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Topic: What kind of lover are you...?
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somethingexcellent
Knowflake Posts: 4122
From: vodka fine, I'm so divine
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 22, 2012 02:55 PM
  
Eros – a passionate physical and emotional love based on aesthetic/sexual enjoyment
Ludus – a love that is played as a game or sport; conquest; may have multiple partners at once
Storge – an affectionate love that slowly develops from friendship, based on similarity and companionship
Pragma – love that is driven by the head, not the heart; rationalised or cautious feelings
Mania – obsessive love; experience great emotional highs and lows
Agape – selfless, altruistic, and giving loveIP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 10270
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Registered: May 2011
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posted December 22, 2012 09:22 PM
It is mania but pragma will what I will ultimately follow. IP: Logged |
RedScorp
Knowflake Posts: 4934
From: The Sun
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 22, 2012 11:34 PM
I'm a bit of a ludic lover...  IP: Logged |
MillyX
Knowflake Posts: 1182
From: canada
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted December 23, 2012 02:05 AM
Starts with Storge then ends up in Mania =\IP: Logged |
Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 4676
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 23, 2012 02:56 AM
Mania, but I try to follow Agape. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
Moderator Posts: 16436
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 23, 2012 07:03 AM
Eros/Storgedislike Ludus/Pragma (as only lovestyles) torn on Mania
love the passion of it
dislike the unhealthiness of obsession IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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posted December 23, 2012 10:08 AM
all the above, depending upon the day and the hormone levels lol  IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth
Knowflake Posts: 2438
From: Gaea's Omphalos
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 23, 2012 11:44 AM
I don't believe we choose which relationship begins as one flavour and ends in another...
our feelings, change, they evolve, and they wax & wane, and sometimes they fade away entirely.
So, narrowing it down scientifically to just one would be presumptuous and the findings surely unreliable... wouldn't it be so?But! --- to play along~ ( *^_^^ )
I'd like them to all be storgic... all of the time... but, they tend to go through each level/phase, or every other.... and never in the same order, and often never to the same degree of severity, intensity differs depending on the partner and other circumstances, for sure! All very random! Which should make sense (I think), since our fates are not truly written in stone, energy is relative, and constantly fluid. as so our emotions!~ ne? sorry to be complicated. ( ~ ~ ;) but, that's just me... ~seagoat~ ------------------
( ´(00)`) ~ ブーブー
*water pig* Mercurial-Jupiterian Cap-23°-Tau/Vir 7° Scorpy Plutonic-Martian - Sadge Uranian-Venusian IP: Logged |
Odette
Moderator Posts: 4738
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Registered: May 2012
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posted December 24, 2012 03:44 PM
I'm Storge and it ends in Eros... usually^^ IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 10270
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posted December 24, 2012 07:21 PM
^not a bad way to go about things.  IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 24, 2012 10:13 PM
...LUDA. I know it's Ludas, but I was making a Ludacris reference and exploiting italics.IP: Logged |
fenia
Knowflake Posts: 169
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 26, 2014 09:21 PM
eros and mania lol------------------
Libra sun
Aquarius asc
Virgo moon
Sag venus
Cappy mars IP: Logged |
PisceanDream
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Registered: Jun 2014
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posted November 15, 2014 10:33 AM
Storge and Agape for sure. If I feel the partner is unstable then Mania kicks in... Woops!IP: Logged |
PisceanDream
Knowflake Posts: 664
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Registered: Jun 2014
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posted November 15, 2014 10:37 AM
quote:
Originally posted by hannaramaa:
...LUDA. I know it's Ludas, but I was making a Ludacris reference and exploiting italics.
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anonymidarkness
Knowflake Posts: 5432
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 15, 2014 12:11 PM
Eros/Ludas at the beginning, but always end up in Mania.IP: Logged |
Selenite
Knowflake Posts: 246
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 15, 2014 12:21 PM
eros
...and agape
and MANIA. but only in my head - i wouldn't want someone to actually act that way towards me.lol, is there one for adventurous love? as in, i just want to run away and get lost on an adventure with a lover. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
Moderator Posts: 2502
From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 15, 2014 04:28 PM
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Originally posted by cappy1277:
all the above, depending upon the day and the hormone levels lol
Yup. You can't say I'm not flexible! ------------------
~the raving one dancing in the nude~ IP: Logged |
Odette
Moderator Posts: 4738
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posted November 16, 2014 02:14 AM
I'm pragma now (I've evolved lol).. but I'm not cautious, just rational...
PS. I miss Scorpy (aka somethingexcellent)!!!
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Odette
Moderator Posts: 4738
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posted November 16, 2014 02:18 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Yup. You can't say I'm not flexible!
LOL
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Xodian
Knowflake Posts: 884
From: Canada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 16, 2014 02:41 AM
There was a test that was posted a long time ago on this forum relating to a these categories of love styles.Anyway, here is the link t the quiz: http://www.helloquizzy.com/tests/the-love-styles-test-2 My results: Eros - 100%
Ludus - 14%
Storge - 81%
Pragma - 51%
Mania - 28%
Agape - 89% IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 8984
From: Mordor
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 16, 2014 09:47 AM
That's how I'd like it to be:
96% Eros
11% Ludus
32% Storge
11% Pragma
39% Mania
75% Agape------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Odette
Moderator Posts: 4738
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Registered: May 2012
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posted November 16, 2014 10:02 AM
Thanks Xodian 
http://www.helloquizzy.com/results/the-love-styles-test-2/?fromCGI=1&var_Agape=-7&var_Mania=-5&var_Storge=10&var_Ludus=-5&var_Eros=2&var_Pragma=8 So I guess I was right... Apparently I'm more Pragma than 95% of my peers lol
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I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 8984
From: Mordor
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 16, 2014 10:04 AM
I'd probably get more Pragma if they asked different questions. After all I have a couple of dealbreakers.------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted November 16, 2014 10:07 AM
OMG!! Cappy! How in the world is your Pragma so low?
I would've never thunk it lolll quote:
I'd probably get more Pragma if they asked different questions.
Dw You still seem pretty Pragma to me 
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I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 8984
From: Mordor
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 16, 2014 10:22 AM
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OMG!! Cappy! How in the world is your Pragma so low?
I would've never thunk it lolll
Hehe, why? I couldn't care less what my family would think about my bf, if he'd be a good parent etc. To me he could even be an alien. As long as we work as a couple it's good  ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
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