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posted November 25, 2013 03:54 PM            

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Hey

I am massively bored which is why I felt like asking:

Is it possible for a 30+ man to look young (like mid 20s at least) and be on the younger side emotionally and otherwise, without all those wrinkles and premature maturity, responsibility/common sense? How often does this happen? (how many out of 10 for example?)

Inb4: andstuff is a superficial idiot

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posted November 25, 2013 05:59 PM            

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Men don't protect their looks as much as women so they're unlikely to appear younger. I'd say it's pretty rare (though plenty about age 30 could pass for 25) but I've heard a surprising number of young gay men complain about having been seduced by some guy claiming to be about 30 when they were actually in their 40s or even 60s (gay men have to hide their age much more often than the straight men if they want to play with the "young & vibey"). Say, maybe (forcing myself to pick a number) .001 out of 10.

I have yet to actually see one of these men (at least to recognize them), however, so I don't know how that works. I can't help but feel those young men are stupid because how do you not know someone is that old when you "love" them? If you love someone you get to know them and you can't hide 30 years! But then, male or female, the "cool and vibey" as you put it are infamous for being clueless who are so certain of how smart they are which is why they get played so often by those with age (experience) & treachery on their side. And I'm guessing the "young & vibey" can't tell the difference between lust & love because the only thing they must be doing is screwing if they spend so much time together "in love" and never picks up on his life's story including friends, family, photos, accomplishments, etc.

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