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DualGemV2
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posted November 17, 2016 10:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DualGemV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I figured that means my boss really trusts me.. Out of all people I would never expect her to tell me her work insecurities.

Any Virgos want to chime in?

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Aries Moon
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leo_moon
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posted November 17, 2016 11:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for leo_moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
She's grooming you into her whipping boy.

She's attempting show her human side.

Otherwise Virgos are robotic task masters.

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DualGemV2
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posted November 18, 2016 12:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DualGemV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by leo_moon:
She's grooming you into her whipping boy.

She's attempting show her human side.

Otherwise Virgos are robotic task masters.


I whould take the second assumption that shes showing her human side.

Plus she already has a Taurus scapegoat.
Geminis will never let someone inslave them.

She's defended my decisions and position countless times...

Just wasn't expecting her to.

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StubbornVirgo
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posted November 18, 2016 02:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StubbornVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Virgos agree with what's right and logical (to them). So if she's defended you and agreed with you, it's likely because she agreed with your argument or position.

If she vented to you, she was either having an off day and happened to have a moment of vulnerability (which does happen to Virgos, contrary to popular belief) or she perceives you as trustworthy. I have a few coworkers that I feel safe enough around that I can vent to them when my stress level is getting too high.

Either way, if you want to keep her trust, keep her secrets to yourself. (Not saying that I think you won't, but just FYI that we shut down when we realize we can't trust you, and there's virtually no way to regain our trust after that.)

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Aries23Degrees
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posted November 18, 2016 07:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mercury ruled people often have conversations with themselves,through YOU.

In other words, they often are "self-soothing" when conversing with you about worries and fears. Especially when Sun/Moon is Mercury ruled.

What they really aim to do with these conversations with you is say to themselves: "You see, I am a reasonable person. I have looked at every option from all ends and have considered the many ways that this could play out"

They are not looking for you to be the "aha" person and agree with every point made. In fact, if you care for them it may be beneficial for you to steer them clear of any chronic cynical thinking by providing an alternative "But have you considered this..."

Often times Virgo/Mercury ruled people (even Gemini) are relieved plenty when all the finer details have been ironed out and minor challenges and annoyances have been sorted.

The next time they tell you of their worries and fears, put a pound of "positive" rationale on one of them and see how they react.

They often like it when they have one less issue to worry about. And as a Sag whose had relationships overwhelmingly with Virgo Asc/Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars influenced people, I can say that from my experience they really LIKE it if you assist them in chasing away worries and fears.

Tea and sympathy is not enough for these folks. A practical solution or advice usually works best;especially one that you can demonstrate openly to work efficiently and quickly.

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charlie
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posted November 18, 2016 11:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ew. I would ever do that!! But then again, I ain't a Virgo My Cap Moon worries alone and solves it alone!

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