posted September 24, 2020 07:42 PM            

Been dating 2 months Scorpio man, came in very hot. Wanted to see me everyday, passionate sex, intense love touches, got me a toothbrush, met his son, told me he works on energy and im the 2nd one he's told his dad about a girl. Frequent facetime, text,flowers. Told me he deleted his bumble account, last Monday my friend found his account and I said that's ok, he just deleted the app not the profile, location hasn't changed..

Fast forward to now, last time I saw him was Friday, same intensity,asked if im getting tired of him yet, he's in the process of moving and some legal ex wife stuff. He hasn't made plans to hang out (and he usually does) he texted me on Sunday and on Tuesday.. last night I saw he went back on bumble (location updated) I texted him to see how his day was.. very responsive asked about my day and he said hes going to be busy the next couple weeks.. with moving and parents visiting, I replied back and told him it sounds like u have a lot on your plate. I would love to help if you need so don't be shy about asking, however, why don't you message me once things settle down." he said thank you for understanding kissy emoji.

Is this typical, hot and cold behavior? Because his focus is somewhere else or is he done? Also the bumble thing bothers me. First time dealing with a scorpio!

posted September 30, 2020 02:14 PM            

you being a taurus sun (fixed sign) and him being a scorpio (fixed sign) , both are also pretty grounded...knowing what you want... your gemini moon maybe wants you to be there for him and KNOW what's going on more than you should. since your dealing with WATER give him some time to figure out what he truly want (im sure you'll hear back from him soon and he will make it apparent as to what he has going on), But you being the loyal grounded taurus that you are should stick around until hes ready , unless your gemini moon pulls you away making you grow uninterested. lol

posted October 01, 2020 05:04 AM            

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asked if im getting tired of him yet

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And your reply was ????

posted October 01, 2020 06:50 AM            

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Originally posted by BlueRoamer:
Never let a man see you every day.

Once a week at most of the first month.

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On its own, this is terrible advice, much like the "wait 3 days before contact after a date "rule""

Why assign some arbitrary number and one size fits all rule to how to deal with life? Childish games. You want to see and/or talk to someone, do it.

Game gets game
Real gets real

Stop playing games, communicate, see someone when you can.

"Make a man prove his love to you, never chase a man"

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Or be natural, each person can chase. Love is love, love is not war or a battle, those two things are the opposites. How can you be in love when you view it as a "battle"? Not sure i get that logic.

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Originally posted by BlueRoamer:

Girl if he asks to see you again, make him wait twice as long as he made you wait cause you are very busy now. If he was busy for two weeks you're now busy for four weeks.

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posted October 01, 2020 10:00 AM            

Either way doesn't matter anymore, we talked on Wednesday and I told him that I don't like the hot/cold, he said "hes working on it" then I simply stated the vibe has changed.. etc and never heard back. I got back on bumble.

posted October 01, 2020 03:17 PM            

You are honest and you will attract a wonderful man

But please also protect yourself and guard your heart from jerks like this guy

You are tough, you can take it, but do you have to?

posted October 02, 2020 09:16 AM            

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Originally posted by BlueRoamer:

Just remember a man is a different species from a woman, the rules you are playing by are a woman's rules, hes playing by a man's rules, dont forget that

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....What?