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posted June 05, 2022 02:19 PM            

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My daughter and her grandmother have this aspect.
Grandmas Virgo Pluto square my daughters Gemini Moon.
How would it play out in this type of relationship?
Would she be obsessive about my kid? She does have that tendency when it comes to my baby.

I hope this doesn’t get moved…I already asked in interpersonal and I rarely get replies.

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posted June 05, 2022 10:56 PM            

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Or would this aspect be about control?

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posted June 05, 2022 11:12 PM            

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Anytime Pluto is involved, it can become about control. And control is always related to fear of some kind. Often insecurity and self value/worth issues. When you combine really intense feelings and reactions with intense, often unconscious fears, can lead to some weird, obsessive, dark, and/or controlling behaviors. I've been on both ends of that Plutonian type connection.

There are so many constant posts in Interpersonal (and some repeat posters), I think many people are kind of burnt out from trying to reply. I know I am. I tend to reply to the more general or simple questions. I prefer to teach people how to fish, rather than handing them fishes.

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posted June 06, 2022 08:33 AM            

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She is very controlling when it comes to my daughter.It’s like she’s always competing with me,always trying to make me feel like she can be a better mom to her.She could be afraid of losing her I guess.
I plan on moving (2 hour drive) and it seems it’s gotten worse.
She has another grandkid and I don’t see her acting that way with that one.

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posted June 06, 2022 02:56 PM            

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Probably some past life type stuff involved as well. Her and your daughter may have been particularly close in another life. Perhaps even as her mom.

She may be unconsciously trying to replay that dynamic again.

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posted June 07, 2022 09:01 AM            

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I'll leave it here.

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posted June 07, 2022 09:57 AM            

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Thank you Randall!

Has anyone ever shared this aspect with a family member? How is your relationship with them.

I know she loves her but her controlling and underhanded ways worry me a little.

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posted June 08, 2022 05:44 PM            

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posted June 08, 2022 06:17 PM            

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Does anyone see the synastry chart? Idk why I can’t see it.

Grandmothers birth time is unknown.
I reduced orbs to 50,I don’t like wide orbs or a bunch of aspect lines everywhere.

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posted June 11, 2022 01:23 PM            

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Bumpity

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posted June 11, 2022 09:25 PM            

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Can't resolve deep issues like being stuck and both people wish they could get deep and just deal with it but they can't seem to--based on this aspect anyway. Other aspects could modify this

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posted June 23, 2022 11:41 AM            

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Bump!

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