posted March 18, 2022 03:32 PM            

So how would a saturn conjunct uranus play out in a natal chart in general.
And how would that conjunction (in capricorn) play out as a tight opposition to venus (in cancer) for a taurus sun?

Any experiences? I can't find much information.

posted March 19, 2022 07:33 AM            

This guy's mars is in aqua so this would make saturn and uranus rulers of his mars. I don't know very much about his private life. But I do know 2 different women who got so infatuated with him they both wanted to end their longterm relationships of more than 10 years because of him. And not that he was actively perusing them. One of this women actually did do that and is now his partner.

Also I noticed that he has many admirers from the opposite sex but he does not get much simpathy from men however. He is not a tipical player, he does not behave that way, he is very like attentive towards women however, doing like ild fashioned things, like holds the door for you, gets your coat etc. , really attentive!

Sadly I don't know his exact birth time. He told me once but wasn't sure about it. I suspect he may be a capricorn rising.

posted March 21, 2022 04:45 AM            

So when we look at Sat,we may look at authority figures.And that's because they enforce boundaries. They mantain consistency etc.

Authority figures(when young) are usually parents,teachers, elders etc. Who tell you how to live,what to do and how to integrate into society well.

So when Sat/Uranus are conjunct,there is an immediate sense of two very opposite energies mixing. Often indicative of an inextricable paradox

An example is that parents(Sat), don't provide stability. But are actually destabilizing(Uran). And this becomes a norm you grow up with.

So deep in your psyche is embedded the idea that change/flux/sudden ups and downs etc. Are part and parcel of "normal life"(Sat). So much so that you live alongside them and accept them as part and parcel of what makes you YOU.

The opp from Ven to both suggests that there is friction coming either from external or internal. "The other side" so to speak-either from one side of yourself or from those close to you I.e friends/lovers/partnerships etc.

This "other side" wants more consistency (instead of change),attachment(instead of being aloof),emotional rapport (instead of cerebral collaboration) and physical/intuitive presence(instead of distant formality).

posted March 21, 2022 06:01 AM            

Also if I connect with him on energetic /spirit level I feel this polarity, sometimes I feel like he wants to connect deeper with me, but then he gets detached and cold and I get confused. However I feel very similar, when we do get a bit closer I start to feel somehow afraid don't even know what I'm afraid of.

I feel like he could be someone that is very warm and attentive and feels like you could really connect with him on a deeper level, at the beginning. But my intuition is telling me , that when the time would come to really get intimate in a relationship (and I'm not talking about sex) he would not be able to do that.

posted March 21, 2022 10:29 AM            

I was madly digging on a Ven in Pisces square Ura/Sat conj dude myself. I was so preoccupied in my thoughts about him. It carried on for years. YEARS!!🙆🏿‍♂️

I prayed for release from this grip. Whether through consummation of this attraction (it did not happen).Or me getting over him one day.

One day, when Saturn was square natal Saturn,it happened.The energies aligned.

He invited me to a party. And whilst there-busy mingling and mixing with all his friends. I saw him as clear as daylight. Clearer than I have seen him for a very long,long time.

Then the epiphany came as if a gentle lullaby sung by an old wise black woman. It spoke to me like poetry "There is nothing for you here my baby".

Then I got it. The feeling waa sinking but clear. It wasn't his fault.There was no love I could give here to enhance who I am. He was who he was. I just created a fantasy in my head that persisted for years(uninterrupted)🤷🏿‍♂️

I know all about fantasies and delusions (Sun-Nep conj natally)as well as searching for the "perfect partner"( Mars in Libra in 7th).

And so I do understand what can occur when we want so deeply for something to be the way we imagine. And then get very confused when it does not morph into that thing.

"Love is many things. It varies. But one thing love is NOT, is unsure" -Maya Angelou.

posted March 21, 2022 03:50 PM            

Thank you for your words and your story it resonated deeply. And made me think from a different perspective.

It is strange that we meet this people and feel like we're soulmates, and we probably are, but it does not mean, like you said, that in reality the story will play out like we imagined in our minds.