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Topic: Do you like one-night stands?
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LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 10386 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted February 16, 2015 05:12 AM
If so, why? If not, why? List your aspects and tell me what aspect you think explains for it. ------------------
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Enneline Knowflake Posts: 2165 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 16, 2015 06:20 AM
yes and no yes, since it's not complicated and adventurous but no, since i hardly meet a guy I would want to have sex with and I would feel "dirty" afterwardsYes: - mars opposite neptune in gem in 11h, sextile jupiter, trine pluto, square uranus (my 8th house ruler), venus trine uranus and uranus trine asc no: - sun, venus & asc in cancer, venus sextil saturn So, i have more aspects that indicate a "loose" sex life IP: Logged |
tgem Moderator Posts: 3613 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted February 16, 2015 07:33 AM
Nope..can't do it. Have tried. First of all, I'm VERY picky when it comes to men. I need an emotional/deep connection first (pluto aspects all personal planets and I have pluto in the 5th along with Uranus.) I'm also a Cancer ASC conjunct jupiter so I need emotion. Despite all my Gemini, my water forces me to hold on to connections...I can't just walk away. Oh yeah, and saturn rules my 7th and 8th so, again, saturn doesn't let me walk away after something like that either.IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 18264 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 16, 2015 08:38 AM
No. what`s the point in that?(yes I know, sex probably, but I can`t just imagine this for myself. So the rest of the world can have fun without me in that regard.) Venus, ruler 5, in Capricorn in 1st house square Pluto on the MC.
Saturn, ruler 2, in Cancer in 8th house, quinkunx Moon in 2, and exactly trine Juno in Pisces in 3rd as well.
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DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 4512 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted February 16, 2015 09:42 AM
No. It's happened with people that I know. But not often though. I strongly prefer not. Venus and Mars in Virgo (picky) Venus and Mars in 12th (desiring a subconscious connection of sorts) Venus square Neptune (fantasized, idealistic love and romance) IP: Logged |
Southern Sun Knowflake Posts: 65 From: USA Registered: Sep 2014
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posted February 16, 2015 09:51 AM
No. I would do it just purely for a roll in the hay but I too would feel icky and dirty afterwards. Not worth the trouble.I think the reason is venus/mars in virgo and moon in 12th. I just can't 'detach' when it comes to personal relations. IP: Logged |
Violets Knowflake Posts: 4496 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted February 16, 2015 10:01 AM
Nope. I have Venus opposite Pluto, so if you have sex with me, prepare to be in a relationship, like it or not. (That's totally healthy, right?) It's good that I'm married. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 4512 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted February 16, 2015 10:07 AM
quote: Originally posted by Violets: Nope. I have Venus opposite Pluto, so if you have sex with me prepare to be in a relationship, like it or not. (That's totally healthy, right?) It's good that I'm married.
That's really funny!! I keep thinking of awkward after sex conversations. IP: Logged |
ikja Knowflake Posts: 914 From: London, UK Registered: Oct 2014
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posted February 16, 2015 10:21 AM
I don't mind one night stands if I know the person, or know that they are going to be around for some time in the future.Perhaps I'm not in favour of one night stands per se, more friends with benefits... But even then, my Taurean nature (Venus) kicks in and I have to make it exclusive in SOME way (Venus Oppo Pluto). I've always had a fear of pouring so much into someone and then running away with everything - then it actually happened. IP: Logged |
theunknown Knowflake Posts: 1857 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted February 16, 2015 10:26 AM
No. I have venus-uranus-neptune tribe jupiter. You'd think I'd like one .... Pluto in 7th square sun does it all I guess Either that or neptune IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 9677 From: Death Star Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 16, 2015 10:30 AM
No. I'm not shallow enough to like this idea You know my chart.------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
page one Knowflake Posts: 494 From: USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 16, 2015 10:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: If so, why? If not, why? List your aspects and tell me what aspect you think explains for it.
Two days after V Day, you post a one night stand thread? :P One night stands get serious in my experience, so vote me meh. Pluto on the cusp of the 5th house? IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade Knowflake Posts: 1469 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted February 16, 2015 11:04 AM
Yes and no. My Saggie bits like 'em. My Scorpio bits don't. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 10386 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted February 16, 2015 11:21 AM
quote: Originally posted by page one: Two days after V Day, you post a one night stand thread? :POne night stands get serious in my experience, so vote me meh. Pluto on the cusp of the 5th house?
I thought it's a good time to see how romantic LL people are ...and look at them! I knew it! ------------------
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LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 10386 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted February 16, 2015 11:23 AM
quote: Originally posted by LucieLemonade: Yes and no. My Saggie bits like 'em. My Scorpio bits don't.
What's this?? Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde? OK...who wins?
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Gabby Moderator Posts: 5621 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 16, 2015 11:44 AM
No, sex is very boring without feelings...now my favorite thing is to wait until there is lots of feelings built up and can't wait anymore. The last few ppl I had sex with waited 3 months. Years ago I went through a phase where I had a lot of one night stands in the time frame of a couple years just to see what all the fuss was about n why guys liked them so much. Eventually I decided it wasn't anything good...it was a short lived phase. Lived n learned! AC/Pluto Pluto conjunct Venus Pluto/Venus opposed Jupiter Mars trine Uranus <~perfect 1 night stand aspectIP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 10976 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 16, 2015 11:58 AM
No, never had a one-night stand. *edits reasons, but it's pretty obvious: Sag Venus conjunct Neptune, 8H Pisces moon IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 4512 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted February 16, 2015 12:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: What's this?? Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde? OK...who wins?
You crack me up. I'm guessing Mr Hyde wins!
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LucieLemonade Knowflake Posts: 1469 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted February 16, 2015 12:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: What's this?? Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde? OK...who wins?
Yes! I really do feel that way sometimes. The Libra Mars probably also contributes to that. Come on. Everyone knows Scorpio wins ever time!
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Chiemi Moderator Posts: 1995 From: Michigan Registered: Feb 2012
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posted February 16, 2015 12:26 PM
Never had one but I tried the casual route and while it was ok (I didn't get attached and want more) it wasn't all that great and it actually bored me. I cut things off because of how shallow it all felt. So I'd say a one night stand is definitely a no-go for me.My placements: Moon square Mars Moon opposite Uranus Scorpio on 5th house cusp Jupiter in 5th Mars in 5th Pluto in 5th Uranus in 7th Scorpio Mars Libra Venus I've read that a few of my placements may lead to promiscuity (Charlie Sheen and Grace Kelly both share my Venus/Mars lol) but I don't think I could actually go that route since it leaves my Scorpio Mars/Scorpio on 5th house cusp/Pluto in 5th highly unsatisfied. IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues Knowflake Posts: 512 From: The future... or the past. I get them confused... Registered: May 2014
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posted February 16, 2015 12:32 PM
Hmmm...First, in my younger years, I couldn't be with a woman without winding up saying the "L" word soon (too soon) after... I don't set out to have one night stands in general, though be careful if you catch me on a rebound. Marques of Queensbury rules... Defend yourself at all times and in case of a knockdown, go to a neutral corner. Lol! For me, aside from the fact that sex is just so much better when there's emotions involved, sex also gets better when you learn the particulars of each others bodies. Also, I love the expectation leading up to it, and dislike the uncertainty of a first time. And there's rarely cuddling afterwards if there isn't that emotional connection... So... Tau Mars in 7th unaspected (!) Can Venus Rx in 9th ... Conjunct NN <1° ... Trine Saturn Pic sR 4th ... Trine Asc Sco ... Widely conj Eros (<3°) ... Opposite Ceres Gem sun in 8th Sco Asc Leo moon 10th, focus of a T square with Jupiter Tau 7th and Neptune Rx Sco 1st And LeeLoo, since you're asking a little more of a probing question, you have to share your answer too... IP: Logged |
athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 3771 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted February 16, 2015 12:32 PM
No. We are suppose to take sex seriously and sleeping with someone you don't love is extremely damaging and why so many people are lost. I don't think my placements matter I'm just aware. IP: Logged |
SoujiroSeta Knowflake Posts: 50 From: Nothingness Registered: Oct 2013
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posted February 16, 2015 12:38 PM
Cancer Mars in the 8th Gem Venus oppose uranusLol, both those placements can do it. The high sex drive of cancer mars, and the legendary flakiness of gem venus, which also opposes uranus. Still, I can never do one night stands. Impossible. Hell I've been single all my life. With the high sex drive from 8th house mars comes the high self control as well. You can either be very promiscuous or a saint. Venus opp uranus, just like mars in the 8th, can be a "I don't want to know your name I just want to bang bang bang" placement, but it can also be very picky. It can be hard to find someone that interests you enough to want to get involved. I have chosen the "Saint" from mars in the 8th and the "hard to find someone that interests you enough" from venus opp uranus. One night stands, I just can't. IP: Logged |
VacantGazer Knowflake Posts: 309 From: The Sky Registered: Dec 2014
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posted February 16, 2015 03:07 PM
No I need an emotional connectionVenus conj Mars in leo Venus sextile saturn in scorpio mars sextile saturn in scorpio mars sextile pluto in lib pluto lib conj saturn in scor conj asc in lib moon opp nep Moon at 29 deg Gem IP: Logged |
Odette Moderator Posts: 5126 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted February 16, 2015 06:13 PM
No, because I have never been sexually attracted to a person I'm not close to - in my entire life. So the 'one night stand' scenario has never been a turn on for me.Mars conj Neptune - Capricorn (7th) and trine Venus - Taurus (11th) IP: Logged |