posted April 10, 2022 01:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
You said yourself how you don’t like division of signs on masculine or feminine, and you still keep going with this subject. I think you’re too obsess about the definition of masculinity and femininity.
I don’t find Virgos to be like that. It’s an opposite sign to Pisces.

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posted April 10, 2022 01:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
You said yourself how you don’t like division of signs on masculine or feminine, and you still keep going with this subject. I think you’re too obsess about the definition of masculinity and femininity.
I don’t find Virgos to be like that. It’s an opposite sign to Pisces.

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Any zodiac sign can exhibit toxic feminine traits but I made this thread from my experience with most Virgo women , looks like y’all are so quick to attack people on Lindaland without even understanding what they’re talking about

posted April 10, 2022 02:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
You use term feminine is too often, but I don’t really care about it. Disagreement is not an attack.

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posted April 10, 2022 05:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Not uncomfortable at all. Like I said above, I don’t really care about it. I just pointed at what I noticed. It’s not about masculine feminine, but the signs characteristic and generalization. Yes, there’re many generalizations there. So you’re welcome to disagree also.

What you say in this topic could happen when somebody has too much Yin energy. However,I don’t think it’s the Virgo thing. Virgo is usually portrayed as somebody over analyzing and not expressing many feelings. It might be more humane opinion of them lol

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Yes I totally understand, but It bothers me that they are always victims of abuse and they don’t see that tbh , women die everyday from domestic violence and I would go to any extent just to talk some sense into my Virgo friends , the Virgo sign expresses feelings a lot but only if they trust you but one thing I’ve noticed about these ladies is that they find it hard to let go ,cos I honestly want them to be happy , I angrily made this thread cos one of them hasn’t spoken to me for days and when she finally texted me she said her boyfriend seized her phone OMG , I was extremely ****** and she’s still with him

posted April 10, 2022 08:06 PM            

True, I have met many Virgo women who seem wounded in their femininity. I had an older Virgo relative, who got married very late in life and never let her husband pay any part of the rent, because she didn't want to be owned.

When I found out, I almost hit the old lady because I was so upset. I was like, you had this man live rent free with you all those years because you didn't want to feel like he owned you???

posted April 10, 2022 08:13 PM            

A Virgin is untouched by men. Or sexuality.

Virgos have a difficult time being in a relationship that is not platonic, because it implies that they are no longer Virgin. And that applies both to women Virgo and men Virgo.

posted April 10, 2022 09:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
I am a Virgo woman and I think that's a cute thread.

True, I have met many Virgo women who seem wounded in their femininity. I had an older Virgo relative, who got married very late in life and never let her husband pay any part of the rent, because she didn't want to be owned.

When I found out, I almost hit the old lady because I was so upset. I was like, you had this man live rent free with you all those years because you didn't want to feel like he owned you???

Wounded femininity, I tell you... I myself had to work on my feminine side to really embrace it.

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Lmfaooo, she must have a Leo moon or Venus or fire rising , in as much as virgos hate bothering people, y’all can be overly submissive, when I say toxic femininity I mean being too subservient, passive aggressive, cowardly, fussy , perfectionism, putting others before yourselves, not knowing how to live without a man , yes that’s wounded femininity as Virgo represents the innocent virgin , the few I’ve met that were tough had a Leo , Capricorn or Aries moons or risings.....Cancer women also have a wounded femininity, Virgo is mutable earth so the feminine energy can be quite much , their earth cousins are more strong, Capricorn and Taurus women have more masculine energy which is why they’re more stubborn, unyielding and less softer and docile

posted April 10, 2022 09:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
I think it has to do with the symbolism of Virgo the Virgin.

A Virgin is untouched by men. Or sexuality.

Virgos have a difficult time being in a relationship that is not platonic, because it implies that they are no longer Virgin. And that applies both to women Virgo and men Virgo.

So in a way, to be in a relationship, Virgos have to stop being Virgo. Hence the dilemma and perhaps why Venus is said to be in its fall in Virgo.

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Well Venus debilitation in your sign is because we’re sisters , we’re your elder sister lol so we’re more accepting of unconditional love while y’all have a more picky and dainty approach to love, in general study women are the picky ones , Virgin can also be a woman who goes with the flow of life , timid , gentle , people pleasing , understanding to the extent they even wanna consider the people who hurt them lol , I see this pattern in Virgo and Cancer women a lot as they both have maternal energies

posted April 10, 2022 09:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
I am a Virgo woman and I think that's a cute thread.

True, I have met many Virgo women who seem wounded in their femininity. I had an older Virgo relative, who got married very late in life and never let her husband pay any part of the rent, because she didn't want to be owned.

When I found out, I almost hit the old lady because I was so upset. I was like, you had this man live rent free with you all those years because you didn't want to feel like he owned you???

Wounded femininity, I tell you... I myself had to work on my feminine side to really embrace it.

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Virgo is very attractive to men cos your modesty , servility, womanliness can make y’all seem charming at first but men will always take advantage of you Virgo women , suffering in silence , inferiority complex is also a problem for y’all.....Virgo is a submissive sign , the sign of service , healer , high priestess and Mother Earth....Cancer women are like this too , I don’t like seeing women being used or suffering in silence

posted April 10, 2022 10:50 PM            

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Originally posted by ElfinPisces:
Virgo is very attractive to men cos your modesty , servility, womanliness can make y’all seem charming at first but men will always take advantage of you Virgo women , suffering in silence , inferiority complex is also a problem for y’all.....Virgo is a submissive sign , the sign of service , healer , high priestess and Mother Earth....Cancer women are like this too , I don’t like seeing women being used or suffering in silence

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I agree with some of your assessments, but Virgoes are not defenseless victims. They are ruled by Mercury, so their weapons are their sharp tongues. Virgos may seem modest, servile, and all that, but they know how to cut someone down verbally and unfortunately, they can appear cold and uncaring, which is not usually true, just that they tend to have problem with displays of affection.

posted April 11, 2022 03:52 AM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
I agree with some of your assessments, but Virgoes are not defenseless victims. They are ruled by Mercury, so their weapons are their sharp tongues. Virgos may seem modest, servile, and all that, but they know how to cut someone down verbally and unfortunately, they can appear cold and uncaring, which is not usually true, just that they tend to have problem with displays of affection.

Just as every sign needs to embrace its opposite to balance it, Virgo need a healthy dose of Pisces energy to stay away from the pitfalls of critical, fault finding, rarely satistied Virgo mindset.

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You’re right , y’all are smart and all but I noticed that when virgos are in love they become something else , yes when ****** you guys become cold , virgos must trust you to express feelings but once the trust is there , it becomes difficult to let go , the ones with Pisces energy are a bit of a free spirit

posted April 11, 2022 03:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
I agree with some of your assessments, but Virgoes are not defenseless victims. They are ruled by Mercury, so their weapons are their sharp tongues. Virgos may seem modest, servile, and all that, but they know how to cut someone down verbally and unfortunately, they can appear cold and uncaring, which is not usually true, just that they tend to have problem with displays of affection.

Just as every sign needs to embrace its opposite to balance it, Virgo need a healthy dose of Pisces energy to stay away from the pitfalls of critical, fault finding, rarely satistied Virgo mindset.

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Earth signs in general don’t really show emotions but Taurus and Virgo eventually becomes emotional when they build their trust with someone, Capricorns don’t have emotions at all cos of their ruling planet

posted April 11, 2022 06:20 AM            

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Originally posted by ElfinPisces:

What I said earlier has nothing to do with this topic , don’t be so quick to judge tho , besides most Virgo women I’ve seen are like this , I’m a Pisces and nothing like this

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What does them being opposite to Pisces have anything to do with it? I m a Pisces and all Pisces women I know are the opposite of doormats and submissive in case you were insinuating that.

I think with Virgo the issue can be that they have a strong sense of duty. My mother is a Virgo sun and she was too accepting of my father's antics and toxic behaviour all of their married life. She held back to "keep the peace" which led to me taking on the role of calling my father's ****** behaviour out (as the oldest child and someone who cannot stand ******** like this) which eventually led to my father beating the **** out of me.

posted April 11, 2022 07:01 AM            

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Originally posted by kani:
What does them being opposite to Pisces have anything to do with it? I m a Pisces and all Pisces women I know are the opposite of doormats and submissive in case you were insinuating that.

I think with Virgo the issue can be that they have a strong sense of duty. My mother is a Virgo sun and she was too accepting of my father's antics and toxic behaviour all of their married life. She held back to "keep the peace" which led to me taking on the role of calling my father's ****** behaviour out (as the oldest child and someone who cannot stand ******** like this) which eventually led to my father beating the **** out of me.

She is also catholic which instills this stupid notion to stand by your spouse no matter what. I have Virgo sun friends who are not like that at all though. But an exaggerated sense of duty (one married, the duty is to stay married) can really cause the person to act too allowing.

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I’m really sorry your mom had to go through that 🥺, the Virgo women who are slightly tough have Leo placements but Virgo stellium females are too dutiful like you said and I hate to see these women being taken advantage of , not all Virgo women are like this but I’ve seen a handful , some act tough but behind closed doors they really endure a lot like a whole lot cos they feel they can fix people

posted April 11, 2022 01:05 PM            

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Originally posted by ElfinPisces:
I’m really sorry your mom had to go through that 🥺, the Virgo women who are slightly tough have Leo placements but Virgo stellium females are too dutiful like you said and I hate to see these women being taken advantage of , not all Virgo women are like this but I’ve seen a handful , some act tough but behind closed doors they really endure a lot like a whole lot cos they feel they can fix people

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posted April 11, 2022 02:29 PM            

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Originally posted by kani:
Funnily enough my mum has a Leo moon and ascendant. I'm sure her health problem came because of her inability to bottle up her emotions and not stand up to my father.

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