posted July 06, 2018 09:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Somna7H:
I have Venus in Gemini.
I don't like fat at all.
It doesn't mean I like flat chest.
Curvy is different thing.
I like to some extent.
All with clothes.
Never seen any woman without clothes in real life yet. 😳
So can't comment on that.

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posted July 06, 2018 09:54 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yeah I know this is what I've read about Venus in Gemini. So this has to be some kind of sick joke.

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posted July 06, 2018 11:05 AM            

I have been in relationships with both slim and non-slim women = slightly over weight.

Brains turn me on, and certainly those who knows a little of everything. If theyre spiritually inclined its a Big bonus.

posted July 06, 2018 11:30 AM            

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Originally posted by ScandinavianCrab:

Brains turn me on

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Ahh!
Forget to mention that.
I have Venus and Moon conjunction in 2nd house Gemini.Both planets aspeted by Pluto and Neptune.
Thanks.

posted July 06, 2018 12:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Somna7H:
Ahh!
Forget to mention that.
I have Venus and Moon conjunction in 2nd house Gemini.Both planets aspeted by Pluto and Neptune.
Thanks.

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LOL!!! Youre an amazing person! Never believe anyting else! And now your earlier comment in this thread really makes sense!

I believe you could be the greatest wall street scheme-maker IF you wanted to with those placements!

Jokes aside

posted July 06, 2018 12:54 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I mean physical attraction he wants to see my breasts. I'm sure he probably thinks they look a certain way. But I doubt they are anything like he imagined.

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I dont know who youre responding to but atleast for me physical appearance is in most cases not the 'deal breaker'.
It sound you should leave that Gemini Venus boy to his fate, and look for someone who would appretiate you more for your persona. But then agsin i guess youre both very young and life is about exploring and making your own mistakes.

posted July 06, 2018 01:27 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I mean physical attraction he wants to see my breasts. I'm sure he probably thinks they look a certain way. But I doubt they are anything like he imagined.

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gemini is very curious. the fact he wants to see your breast does not mean he is into you. he can be saying that just to convince you to show your breast.

if aspected by other planets, the sign lose importance. but venus gemini like slim women and very very intelligent. not necesarily university intelligent, but someone who can talk about everything, it is curious and bright when talking...

my ex-husband has venus in gemini and he said that if i got fat he would leave me... Lol...

but intelligence and ability to keep conversation alive was KEY...

posted July 06, 2018 02:06 PM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
gemini is very curious. the fact he wants to see your breast does not mean he is into you. he can be saying that just to convince you to show your breast.

if aspected by other planets, the sign lose importance. but venus gemini like slim women and very very intelligent. not necesarily university intelligent, but someone who can talk about everything, it is curious and bright when talking...

my ex-husband has venus in gemini and he said that if i got fat he would leave me... Lol...

but intelligence and ability to keep conversation alive was KEY...

i have venus-mars-sun conjunct 3rd house cusp. although it is in cancer, i can also have that. i see slim but defined bodies beautiful, but i found awful Jeniffer lopez body as I find it too curvy for my taste... I like ballet type of body.. defined, but with small hips.

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posted July 06, 2018 03:52 PM            

Mars, however, shows the body type and physical attributes a man is attracted to. It also shows the type of attitude towards sex he wants his woman to have. At least, this is what I've noticed.

For instance, my boyfriend has Venus in Gemini and Mars in Cancer combo. He is attracted to girls who are carefree, thinkers, talkers, who can keep an open mind about everything. He also prefers women who wear light makeup, tastefully styled messy hair, who wear loose clothes (not baggy, but light).

posted July 06, 2018 04:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
I think physical attraction definitely lies in a man's Mars sign, not his Venus. Mars rules the physical body, after all. Venus is more like the kind of personality and aesthetic they are attracted to in a woman (type of clothing she wears, how she wears her makeup, the colors she uses, etc).

Mars, however, shows the body type and physical attributes a man is attracted to. It also shows the type of attitude towards sex he wants his woman to have. At least, this is what I've noticed.

For instance, my boyfriend has Venus in Gemini and Mars in Cancer combo. He is attracted to girls who are carefree, thinkers, talkers, who can keep an open mind about everything. He also prefers women who wear light makeup, tastefully styled messy hair, who wear loose clothes (not baggy, but light).

Physically, however, he likes curvy women, even a bit on the chubbier side. He loves breasts and women who look like they can be good mothers. He also likes soft innocent looks and a woman who has traditional views on sex. He's not so much into playboy-ish kind of lingerie. He likes a woman who dresses delicate lingerie and acts very submissive in bed. He told me he used to only go for virgins in highschool. That's his Mars in Cancer talking. It's actually odd, despite having Venus in Gemini and Moon in Capricorn.

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posted July 06, 2018 04:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
I think physical attraction definitely lies in a man's Mars sign, not his Venus. Mars rules the physical body, after all. Venus is more like the kind of personality and aesthetic they are attracted to in a woman (type of clothing she wears, how she wears her makeup, the colors she uses, etc).

Mars, however, shows the body type and physical attributes a man is attracted to. It also shows the type of attitude towards sex he wants his woman to have. At least, this is what I've noticed.

For instance, my boyfriend has Venus in Gemini and Mars in Cancer combo. He is attracted to girls who are carefree, thinkers, talkers, who can keep an open mind about everything. He also prefers women who wear light makeup, tastefully styled messy hair, who wear loose clothes (not baggy, but light).

Physically, however, he likes curvy women, even a bit on the chubbier side. He loves breasts and women who look like they can be good mothers. He also likes soft innocent looks and a woman who has traditional views on sex. He's not so much into playboy-ish kind of lingerie. He likes a woman who dresses delicate lingerie and acts very submissive in bed. He told me he used to only go for virgins in highschool. That's his Mars in Cancer talking. It's actually odd, despite having Venus in Gemini and Moon in Capricorn.

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posted July 06, 2018 05:25 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Does it make sense that a man would be attracted to a woman who has a Mars sign that is compatible with his?

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I think for physical attraction, yes. If it's just plainly a sexual relationship or a fling. You get high chemistry with someone, it sometimes feels intoxicating. The one person that really turned me on a lot was this one guy who had Mars in Aries, exactly opposite mine. I wanted to be devoured by him.

But for a serious committed relationship, I believe it has more to do with his Venus and his Moon.

My bf and I have incompatible Mars signs. I have Mars in Libra in the later degrees, so not even a square aspect to his Mars. I don't really get super turned on by him in the way that I get turned on by people who touch my Mars. It's kinda the same for him. I think he was more turned on by his ex who had Mars in Taurus. They had a highly sexual relationship. That's not to say he's not attracted to me. He's still sexually attracted to me but not like really into me that he wants to rip my clothes off every time. It's a mutual feeling.

posted July 06, 2018 06:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
I think for physical attraction, yes. If it's just plainly a sexual relationship or a fling. You get high chemistry with someone, it sometimes feels intoxicating. The one person that really turned me on a lot was this one guy who had Mars in Aries, exactly opposite mine. I wanted to be devoured by him.

But for a serious committed relationship, I believe it has more to do with his Venus and his Moon.

My bf and I have incompatible Mars signs. I have Mars in Libra in the later degrees, so not even a square aspect to his Mars. I don't really get super turned on by him in the way that I get turned on by people who touch my Mars. It's kinda the same for him. I think he was more turned on by his ex who had Mars in Taurus. They had a highly sexual relationship. That's not to say he's not attracted to me. He's still sexually attracted to me but not like really into me that he wants to rip my clothes off every time. It's a mutual feeling.

Don't get me wrong, having compatible Mars is a plus but that alone doesn't guarantee longevity and commitment, imo. House overlays are important as well. It can combat having incompatible Mars signs. He and I are still physically attracted to each other because his Mars is in my first and my Mars is in his 5th.

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I know what you mean about house overlays. Someone's moon falls in my 4th house. My moon is unaspected in our synastry. But that Moon overlay really makes me feel comfortable with them. I really care about them a lot their like family. I don't know how the moon person feels though. Since I'm the house person. But I have this overlay with the same person who I have the mars/mars aspect with. But they have Venus in Virgo and I have Venus in Pisces. I know Virgo and Pisces aren't really compatible.

posted July 06, 2018 07:39 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I know what you mean about house overlays. Someone's moon falls in my 4th house. My moon is unaspected in our synastry. But that Moon overlay really makes me feel comfortable with them. I really care about them a lot their like family. I don't know how the moon person feels though. Since I'm the house person. But I have this overlay with the same person who I have the mars/mars aspect with. But they have Venus in Virgo and I have Venus in Pisces. I know Virgo and Pisces aren't really compatible.

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Well I've had a friend's moon in my 4th house before. I felt an extreme level of comfort. He was like an older brother to me. He took very good care of me. Always made sure I was eating in school and he was protective, too. He told me about his problems. I was like his shrink. No one else listened enough. It was weird because our moons were actually square, exact.

IMO, opposites can work if they are the same planet. One has what the other lacks. Their Venus in Virgo might help to ground your Venus in Pisces and offer stability. Your Venus in Pisces can help them loosen up a bit and be more compassionate. I admire Venus in Pisces, but I also offer a lot of relationship advice to my female friends that have it. Just to offer a more realistic perspective.

posted July 06, 2018 07:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Well I've had a friend's moon in my 4th house before. I felt an extreme level of comfort. He was like an older brother to me. He took very good care of me. Always made sure I was eating in school and he was protective, too. He told me about his problems. I was like his shrink. No one else listened enough. It was weird because our moons were actually square, exact.

IMO, opposites can work if they are the same planet. One has what the other lacks. Their Venus in Virgo might help to ground your Venus in Pisces and offer stability. Your Venus in Pisces can help them loosen up a bit and be more compassionate. I admire Venus in Pisces, but I also offer a lot of relationship advice to my female friends that have it. Just to offer a more realistic perspective.

Do your Venus and Mars touch?

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His Mars is in opposition to my Venus but it's a 7 degree applying orb. And my Venus squares his Mars but that's at 6 degrees separating. So I don't think those aspects count since the orbs are so wide. But some astrologers say up to 8 degrees count for squares and oppositions.

It's odd because I thought I'd forget about this guy for another guy who I have a Venus/Mars conjunction with. But I guess 4th house synastry is more significant. Sometimes I think Venus and Mars in synastry is overrated. I'm sure there are other aspects or overlays that can help with the lack of Venus/Mars in synastry.

posted July 07, 2018 03:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
I think physical attraction definitely lies in a man's Mars sign, not his Venus. Mars rules the physical body, after all. Venus is more like the kind of personality and aesthetic they are attracted to in a woman (type of clothing she wears, how she wears her makeup, the colors she uses, etc).

Mars, however, shows the body type and physical attributes a man is attracted to. It also shows the type of attitude towards sex he wants his woman to have. At least, this is what I've noticed.

For instance, my boyfriend has Venus in Gemini and Mars in Cancer combo. He is attracted to girls who are carefree, thinkers, talkers, who can keep an open mind about everything. He also prefers women who wear light makeup, tastefully styled messy hair, who wear loose clothes (not baggy, but light).

Physically, however, he likes curvy women, even a bit on the chubbier side. He loves breasts and women who look like they can be good mothers. He also likes soft innocent looks and a woman who has traditional views on sex. He's not so much into playboy-ish kind of lingerie. He likes a woman who dresses delicate lingerie and acts very submissive in bed. He told me he used to only go for virgins in highschool. That's his Mars in Cancer talking. It's actually odd, despite having Venus in Gemini and Moon in Capricorn.

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venus indicate what you like not mars. mars indicate how you go after what you want and like. so the way he approach to a woman is mars, the way he likes a woman is venus...

mars in gemini does not mean he like gemini types. means he fight with words, he approach a woman with witty-smart expressions and so on.. he fight with his mind and words...

posted July 07, 2018 05:45 AM            

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Originally posted by ScandinavianCrab:
I'm inclined to agree about the Mars thing.

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posted July 07, 2018 07:59 AM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
venus indicate what you like not mars. mars indicate how you go after what you want and like. so the way he approach to a woman is mars, the way he likes a woman is venus...

mars in gemini does not mean he like gemini types. means he fight with words, he approach a woman with witty-smart expressions and so on.. he fight with his mind and words...

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You are right about that.

But..

posted July 07, 2018 08:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
You are right about that.

But..

Mars also represents one's sexuality. It makes sense for it to play a role in attraction. It also represents the physical body. The planets represent more than just one thing. And I know this based on experience.

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