posted May 17, 2018 04:30 PM            

If you have Venus aspect Mars via soft aspect natally do you enjoy soft aspects from another person when it comes to a romantic sexual relationship or do you enjoy Hard aspects more??.

I personally have Venus conjunct Mars and I love it when a guy trines, sextiles or quintiles my venus and mars with their venus and mars.

posted May 17, 2018 07:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Aqualilith09:
I have Venus trine mars , but I'm always getting into relationships with Venus square mars lol I guess I like the harder aspects but the soft ones are nice but less strong.

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Soft is not less strong in my experience, trines and sextiles are gifts and flow more easily so my venus trine his mars helps the energy and attraction between the two to flow beautifully, hard comes with its challenges like my husband's mars squaring my venus I feel he doesn't initiate or initiates in a way I don't like or when I am not in the mood, we are not in sync like I am with a guy whose mars trines my venus (e.g. always in the mood, always in sync LOL, always have sex, the same with sextiles and quintiles IME).

posted May 23, 2018 03:29 PM            

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Originally posted by angel4845:
But I do have Venus (Chart ruler) and mars (7th ruler) in the SAME HOUSE.

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Hey I have something somewhat similar

But in my case Mars is conjunct the DSC from the 6th(1 Degree) and Venus is in the 7th and the ruler of DSC and Mars.

My sister has Venus/Mars sextile. She seems to enjoy the hard aspects to her Venus more.

Her longest on/off relationship is with a guy who has his Mars/Jupiter square her Venus.

posted May 23, 2018 03:29 PM            

I don't like when a guys Venus is Conjunct my Mars either. I have Gemini Mars-moon-chiron. And they are oppo my Saturn and Uranus. So thats that.

posted May 23, 2018 03:32 PM            

This is spooky.

You wouldn't happen to be born in May '87 would you?

posted May 23, 2018 04:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:

They fight so much and have broken up so many times. Its annoying to watch!

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hahahaha so cute...

I know my Libra partner gets uncomfortable watching too much conflict on TV, it stresses the hell out of him LOL

posted May 23, 2018 04:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Melinn:

But I get so much well along with females having their Sun in Gemini Conjunct my Gemini planets! We get each other instantly! And our humor syncs immediately! That is very important to me since I have a sarcastic/dry/dark humor

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posted May 23, 2018 11:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Hey I have something somewhat similar

But in my case Mars is conjunct the DSC from the 6th(1 Degree) and Venus is in the 7th and the ruler of DSC and Mars.

My sister has Venus/Mars sextile. She seems to enjoy the hard aspects to her Venus more.

Her longest on/off relationship is with a guy who has his Mars/Jupiter square her Venus.

They fight so much and have broken up so many times. Its annoying to watch!

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oh woowww yes we do have something similar!! hmmm as I'm thinking about this natal aspect you have in your chart I can totally see an intense connection/double sword attraction with someone hard aspecting your VENUS/MARS in 6th/7th especially since your 7th ruler is VENUS!!

the reason why i say this is because i have moon in the 7th house square my NN. and i allllwaaays get myself involved in romantic karmic relationship ties with the guys SUN hard aspecting my moon in 7th/NN.

another example

One of my friends, she's a moon in scorpio conjunct the ASCENDANT and she said her first LOVE/boyfriend that took her 8 years to get over, his sun is TAURUS!!! CONJUNCT her descendant EXACT! SAME DEGREE! opposite her moon. omg its crazzzyyy.

also, i noticed i have lots of friends who have moon in 7th/moon in libra/moon conjunct ascendant, i wanna say its chemistry like friends that somewhat mirror each other you know?

and as far as your sister goes, most of my girlfriends love there venus/moon being aspected but it could just be me as i said the whole "mirroring" chemistry thing. where is her Venus exactly?

oh wooowww the guy has mars conjunct jupiter, I'm not surprised that she feels sparks from him!! esepcially since it squares her venus. is her venus ruler by the 9th? does she have a mutable venus maybe?? mutable house?

posted May 23, 2018 11:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
@Melinn

This is spooky.

You wouldn't happen to be born in May '87 would you?

Those aspects you highlighted are my sister's. Right down to the Uranus+Mars opp

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I am your sister!

posted May 24, 2018 10:44 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
hahahaha so cute...

I know my Libra partner gets uncomfortable watching too much conflict on TV, it stresses the hell out of him LOL

Or if I talk to him about a case from work he can only handle very small doses of that..

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Your Libra partner and I are alike. I change the channel or reach for a pillow to "hide" myself

I also never watch amateur auditions for anything. I just cringe when people embarrass themselves on these things for their 5 seconds of fame.

posted May 24, 2018 10:57 AM            

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Originally posted by angel4845:
oh woowww yes we do have something similar!! hmmm as I'm thinking about this natal aspect you have in your chart I can totally see an intense connection/double sword attraction with someone hard aspecting your VENUS/MARS in 6th/7th especially since your 7th ruler is VENUS!!

the reason why i say this is because i have moon in the 7th house square my NN. and i allllwaaays get myself involved in romantic karmic relationship ties with the guys SUN hard aspecting my moon in 7th/NN.

another example

One of my friends, she's a moon in scorpio conjunct the ASCENDANT and she said her first LOVE/boyfriend that took her 8 years to get over, his sun is TAURUS!!! CONJUNCT her descendant EXACT! SAME DEGREE! opposite her moon. omg its crazzzyyy.

also, i noticed i have lots of friends who have moon in 7th/moon in libra/moon conjunct ascendant, i wanna say its chemistry like friends that somewhat mirror each other you know?

and as far as your sister goes, most of my girlfriends love there venus/moon being aspected but it could just be me as i said the whole "mirroring" chemistry thing. where is her Venus exactly?

oh wooowww the guy has mars conjunct jupiter, I'm not surprised that she feels sparks from him!! esepcially since it squares her venus. is her venus ruler by the 9th? does she have a mutable venus maybe?? mutable house?

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I attract Libra Suns or Venus in Libra people a lot. The other is Taurus Sun. Taurus Venus-not so much.

I reckon its because of Venus ruling the 7th. I thought the Mars conjunct would attract more Aries people? Not so.

My ex had his Sun conjunct my DSC. Close to exact. It was just pure physical attraction on both ends.

My sister has her Venus in the 9th. Her Venus rules the 3rd house cusp. So that could be the mutability part.

I just don't like how unstable things get between she and him. He is a Virgo Sun BTW. As these unstable conditions are usually fertile ground for a Uranus type pregnancy..... Noooo!

posted May 24, 2018 12:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I attract Libra Suns or Venus in Libra people a lot. The other is Taurus Sun. Taurus Venus-not so much.

I reckon its because of Venus ruling the 7th. I thought the Mars conjunct would attract more Aries people? Not so.

My ex had his Sun conjunct my DSC. Close to exact. It was just pure physical attraction on both ends.

My sister has her Venus in the 9th. Her Venus rules the 3rd house cusp. So that could be the mutability part.

I just don't like how unstable things get between she and him. He is a Virgo Sun BTW. As these unstable conditions are usually fertile ground for a Uranus type pregnancy..... Noooo!

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Pure physical attraction? Possibly because of mars maybe cause mars is a very physical planet but then again we can’t forget composite, transits, progressions and all that sort of stuff. Was your moon aspected by any of his planets?

And about your sister ha! I had a huuuuge feeling her Venus was in the 9th house or had a connection with a mutable sign/house/rulers. I’m not surprised especially her Venus conjuncting a mans mars/Jupiter.

Uranus type pregnancy? Was the pregnancy unexpected? Out of the blue?

posted May 24, 2018 12:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Aqualilith09:
I have Venus trine mars , but I'm always getting into relationships with Venus square mars lol I guess I like the harder aspects but the soft ones are nice but less strong.

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Haha it's the same for me or we end up with a square in synastry. I've noticed that if I have a double whammy trine with another guy, there's something in the air but it never becomes anything.

posted May 24, 2018 12:43 PM            

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Originally posted by angel4845:
Pure physical attraction? Possibly because of mars maybe cause mars is a very physical planet but then again we can’t forget composite, transits, progressions and all that sort of stuff. Was your moon aspected by any of his planets?

And about your sister ha! I had a huuuuge feeling her Venus was in the 9th house or had a connection with a mutable sign/house/rulers. I’m not surprised especially her Venus conjuncting a mans mars/Jupiter.

Uranus type pregnancy? Was the pregnancy unexpected? Out of the blue?

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Not pregnant yet. Am just thinking ahead

The ex had Uranus trine my Moon and Pluto square my Moon/ Merc ,conj Mars & opp Asc

I am glad they dumped me though. In retrospect I realized that the only thing that was driving our relationship was the sex.

Their Mars trine my Jupiter, square my Venus and trine my Asc.

posted May 24, 2018 04:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
4 May 1987

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posted May 24, 2018 05:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Melinn:
Ok and what rising? Don't say virgo?! :O

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She is Cancer rising conjunct Moon. So no lol.

posted May 25, 2018 03:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
She is Cancer rising conjunct Moon. So no lol.

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posted May 25, 2018 07:48 PM            

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Originally posted by angel4845:
If this helps, I always attract Venus & mars sextile/trine folks. Most of the people I’ve had serious romantic relations with have mars sextile or trine Venus less than 4 degrees of orb. However I don’t have Venus mars aspects at all. But I do have Venus (Chart ruler) and mars (7th ruler) in the SAME HOUSE.

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posted May 26, 2018 09:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Melinn:
Haha ok aww I wonder how she is like! , same placements as me but different moon and rising

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She is very feisty. I worry for her between inside that feistiness is someone who just wants to chill and live.

She struggles so much against the injustices nd unfairness in this world, that its made her prickly to get close.

Those who do manage however are in for a lot of stand-offs.