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Topic: death in the family
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katatonic
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posted October 21, 2010 11:48 AM
 
RIP ari upp, slits frontwoman and friend of mine for 30 years. 48 bloody years old. dunno what from yet, but she was fit as the proverbial fiddle 10 months ago when i saw her last...very sad.her data if anyone is interested
born jan 17 1962 in munich (i believe) time unknown but i believe she was aries rising. IP: Logged |
Cynnared
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posted October 21, 2010 12:05 PM
My condolences go out to you and the family! IP: Logged |
pire
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posted October 21, 2010 12:06 PM
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teasel
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posted October 21, 2010 12:14 PM
Sorry to hear that.  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted October 21, 2010 12:28 PM
So sorry ,Kat ------------------
Pluto conjunct Dejanira, Girlfriend. IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
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From: Dayton,Ohio USA
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posted October 21, 2010 12:53 PM
So young... sorry for your loss, Kat. IP: Logged |
WinkAway
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posted October 21, 2010 01:06 PM
 my sympathy to you and yours
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AbsintheDragonfly
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posted October 21, 2010 01:08 PM
I'm so sorry Kat. I'll keep you and yours in my thoughts. *HUGS*IP: Logged |
T
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posted October 21, 2010 03:09 PM
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jane
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posted October 21, 2010 03:15 PM
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Peri
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posted October 21, 2010 04:20 PM
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Azalaksh
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posted October 21, 2010 04:46 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss, Kat   IP: Logged |
katatonic
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posted October 21, 2010 04:52 PM
thank you, all, there is so much love here...IP: Logged |
charmainec
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posted October 22, 2010 04:49 AM
My deepest condolences Kat ------------------
quote:
"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies with in us."
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson
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PeaceAngel
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posted October 22, 2010 05:48 AM
I'm really sorry for your loss Kat.  IP: Logged |
LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schr�dinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion!
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posted October 22, 2010 10:09 AM
katatonic
So very very sorry/sad for your loss.
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katatonic
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posted October 22, 2010 12:48 PM
it was a shock but as i said on lexx's thread it helped me understand why i had been feeling what felt like suicidal for some time now.... on some level i appear to have picked up on her depth of illness and pain...as i "released" on that feeling my own blues dissipated a bit...and the next morning i found out she had died at about the same time as i did my process.this woman was like my little sister, and my twin too... yet due to the nomadic type connections that people in the music world get used to, i had not been in touch for months, and had no idea she was ill. her youngest child is 14, that will be the hardest blow, to her kids. they will not want for material support but i don't know about the rest... she packed several lives into less than 50 years and now, as one mutual friend pointed out, she has crossed over into "legend" land, a fact she would appreciate no end! so many thanks for your sympathies. i was kind of hoping someone could see in her chart why now? but please know that i am fine with this now. it is what it is... i think lexx is going through the same sort of empathic "depression" - not that she doesn't have plenty on her plate to be depressed about. but i hope her clouds part soon. it does seem sometimes we are sent several years of horrendous transits at once and when we come out the other end we are like tempered steel. but i keep working on getting through these without the pain...not sure it's possible but i am convinced it can be! IP: Logged |
Happy Dragon
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posted October 23, 2010 12:12 PM
sorry to hear about your loss ~ Kat ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ** i think lexx is going through the same sort of empathic "depression" **
it's called a Chiron transit .. square natal Venus and opposite natal Pluto .. ditto for transiting Neptune ..
( Uranus and Jupiter are 'squaring' the Asc/Dsc .. trining natal Venus ) .. ** i was kind of hoping someone could see in her chart why now? **
be plenty of ppl out there who would sell some sort of astrological explanation for that ..
better off hoping to win the national lottery .. better odds at the truth ..
( you've either won something .. or not .. ) IP: Logged |
Happy Dragon
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posted October 28, 2010 03:51 PM
been hearing bits 'n pieces 'in-memory-of' on the radio ..~ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ari_Up ~ ( seems like she had been battling cancer for a while .. ) IP: Logged |
Quinnie
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posted October 28, 2010 05:57 PM
Aww Kat we have lost another shining star!
She was a true heroine.
Sorry to hear about your loss. I didn't rea;ise that she was family.Sending you lots of love. IP: Logged |
Valus
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posted October 28, 2010 08:59 PM
Sorry for your loss, kat, and for the family. Happy for her, now that she's in spirit.
"And I will show that nothing can happen more beautiful than death...
To die is different from what any one supposed, and luckier."
~ Walt Whitman
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SunChild
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posted October 28, 2010 09:48 PM
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katatonic
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posted October 29, 2010 12:11 PM
the song that keeps going round in my head was called "grownups" and the repetitive line in it is"the world of grownups its so corrupt
can it be can it be can it be stopped?" yes i think in many ways she is probably relieved, but there was no "give up" in her really. from the age of 14 she really never took part in the "normal" world, spent the 80s naked in the jungle! and then took herself, white german heiress, to jamaica and made a place for herself there too! when i say family i mean in spirit. we were not related by blood. IP: Logged |
Valus
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posted October 29, 2010 01:51 PM
Long live punk rock! 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kU2SRNU955c IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted October 29, 2010 02:17 PM
RIP
So sorry for your loss Kat IP: Logged |
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