posted June 04, 2019 09:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
depends on whether or not the weight of problems is relative

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posted June 04, 2019 09:46 PM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
For example, my friend grew up rich and never had to watch her money even when she moved out and had to fend for herself she always had the financial backing of her parents.

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that doesn't tell me everything there is to know about her life though, just her finances

posted June 05, 2019 04:04 PM            

I have Aries stellium and most of it trines Uranus. I also have a few other nice aspects and a few hard ones.

I went to college, have parents that can back me up financially if needed, have a great career, a loving husband and a treasured child.

But I also worked very hard for my career. Faced my weaknesses, self motivated and proactively worked out my way. Opportunities might arise but I grab them hard. I also make my own opportunities.

I have issues with my husband and tried hard to solve them. Our pain and issues are not there to be seen publicaly and why would it be?
My child required a lot of dedication and care and me keep on figting. I’m sleep deprived for so long and all the demands has been hard but I work hard to work things and treasure my child everyday. I remind myself to be grateful.

Life sometimes seems falling appart specially with Pluto transit square, maybe Saturn involved too. But I keep going on, working hard to keep on.

People might look from outside and see someone who got parents with financial security, who went to college (well here each yearly fee is around 1k€ so it’s not like in US) and now has a great job. But they don’t see the hard work, just assuming it is all luck, and they can’t see that sometimes their luck depends on them too.

My sibling who has a Virgo stellium also got opportunities but he didn’t work as hard. Often went to the easier paths. So he was not as successful professionally.