute but other than that no indication of it going both ways :P
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Good question, I wasn't clear

posted March 07, 2015 01:45 AM            

I have Venus-Saturn conjunct nataly too and I find that people in general often want to give me added responsibilities or assume that I am the "mature" one etc.

Getting relationship offers from older people comes with the package.