posted December 11, 2010 12:13 AM            

Perhaps because it is my only personal planet in water, it is very pronounced...

Some key things:

I always make exceptions for other people to the point that I feel like a sore loser.

I am hyper-sensitive to criticism and internalize it, I have terrible problems with balancing my 3rd chakra- as in sellf-confidence...

"You find a million ways to enhance or to evade whatever might present itself to your super-receptive nature."

I work in sales and I'm challenge to help all customers because I'm too receptive to other people to the point that I get very stand-offish when there is bad vibes.

"The notion of "what you could be" is endlessly used as a means of keeping you in a fascinated state of being neither special nor ordinary."

So true, its as if a Pisces mooner discounts themselves as not having the ability to achieve their goals.

"You feel pain even- or most of all - in your imagination."

I've never gone through terrible painful things, yet a Pisces Moon is so good at emphasizing with the sorrows of the world that they feel collective pain even if it is not personal.

"Your imagination is, in fact, so vivid that this dreamboat actually appears to arrive."

As in your so delusional that you believe you've met your dream boat, but once those rose-colored glasses are off you feel like such an idiot for being so gullible to a phoney ideal.

"Not surprisingly, you have an addictive personality. An addiction is essentially an distraction."

I've come to realize that the the mundane life has no purpose so I compensate by distracting myself with school and astrology. Luckily I haven't become an alcoholic yet, but I soon be one the way things are going...

posted December 11, 2010 08:07 AM            

Later, I will, usually, see a compensating factor.
My belief is a Higher Source gave us our charts for His Purposes.
Therefore, we CAN overcome our hard aspects with our strong ones, to some degree.

Will we ever totally?
I doubt it.
Prolly,no one else will, either

posted December 11, 2010 08:27 AM            

I dont know if you were kidding when mentioning about becoming an alcoholic, but I am very hopefull you wont.

from my life experience, rather than astrological, I have learned that people who are very self-awared and can see their potential dangerous areas are more careful about entereing in dangerous zones...

posted December 11, 2010 08:57 AM            

If Pisces pulls a lot of creative energy from sadness, than I'm NOT the one for them because I don't want to be made sad or a victim of their devastating habit.

posted December 11, 2010 10:03 AM            

It's possible they had Venus in Aquarius, or some other configuration that made them "aloof"... You may have just met some jaded men, though.

I can flip flop between being compassionate and being indifferent - because of a much needed emotional defense... I've found that Pisces emotions are all consuming, confusing, and very deep - even to the point of being physically debilitating. Without barrier, they can destroy you.

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Originally posted by vertiver:
I don't get it though, men with Pisces aspects. They can be mean and so unsympathetic, of course there are women with Pisces placements that are the same. But I've met a couple of guys with Pisces Venus and I still exuded the Pisces martydom... They were indifferent and unrelable.

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posted December 11, 2010 10:10 AM            

Pisces escapism IS exhausting. I've seen it in my Pisces friends and have learned to "take them as they are" without putting any expectations on them, because THEY ARE unreliable emotionally when things get hard.

Having Venus in Pisces, I can very much see where I've push/pulled, advanced/retreat... and how that's been difficult from a partner's standpoint.

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Originally posted by mir:
In all honesty, I've never seen/experienced more escapism than with my Pisces-ex and with this Pisces-moon guy I dated shortly before my Pisces-ex. The last one recently was trying to come back into my life but.. not a bit changed.
ALWAYS the same story.. if things become difficult or hard they fly away.. my conclusion; they still haven't learned to FEEL, to make choices, to STAND up for themselves ..
They hurt others BUT they also hurt themselves and that's what they still can't FEEL (difficult to explain).

If Pisces pulls a lot of creative energy from sadness, than I'm NOT the one for them because I don't want to be made sad or a victim of their devastating habit.

I'm so absolutely done with this escapist behavior.

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posted December 11, 2010 10:11 AM            

If Pisces pulls a lot of creative energy from sadness, than I'm NOT the one for them because I don't want to be made sad or a victim of their devastating habit.

I'm so absolutely done with this escapist behavior.
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posted December 11, 2010 01:41 PM            

Of course, as a male, I am attracted to women with Pisces/Neptune traits. I know that the best woman for me is one that is a spiritually oriented and lightworker type. Of course, my mother has Pisces/Neptune traits which are indicated by her Sun in 12th trine Neptune in 5th alone. She is a recovering drug addict/alcoholic with health problems.
My mom is very watery overall with Ascendant,Mercury,Venus,Jupiter,and Uranus in Cancer as well as Moon and Saturn in Scorpio.

Alcoholism and drug addiction runs strong in my family.

My maternal grandfather was an alcoholic, and he committed suicide. He had Moon in Pisces as well as Saturn in Pisces oppose Neptune. He also had Sun in Cancer Ascendant in Scorpio. Therefore, all his big 3 were in watersigns, giving him an overall watery disposition.

I never knew my biological father because he had a drug problem. He had Moon in Pisces and stationary retrograde Neptune.

I have never used drugs. I haven't drunk alcohol since January 1999. That's how I have avoided being a drug addict and alcoholic. My escapist tendencies manifest into mainly solitude. I have escaped through internet,reading and television too.

My Pisces/Neptune traits were a great liability when I was in the navy. It was a very stressful environment/life style which I was too sensitive and idealistic for. I relieved my stress through going nightclubbing in San Francisco.

It's very important for me to have spirituality in my life. I find listening to New Age,Meditation music very soothing

note: I chose Glaucus as my online nickname because I wanted a name that reflect my Pisces/Neptune nature. In Greek mythology, Glaucus was a fisherman that turned into minor sea god. He looked like a merman. He was taught the art of prophecy by the sea god, Proteus.

My Sun,Mercury,and Venus are in watersigns too. They are in Scorpio. Therefore, my Moon is not the only planet in watersigns,and so I am very watery. Emotions and feelings are just natural for me to experience. My Sun in Scorpio trine my Moon in Pisces with 2'10 orb, and so have a harmonious disposition overall because my ego,self expression,vitality,and male energy are well in sync with my feelings,emotional,nature,and feminine energy. This helps offset my t-square a bit too.

I take some pride that Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. had Moon in Pisces.
At times, I think of Moon in Pisces as "The Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Moon" It took a Pisces Moon to lead the Civil Rights Movement. Maybe my Moon in Pisces can be good for me to be a leader in the Neurodiversity Movement.

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posted December 11, 2010 07:57 PM              

i am the person EVERYONE lays their troubles on because i don't show them "the hand" when they do,

and when it comes to relationships i never give up unless there is serious abuse or it becomes obvious that the other is on a completely different wavelength.

yes i make excuses for others...call it walking a mile in their shoes

yes i can have a hard time making decisions, i prefer to watch things unfold. though if i am deciding for myself on something that doesn't involve others, no problem.

this reminds me of a thread about mars in cancer that was here lately...i was just thinking about that last night. my thoughts were centered on the fact that i have mars in cancer but a completely different experience of it than others.

one thing that occurred to me was that if, say you are a gemini, your sun will "roil up" your watery mars and make it very hard for it to know what to do...and cancer, when the water gets roiled, hides in its shell.

if you are a leo with pluto on sun, however, that same cancerian mars can mellow the steam roller you might otherwise become when angered or fired up...

pisces moon, the same. for my leo sun, it is the pixie dust that makes leo traits work for me not against. it relieves me of the "selfish" or "self-centered" pitfalls of being a leo. it keeps me in touch with the "universal" and helps me feel others' energy.

posted December 11, 2010 09:41 PM            

Ami, has this helped you understand Pisces Moon at all? I should mention that my Pisces Moon is in the 3rd house, so daily occurences really are not my forte and natal Moon is square Jupiter in the 6th, and Jupiter is the traditional ruler of Pisces so that is almost like having Pisces Moon square Neptune - you definitely never know when to say no.

posted December 11, 2010 09:44 PM            

Ami, has this helped you understand Pisces Moon at all? I should mention that my Pisces Moon is in the 3rd house, so daily occurences really are not my forte and natal Moon is square Jupiter in the 6th, and Jupiter is the traditional ruler of Pisces so that is almost like having Pisces Moon square Neptune - you definitely never know when to say no.

posted December 11, 2010 10:00 PM            

I have so much growing to do, in order to handle this most delicate and sensitive moon.

posted December 12, 2010 02:39 AM            

Everyone's harping about how otherworldly and off kilter Neppy transits are, but then I'm thinking, I'm already a Pisces, really, it can't be that disorienting, cos I already know disorientation :P

So here I am, heading toward my first Neptune conj Sun transit, and I stand a complete skeptic

On topic, somewhat,
I've known Pisces Moons and I don't have probs with em, yea so what we Pisces like to bliss out on occasion.

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I've come to realize that the the mundane life has no purpose

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posted December 12, 2010 03:23 AM            

Does this give you the feeling that the world is a wool sweater which itches when you put it on?
Does stimuli seem to have the effect of strobe lights?
Do you feel barraged by people and situations like someone in a disco with too loud music and strobe lights would feel?

posted December 12, 2010 07:48 AM            

Taking fish oil with its Omega 3 fatty acids DHA,EPA help make me less sensitive and emotional
A multivitamin with a strong vitamin B complex and zinc also helps too

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No..I am not a Virgo.

posted December 12, 2010 08:09 AM            

Ok, let me ask you this.I have a friend with Neptune conjunct the Sun, would this person feel like this,do you think?
If you could say,would this be a stronger or weaker Pisces than say a Pisces Sun or moon.
If so, why or why not?
THANK YOU VERY MUCH for your help!

posted December 12, 2010 08:58 AM            

My great grandmother had my grandfather when she was less than a month from turning 14.

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No..I am not a Virgo.