posted January 27, 2018 10:19 PM            

That must be tough.

posted January 28, 2018 12:41 AM            

The lover/partner desired is passionate, demonstrative, emotional, sexual, combative, impulsive,dramatic etc.

If not, the chart owner may exhibit these qualities. But either way,there is a preoccupation with relationships that bring on the drama or are quite intense in their makeup.

An ex had Scorpio/Leo Venus/Mars square and though he was not dramatic, i think he projected that on me and I took that on..

The relationship was sexual, sensual and demonstrative. We were all over each other a lot.

posted January 28, 2018 02:35 AM            

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Originally posted by manderin:
I can assume then that you are aspecting both his mars and his venus positively. Awesome.

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Well my venus conjunct mars conjuncts his Venus and square his Mars. His Mars trines my Moon.

I personally like trines between mars and venus for sex the most but the conjunction is more compatible overall.

posted January 28, 2018 03:43 AM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
I thought this just mean the person is ill-mannered and is provocative, bad tempered, ect

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Not ill-mannered or bad tempered (though its definitely possible!), but it is more so they are socially inept and not as aware as others when it comes to seeing the effect they have on others. Venus square Mars makes the person struggle more to blend beauty and grace with passion and power. This can come out in many ways but most often it is through some sort of artistic pursuit or some inner battle with the personality. If it is not worked upon, it can gradually build into ill manners and bad tempers, especially sexual aggression or even shying away from sexual behavior out of fear. Audrey Hepburn and some other very graceful beauties had this. It is not ill manners per se.

posted January 28, 2018 03:48 AM            

Yes. That too. Mars heats up the planet it touches and seldom is it all sunshine and roses. Even in trines and sextile contacts.

Come to think of it the same ex I spoke of was quite rude. He didn't consider other people much and was desire driven. Very pushy when he wanted something and had cut off those that he had a fallout with.

He didn't conventionally act out the agression all the time, but it was there in the statements and biting comments he made.

@hypatia 238.

I like the Gemini Venus trine my Mars in Libra. It always has me wanting more from the connection. Even after years of knowing the Venus person.

I haven't met a Libra Venus who is just too damne passive to follow through on the same connection. Its always left up in the air.

posted January 28, 2018 08:27 AM            

@hypatia238!

I'm women with Mars square Venus ,I was little afraid thought it could be a divorce.

posted January 28, 2018 12:04 PM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
I thought this just mean the person is ill-mannered and is provocative, bad tempered, ect

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posted January 28, 2018 01:30 PM            

This male friend is a SEXY HOT. But with the square, the individual must have overcome the inner struggle first or it can bring problem to the relationship.

He once attracted to me and when I asked why, he described exactly what his venus liked: I didn't bore him even in a quiet. He admitted that he had a struggle to find a woman who didn't bore him for a long time whom he could spend time with even when in silence and didn't bother if he brought his job to the dates (he has moon in Cap - out of sign conjunct my sun, sometimes when we hung out, he liked to bring his job to the table and it didn't bother me at all). His main attraction is that the woman must be ambitious or at least has a good job, otherwise he doesn't get attracted at all although if the woman has pretty face or good body. This means that he is turned on by women whom he likes/loves - his moon and his venus.

Personally I also have Mars square Venus in tight aspect and to be honest, this aspect is a very sexual and sensual person in a relationship. The one who you can spend hours of ecstasy and can turn you on easily, the hard aspect will feel more intense than the soft aspect. But with the square, you must make sure that the individual has overcome the inner struggle, or they can be a demanding lover (secretly or they will loudly tell you). I am very aware of those tendency so I tend to avoid men with those aspect in a relationship with lol. I don't even in a relationship for a long time until I know how to handle this aspect.

For me, sexual attraction is one of the main attraction. It MUST be there. I am a very sexual and sensual person in a relationship but it is controlled as I also has Eros in Capricorn.

I think it's the same with men as my male friend who has the Mars/Venus square oozes the same thing. He also told me if his partner doesn't fulfill his demand in a relationship, he will find a side chick. I don't know if he was joking or not as we always make a fun joke to each other, it's hard to tell. He also sometimes teased me by saying, "why are you so hot everyday? I am ready for a marriage.. would you?" or "you know what? You look yummy. Lets get married.. now?"

posted January 28, 2018 02:24 PM              

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Originally posted by Melinn:
No it does not mean that.

This is an aspect I'm very interested in too and I'm not an expert as Aries23degrees is <3.

I can although say no it does not say the person is ill-mannered nor aggressive. One of my closest male friends have a square between mars and venus and he is one of the most kind and polite men I've ever known.

I don't have mar-venus aspects and I can be quite ill mannered and aggressive lol.

You have to for ex look at the mars. In my case my 10th house mars is in contact with uranus, saturn, moon and jupiter. That uranus-saturn contacts shows how I'm easily irritated and the moon contact means I will act on my emotions very quickly.

While a Mars in contact with venus should make the mars "calmer" in some cases. But yeah I know it's much complexer then that.

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But it's also a square.
Anyway, I'm speaking on generalizations. I don't know the nature of the chart for to tell you how it will be played out. a Mars square Venus in the cadent houses, in mutable signs, with other surrounding aspects to the Mars & Venus is going to be different than a Mars square Venus in the angular houses, in cardinal signs, with little to no surrounding aspects to the Mars & Venus, and Moon. IDK.

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Originally posted by arcturus90:
we can't sum up bad aspects to their bad sides... even if it counts

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There's really nothing wrong with that.

posted January 30, 2018 05:47 AM            

My Dad has the conjunction with Pluto also conjunct it. And he has been a serial skirt chaser for years-even after marriage to my Mom.

My Mom has the opposition with Saturn involved therein. I don't know whether her attraction to Dad was to be the "stopper" of the Venus/Mars energy flow.