posted January 13, 2013 01:35 PM            

For a long time you've been suffering and alone, and very frustrated... well, perhaps Uranus has come here to bring some necessary shake-ups and changes to your dull and sad 7th house areas! I can say the same thing for myself. I'm going through a Uranus 4th house transit right now, and I've always had a very tumultuous home life. But now I'm learning that change will come soon at this time after years of wanting it. I'm going to move out soon and travel more and finally my time to go away has come... I have many more options now. I could have interpreted this transit as my home life being even MORE insane and weird, but it's been only as bad as it ever was, now I just have more options and new things coming to light on how to change it.

Because Uranus is change. It brings us things that are new, and maybe scary-radical at first but necessary to make things better. It's upheaval, but in the end a welcomed upheaval. So I could see this transit for you to maybe signify some interesting new relationships coming into your life that will change your views about partnership [since it's in the 7th] and that doesn't seem to be a bad thing. It would be a different story perhaps if you were already at this time, in a stable and committed relationship... but for a single a 7H Uranus transit isn't all bad.

posted January 13, 2013 02:31 PM            

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Originally posted by EndThisConfusion:
I'm just about at the end of my rope. I'm not young, have been single for far too many of my years, married once for 7 years and single now for too long. My heart is exhausted and feels sometimes like it's dying. Literally. And now I have Uranus coming up to my desc. and 7 years of - WHAT? - when all I want is a stable, committed relationship. Pluto conjunct IC, too. WT? I don't think I can handle this, truly. Can someone offer any hope? Also, these horrid transits last for YEARS, while Jupiter conjunct my natal Venus lasts for one whole bloody WEEK? Life feels incredibly cruel sometimes.

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eh...I have this all coming up reaaaal soon too, somewhere around April I think. I hear you....ALSO going through my Saturn Return. I don't know whaaaat will come of it...hopefully something good because I feel like I got the shaft on this transit, In 7 years I will be 36...I'm not getting any younger here. With the way my relationships have gone in past, I'd have thought the transit had already happened. How can it get worse than that? I'm in a relationship right now...

posted January 15, 2013 03:44 PM            

Uranus had just entered my 7H when I suddenly fell in love, got engaged almost immediately, and married shortly afterwards. It was definitely a weird marriage, for all kinds of reasons I won't go into.

On our wedding day, transiting Uranus was conjunct my sun/moon midpoint in Aquarius.

Transiting Pluto and Juno were smooshed between my Venus at 6 Sag and Neptune at 12 Sag. They were likewise conjunct my husband's Saturn.

Meanwhile...transiting Lilith was right on my NN directly opposing his natal Juno (which is on my SN, as you may have guessed.)

Astrologically it makes a lot more sense than it did socially.

My point is, I think you have to take a lot of things into account when you think of how your marriage/partnership status might change.

posted February 09, 2014 11:31 PM            

sweet-scorpion

posted February 11, 2014 09:02 PM            

For anyone else who may be facing Uranus conjunct Desc and 7th house, I found this on another site that made me feel alot better...

"Uranus transiting conjunct Descendant was welcomed. By the time it happened a few years ago I was ready for a change in relationships - from nothing to something. There were some hairy moments, but it will test whether you are in charge of you, or if you are a reactionary. If you're a reactionary, then you'll have a rougher time and get drawn into situations you don't control at all. If you are co-dependent, then you'll have to learn freedom.

You'll want to check the last several years for a 2-yr period in which there were disturbances in your home situation. You may have already had this transit and did not know it, mis-attributing the experiences to something else. Many people's charts are set well fwd of where they should be by degree or even sign. Uranus transits are an excellent tool for narrowing down your correct Asc degree. Excellent rectification tool when used in combination with other factors. Uranus does not deal with minor changes, but with Major ones, in which the purpose is to shock/jolt/energize you out of your ruts. When Uranus comes we're seeking excitement, freedom, change. The purpose in the long haul is to be more connected to the collective. You cannot understand Uranian energy as individualist only, but as YOUR individual connection to the whole."

And what this person says about disruptions in home a few years before is dead on. I was going crazy in a really noisy place for about 1.5 years, and then moved about a year ago, to a place I LOVE, so I hope this is right.

posted February 14, 2014 02:32 AM            

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Originally posted by EndThisConfusion:
I'm just about at the end of my rope. I'm not young, have been single for far too many of my years, married once for 7 years and single now for too long. My heart is exhausted and feels sometimes like it's dying. Literally. And now I have Uranus coming up to my desc. and 7 years of - WHAT? - when all I want is a stable, committed relationship. Pluto conjunct IC, too. WT? I don't think I can handle this, truly. Can someone offer any hope? Also, these horrid transits last for YEARS, while Jupiter conjunct my natal Venus lasts for one whole bloody WEEK? Life feels incredibly cruel sometimes.

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posted February 16, 2014 03:42 AM            

I'm glad my summary of Uranus opp Asc (from Aug 2010) made you feel better. [ http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/archive/index.php/t-27237.html ] Since then I have married the woman I was engaged to during that time and we will have our 3rd anniversary this May.

Truth is, these supposedly 'hard' transits often bring a lot of spontaneous or exciting developments that help us learn about ourselves in ways we would never consciously choose. The key is being alert to learn and not blaming -- anyone -- if things don't work out just as we'd like. Keep loving yourself and life and let people and life surprise you.

This is how I co-created my relationship:

I changed the signal I was sending out. I'd been too reserved and appeared unapproachable for too long. I changed my appearance to get noticed better. Most importantly, I told the universe "I surrender my expectations ... I just want to be with someone who can appreciate me as I am."

I later found out from my now wife that she had determined to no longer date jerks and any man she was with would have to respect her. She is now my best friend, wife, helpmate and we make each other laugh everyday.

I was alone for the first 20 years of my adult life. I did not meet my mate until I moved from my home state (TX) to Oregon. Sometimes we have to change other things for our relationships to change.

posted February 17, 2014 08:11 PM            

Another tip I can share is to check out where your prog Moon is. At the high points of declination (22-28*) north (in signs Gem/Cancer) or south (signs Sag/Cap), the approach may have to be very different.

I met my wife in person 5 yrs ago right after I came to Oregon when my prog Moon was at 278 north. That is the time to put yourself 'out there' and show people who you are, etc.

About 14 years previous, when prog Moon was at that same degree of South declination, the approach needed to be very different -- only i did not know it. Slow acquaintance with women who I let into my personal home surroundings actually moved things along better. Only I was just not ready.

Just know your approach may need to be tailored to where your prog Moon is. If it is somewhere in the middle it doesn't matter quite as much.

Find the declination of your prog moon by casting your prog chart at astro.com and choose free 'pdf' linked right above the chart. It will open up the pdf data sheet in a new tab. Find it listed in the Declination column.

Good luck.

posted February 18, 2014 11:19 PM            

I would imagine with a 7th House Uranus transit would show independence in relationships.... my spouse has this happening in his chart.

From a somewhat natal perspective, in my experience would be the independence in relationships with a desire to share one's life with a dear companion.

In my solar chart, nasally Uranus in is the 7th....opposing my Sun.