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Topic: Not really sure where to post this...but, i have a long lost sister
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NickiG Moderator Posts: 4215 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 03:08 PM
i dont think i ever posted about this here in LL.....in fact, its not really something i'v talked about a lot in RLanyways, like the title indicates i have a long lost sister....i know nothing about her except her name and approximate age and i desperately want to find her maybe i should email Maury??? um...not really sure on what kind of responses to expect from this, i guess i just figured i'd share it ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 20019 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 03:09 PM
WOW Nicki How long have you known about this? Do you want to talk about more of the details here or is it private?------------------ Do You Think This Psychic Is Cute? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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NickiG Moderator Posts: 4215 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 03:14 PM
i can talk more about it...its not really a private issuebut all i know about her is her name is Carolin (or Carolyn...see? i dont even know how to spell it, lol) i didnt really know about her....i heard about her once or twice when i was younger...but my dad was never around for me to ask about her, and now that hes passed i cant ask about her i dont even know what her last name is or what state she lives in ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 4215 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 04:32 PM
i want to find her really badly, but i have no idea where to look...oh, and btw ami, if this was a private issue, i wouldnt have posted about it ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 20019 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 04:47 PM
Right,Nick, I know but I was not sure how far you wanted to go with the details.------------------ Do You Think This Psychic Is Cute? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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NickiG Moderator Posts: 4215 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 04:51 PM
i dont have much details myself, so i cant really go far, LOLOL you can ask as many questions as you want, and i'll try to answer them to the best of my ability ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
emitres Moderator Posts: 348 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 06:58 PM
hhmm... i would assume that you could potentially find information thru vital stats using your father's info - again assuming that he was listed on the BC as the father... good luck ------------------ " Some define good as that which preserves, and evil as that which destroys; but destruction can be cleansing and purifying, for there is such a thing in both men and races as spiritual constipation, which comes from too much preservation of the status quo." ( Dion Fortune ) IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 4215 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 07:05 PM
he should be on the BC as the father...but the rest, no idea what your talkin about, LOLOLOL------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
dysfunctionalmystic Moderator Posts: 761 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 08:33 PM
There's a few sites out on the net that try to reunite people, you could always try posting what little info you have...you could get lucky. Are there no other family members that have details?I do understand, my mum had a daughter before me that got adopted and I've never met her, we've tried to find her but no luck as yet. IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 4215 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 08:37 PM
i'v tried asking my aunt and my grandfather, but they have no info on her....do you know of any sites? preferably free sites?------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 3050 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 09:06 PM
Niki... I found my dad, with only knowing his name... I looked on the internet (this was 13 years ago, when the net wasnt as advanced as it is now) I found him with a website similar to this.. Linked to the phone book http://www.yellowpages.com/findaperson I only entered in the name, and left the state blank. Its a long search it started by alphabetical order by state. For me the search started in Alabama and I found him in Texas... I let my intuition guide me. I scrolled for hours name after name.. When I got to a name I called it and spoke to a woman, and IT was the correct number!!! My first try.. Amazing huh? IT was meant to be.. Problem, this only works if she has a house phone in her name... Also try FB and those people search.. You can get a list of people for very little money.. Like 10 dollars.. Good Luck! Oh ps... When I found him, I discovered I have 3 sisters.. I spoke with them, but I never met any of them.. IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 4215 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 09:09 PM
thanks a lot lioness....i did try looking on FB, but the number of people named Carolin (or carolyn) is incredibly long, even if i added my last name (my dads last name) to it to try to "narrow" the search...and believe me, there are a lot of Carolin (and even Carolyn) Grants out there------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 4215 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 09:40 PM
arg....gone through 5 pages so far and none of the carolyn grants are younger than 35......this is going to take forever------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 3050 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 09:58 PM
I KNOW IT does take forever... I took me hours and hours.. All I had was the name.. The last name is so common its ridiculous. I checked every state! Until I got to Texas.. Id stick with FB because at least there are pics... Sit down and focus on nothing but that.. No tv,phone etc... Have faith and listen to your gut... Ohh and use the filters... lol IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 4215 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 10:00 PM
hard to use filters when i have virtually nothing to filter, loland i'm not even sure if her last name is the same as mine....i mean, she could have gotten married or took her moms name ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 3050 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 10:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by NickiG: hard to use filters when i have virtually nothing to filter, loland i'm not even sure if her last name is the same as mine....i mean, she could have gotten married or took her moms name
Try your name, and her moms... Most women put there AKA name on FB... IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 4215 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 10:06 PM
i dont know her moms...thats the problem....if i did, my search would be that much easier (although not that faster)all of the information i have on her has been posted in this thread, lol ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 3050 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 10:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by NickiG: i dont know her moms...thats the problem....if i did, my search would be that much easier (although not that faster)all of the information i have on her has been posted in this thread, lol
Euhhh... Keep trying IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 4215 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 10:13 PM
thanks for the support and help...oh, btw, i went through 9 pages and didnt find what i was looking for on YP....like i said none were younger than an age too old to be her....as far as i know she should be about my bros age at 28 or 29------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 3050 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 10:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by NickiG: thanks for the support and help...oh, btw, i went through 9 pages and didnt find what i was looking for on YP....like i said none were younger than an age too old to be her....as far as i know she should be about my bros age at 28 or 29
Use the age filters on FB for her first name.. Hey you know she's a she! IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 4215 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 10:22 PM
yea, very true, lol------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
dysfunctionalmystic Moderator Posts: 761 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 31, 2011 05:33 AM
I only know of the uk ones but found this so far http://www.losttrekkers.com/type.asp?iType=200 there could be sites where you could leave your details too so that if she goes looking, you're easier to find.
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GypseeWind Moderator Posts: 5539 From: Love Street, she lingers long on Love Street.. Registered: May 2009
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posted August 31, 2011 08:46 AM
I haven't read all the respones, but just wanted to say I have a long lost brother.My Mom and I have been looking actively for about.. I guess over ten years now! One thing the agency said was that females were more receptive to being 'found' than males. If a good woman raised a male child, he will consider this his mother and be loyal to her, in alot of cases. That's what we were told by A.L.M.A. Good luck Nicki, I know that frustration of knowing there is someone else in the world who shares your genetics and you want so badly to see them. IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 4215 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted August 31, 2011 09:06 AM
thanks dysfunctional and gypsee....and i certainly hope my search doesnt take 10 years, LOLedit: OMG!!! i had emailed my great aunt last night asking if we're related to some certain people (because yellowpages.com tells you the people related to the person your looking for from public records) and she confirmed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i think i found her!! oh, and guess where she lives....RANDOL mill rd, LOLOL ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
abcd efg Knowflake Posts: 989 From: India Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 31, 2011 10:40 AM
All the best. Did you talk yet?IP: Logged |