posted July 13, 2009 01:03 PM         

also

rage makes me feel pain less.

When I was 17 years,I got jumped by four guys in high school cafeteria. I was being hit a lot. All that did was make me angrier and angrier, and I fought harder and harder.
I went nuts on them,and most of the people thought I beat them up. I ended up hitting a teacher that held me,but I was too blind in my rage at the time.
It wasn't until after the rage went away, I felt the pain.

that's one of the reasons, I need to keep my anger under control.

Raymond

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“It is absolutely the perfect name,” Dr. Brown said, given the continuing discord among astronomers and the public over whether Pluto should have retained its planetary status.

In mythology, Eris ignited discord that led to the Trojan War.

posted July 13, 2009 03:25 PM         

i'm sure there are other ways of diverting the experience of suffering...for instance my dad taught us when you burn your fingers cooking, immediate forceful pinching of the ear lobe with the hurt finger dilutes the pain by spreading it thinner...sounds potty but it works!!

posted July 14, 2009 11:02 PM         

To me it is re-lease....

I do not take it personally, ever.

To me it gets out anger-energy...why keep it in...to develope cancer or something?

Fred Durst of the immortal Limp Bizkit put it the best-ever way that I could imagine!

(the following contains ex-plicit words, language and "supposed" meanings!!! PLEASE do not watch if you are not able to hear explitives!!!)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-QqigamlsHQ

posted July 15, 2009 12:05 AM         

Raymond

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“It is absolutely the perfect name,” Dr. Brown said, given the continuing discord among astronomers and the public over whether Pluto should have retained its planetary status.

In mythology, Eris ignited discord that led to the Trojan War.

“She causes strife by causing arguments among men, by making them think their opinions are right and everyone else’s is wrong,” Dr. Brown said. “It really is just perfect.”

posted July 15, 2009 01:22 AM         

I think there's still this odd sense of taboo about swearing so when it comes out of your mouth, we are programmed in such a way, that the focus automatically goes into what was said and the response to it rather than your pain. So it's diverting your pain. The other element to it is for similar reasons, it offers some comic relief, which makes someone laugh and then has that same effect of taking their mind away from the pain.

posted July 15, 2009 10:54 AM         

I dont swear around kids either pire.

Now I have to really watch it because i hang out with a bunch of potty-mouthed guys and i notice i'm starting to talk too much like a dude. yuck. lol must be natal neptune in the 11th house. my sailor-mouth became especially bad while spending a year with my swearing dad.

posted July 15, 2009 11:16 AM         

It does not make me a better person.

A lot of people might agree on the concept that cursing releases one's pain, rage, and so forth.

Profanity is the language of hate.

The language of death force.

The language most favored by the dark forces.

If I sound judgmental, I don't mean to be. It just is.

Again, it by no means makes me a better individual.

Vulgarity/Expletives/Profanity/Obscenities are harmful to the life force. They are the language of hate.

It simply is.

Just my two cents.

I would not categorize anyone as "not worthy" or "not my friend" if one does swear.

I hope that makes sense.

D

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Every night and every morn,
Some to misery are born;
Every morn and every night,
Some are born to sweet delight.
Some are born to sweet delight,
Some are born to endless night.

posted July 15, 2009 11:22 AM         

I think it's the energy, or life force behind them that matters. Not the empty words themselves.

Swearing in a rage might be different than in fun, but i think it's the rage that is the part that is harmful, not words, but the energy coming through them or any words.

Just a thought.

Have a great day everyone. Got to head out.

posted July 15, 2009 11:30 AM         

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Profanity is the language of hate.

The language of death force.

The language most favored by those who are the opposite of good.

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Stirring trouble and causing arguments, and bringing judgement and negativity is the language of hate - but it has nothing to do with swearing unless someone is using it derogatively toward someone else.

Interesting reply. Oh, and if swearing is the opposite of good - then, I'm hardly an angel. But I guess you knew that anyway.

posted July 15, 2009 11:32 AM         

I think swearing is just part of every day life - and that's how it is. It wasn't like that when I was little, but I think it's just evolved that way.

posted July 15, 2009 01:24 PM         

I would rather be seen as f*cking improper or unlady-like for 5 f*ck!ng minutes of swearing than to live with f*cking accumulated negative energies.

But it's another thing if you use swear words without reason or because your vocabulary is limited, like when you use curse words as replacement for nouns, adjectives or adverbs.

posted July 16, 2009 12:31 AM         

I don't see about the killing him cause I'll need him for when the baby starts crying at 3 am and I can boot his butt out of bed to feed her and he can go on poopy diaper duty cause he has no sense of smell......

Cynn

My narcissistic ex hates it when I curse but talking to him can be painful as hell. Sometimes curse words really get the point across.......but the poor narc think I'm describing him by cursing....NOT!!!....lol