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From: Cloud 22, Jupiter Ave, Lalaland
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posted August 31, 2010 08:52 PM         

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I'm not just saying this for the sake of it.
I realize some people complain about threads being moved.

I would not complain if the thread was indeed in the right place.

My previous thread in LLC2 is about a man I know professionally who is hitting on me - His behaviour is sometimes very frustrating and I was asking for advice on how to handle this situation.

His behaviour reminds me of my ex-bf. However my relationship with him is not at all romantic - I am neither romantically nor sexually interested in him. I am trying to appease the situation and remain on good terms with him - without all of these sexual connotations etc...

I am sorry - but I don't understand how this was a "soul unions" topic. I mean he is definitely not my soul mate, nor was I asking about soul connections between us - I simply wanted practical advice (not soul mate related and not astrology related and definitely not a 'reading') on how to deal with this particular situation with a man - I am guessing it is male insecurity.

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Please re-open the thread in LLC2.
As I said - normally I would not care - but this thread is entirely out of place in Soul Unions - and it almost irks me. Call me picky.

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posted August 31, 2010 08:58 PM         

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You mentioned your ex a lot and made comparisons between the two. No, it wasn't about you wanting this guy as a potential bf, but it was a relationship type of subject matter, and it described male behavior that I thought would be more slanted to relationship advice and therefore the SU Forum.

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posted August 31, 2010 09:05 PM         

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Randall - I just had a look at forum headings again. Would you be able to move this to Labours of Love (which is work related and this situation is happening at my work) or Know Two are Alike - since it would just be a personal matter regarding my life?

I'm sorry but there is something about this thread being in Soul Unions that does not sit well with me. I see Soul Unions as a 'sweet' place - a place to discuss love lost, love found, strong soul connections with others etc. This situation is just practical to me. I simply want practical advice on HOW to handle this at work so that I do not end up quitting my job over it (Sorry if that was unclear. I have a Pisces Mercury and sometimes things sound more emotional than they are - to me)

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posted September 01, 2010 02:29 PM         

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D - I don't know you well, but I read your post, saw where it had been moved to, and winced. I got what you were saying.

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posted September 01, 2010 02:47 PM         

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i would think perhaps if there was a ....icky co worker forum, or even a non soul union forum, or perhaps a potential stalker forum, even a... i got my good eye on you lest you stab my back forum... that maybe it would be better suited to go there.
just an idea.

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posted September 01, 2010 02:54 PM         

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Not many people can make me roar out loud whilst sat on my own in a quiet room!!!

I haven't had the time to find dirty jokes, but I'm on it (like a car bonnet).

Off 'up the pub' now, but I will return......

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posted September 01, 2010 03:36 PM         

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I read your post over again and it still seems more relationship than work related.
If you had only said a fellow worker or boss were sexually or otherwise harassing you, that would be a work related issue,(suitable to L.O.L.)
but you strayed, then segued too far into the ex bf and relationship dramas in my opinion for it to be mainly a work/career topic.

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posted September 01, 2010 08:22 PM         

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cornflakeys

It doesn't matter -- yesterday - bygones

I actually see that LEXX lol
It's just that I feel like many things are pushing me into a romantic 'relationship' or 'fling' with this man (including himself) This SU move - felt like one more push, so I got defensive

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