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LeeLoo2014
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posted February 16, 2015 05:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If so, why? If not, why?

List your aspects and tell me what aspect you think explains for it.

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posted February 16, 2015 06:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yes and no
yes, since it's not complicated and adventurous but no, since i hardly meet a guy I would want to have sex with and I would feel "dirty" afterwards

Yes:
- mars opposite neptune in gem in 11h, sextile jupiter, trine pluto, square uranus (my 8th house ruler), venus trine uranus and uranus trine asc

no:
- sun, venus & asc in cancer, venus sextil saturn

So, i have more aspects that indicate a "loose" sex life

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tgem
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posted February 16, 2015 07:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tgem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nope..can't do it. Have tried. First of all, I'm VERY picky when it comes to men. I need an emotional/deep connection first (pluto aspects all personal planets and I have pluto in the 5th along with Uranus.) I'm also a Cancer ASC conjunct jupiter so I need emotion. Despite all my Gemini, my water forces me to hold on to connections...I can't just walk away. Oh yeah, and saturn rules my 7th and 8th so, again, saturn doesn't let me walk away after something like that either.

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posted February 16, 2015 08:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No.
what`s the point in that?

(yes I know, sex probably, but I can`t just imagine this for myself. So the rest of the world can have fun without me in that regard.)


Venus, ruler 5, in Capricorn in 1st house square Pluto on the MC.

Saturn, ruler 2, in Cancer in 8th house, quinkunx Moon in 2, and exactly trine Juno in Pisces in 3rd as well.


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DeepFreeze
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posted February 16, 2015 09:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeepFreeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No.
It's happened with people that I know. But not often though. I strongly prefer not.

Venus and Mars in Virgo (picky)

Venus and Mars in 12th (desiring a subconscious connection of sorts)

Venus square Neptune (fantasized, idealistic love and romance)

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posted February 16, 2015 09:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Southern Sun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No. I would do it just purely for a roll in the hay but I too would feel icky and dirty afterwards. Not worth the trouble.

I think the reason is venus/mars in virgo and moon in 12th. I just can't 'detach' when it comes to personal relations.

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posted February 16, 2015 10:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nope.
I have Venus opposite Pluto, so if you have sex with me, prepare to be in a relationship, like it or not.

(That's totally healthy, right?)

It's good that I'm married.

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posted February 16, 2015 10:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeepFreeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Violets:
Nope.
I have Venus opposite Pluto, so if you have sex with me prepare to be in a relationship, like it or not.

(That's totally healthy, right?)

It's good that I'm married.


That's really funny!!
I keep thinking of awkward after sex conversations.

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posted February 16, 2015 10:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't mind one night stands if I know the person, or know that they are going to be around for some time in the future.

Perhaps I'm not in favour of one night stands per se, more friends with benefits... But even then, my Taurean nature (Venus) kicks in and I have to make it exclusive in SOME way (Venus Oppo Pluto).

I've always had a fear of pouring so much into someone and then running away with everything - then it actually happened.

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posted February 16, 2015 10:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No. I have venus-uranus-neptune tribe jupiter. You'd think I'd like one ....

Pluto in 7th square sun does it all I guess

Either that or neptune

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posted February 16, 2015 10:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No. I'm not shallow enough to like this idea You know my chart.

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posted February 16, 2015 10:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for page one     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
If so, why? If not, why?

List your aspects and tell me what aspect you think explains for it.


Two days after V Day, you post a one night stand thread? :P

One night stands get serious in my experience, so vote me meh. Pluto on the cusp of the 5th house?

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posted February 16, 2015 11:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LucieLemonade     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes and no.

My Saggie bits like 'em.
My Scorpio bits don't.

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LeeLoo2014
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posted February 16, 2015 11:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by page one:
Two days after V Day, you post a one night stand thread? :P

One night stands get serious in my experience, so vote me meh. Pluto on the cusp of the 5th house?


I thought it's a good time to see how romantic LL people are ...and look at them!

I knew it!

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LeeLoo2014
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posted February 16, 2015 11:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
Yes and no.

My Saggie bits like 'em.
My Scorpio bits don't.


What's this??
Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde?

OK...who wins?

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Gabby
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posted February 16, 2015 11:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No, sex is very boring without feelings...now my favorite thing is to wait until there is lots of feelings built up and can't wait anymore. The last few ppl I had sex with waited 3 months.
Years ago I went through a phase where I had a lot of one night stands in the time frame of a couple years just to see what all the fuss was about n why guys liked them so much. Eventually I decided it wasn't anything good...it was a short lived phase.
Lived n learned!
AC/Pluto
Pluto conjunct Venus
Pluto/Venus opposed Jupiter
Mars trine Uranus <~perfect 1 night stand aspect

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posted February 16, 2015 11:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No, never had a one-night stand.

*edits reasons, but it's pretty obvious:

Sag Venus conjunct Neptune, 8H Pisces moon

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posted February 16, 2015 12:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeepFreeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
What's this??
Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde?

OK...who wins?

You crack me up.
I'm guessing Mr Hyde wins!

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LucieLemonade
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posted February 16, 2015 12:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LucieLemonade     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
What's this??
Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde?

OK...who wins?

Yes! I really do feel that way sometimes. The Libra Mars probably also contributes to that.

Come on. Everyone knows Scorpio wins ever time!

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posted February 16, 2015 12:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chiemi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Never had one but I tried the casual route and while it was ok (I didn't get attached and want more) it wasn't all that great and it actually bored me. I cut things off because of how shallow it all felt. So I'd say a one night stand is definitely a no-go for me.

My placements:

Moon square Mars
Moon opposite Uranus
Scorpio on 5th house cusp
Jupiter in 5th
Mars in 5th
Pluto in 5th
Uranus in 7th
Scorpio Mars
Libra Venus

I've read that a few of my placements may lead to promiscuity (Charlie Sheen and Grace Kelly both share my Venus/Mars lol) but I don't think I could actually go that route since it leaves my Scorpio Mars/Scorpio on 5th house cusp/Pluto in 5th highly unsatisfied.

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Gemini Blues
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posted February 16, 2015 12:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini Blues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmm...

First, in my younger years, I couldn't be with a woman without winding up saying the "L" word soon (too soon) after...

I don't set out to have one night stands in general, though be careful if you catch me on a rebound. Marques of Queensbury rules... Defend yourself at all times and in case of a knockdown, go to a neutral corner. Lol!

For me, aside from the fact that sex is just so much better when there's emotions involved, sex also gets better when you learn the particulars of each others bodies. Also, I love the expectation leading up to it, and dislike the uncertainty of a first time. And there's rarely cuddling afterwards if there isn't that emotional connection...

So...
Tau Mars in 7th unaspected (!)
Can Venus Rx in 9th
... Conjunct NN <1°
... Trine Saturn Pic sR 4th
... Trine Asc Sco
... Widely conj Eros (<3°)
... Opposite Ceres
Gem sun in 8th
Sco Asc
Leo moon 10th, focus of a T square with Jupiter Tau 7th and Neptune Rx Sco 1st

And LeeLoo, since you're asking a little more of a probing question, you have to share your answer too...

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posted February 16, 2015 12:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No. We are suppose to take sex seriously and sleeping with someone you don't love is extremely damaging and why so many people are lost.

I don't think my placements matter I'm just aware.

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SoujiroSeta
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posted February 16, 2015 12:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoujiroSeta     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancer Mars in the 8th
Gem Venus oppose uranus

Lol, both those placements can do it. The high sex drive of cancer mars, and the legendary flakiness of gem venus, which also opposes uranus.

Still, I can never do one night stands. Impossible. Hell I've been single all my life. With the high sex drive from 8th house mars comes the high self control as well. You can either be very promiscuous or a saint.
Venus opp uranus, just like mars in the 8th, can be a "I don't want to know your name I just want to bang bang bang" placement, but it can also be very picky. It can be hard to find someone that interests you enough to want to get involved.

I have chosen the "Saint" from mars in the 8th and the "hard to find someone that interests you enough" from venus opp uranus.

One night stands, I just can't.

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posted February 16, 2015 03:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VacantGazer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No I need an emotional connection

Venus conj Mars in leo
Venus sextile saturn in scorpio
mars sextile saturn in scorpio
mars sextile pluto in lib
pluto lib conj saturn in scor conj asc in lib
moon opp nep
Moon at 29 deg Gem

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posted February 16, 2015 06:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No, because I have never been sexually attracted to a person I'm not close to - in my entire life.
So the 'one night stand' scenario has never been a turn on for me.

Mars conj Neptune - Capricorn (7th) and trine Venus - Taurus (11th)

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