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Enneline
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posted November 18, 2014 10:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As a full-blooded cancer woman incl. venus sq pluto it's hard for me to let anything go (doesn't matter if it's a person or a object ) even if I know I musn't be that clingy.

Any advice on that?

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DeepFreeze
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posted November 18, 2014 11:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeepFreeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Me?

Well, no matter how hard it is to swallow. I cut it off. I shove it in my closet, bind it up, tell it to be quiet. If it starts banging on the door, I kick the $hit out of it, kick it in the head. Ignore it, don't feed it.

Wait... What are we talking about again?

Oh yes, sorry.
If I have to cut off my leg to get away from it I will.
If I have to cut friendships, give up a hang-out spot... whatever it takes. I choke it, freeze it, it's dead, it's gone. I put on a smile and act like my life was not once ever disturbed by it.
Eventually, I forget that it was ever there. Until it starts smelling. OH NO! No no, that's something else.

Ok seriously, that's kind of it. I drop it and move forward no matter how it hurts. It's an internal thing too. I ignore my own pain, create happiness and shove it down my own throat until one day, I believe it.

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ikja
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posted November 18, 2014 11:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have to have a good rant about it. Talk it out, scream it out, curse someone out and then it is out of my system. It's a shame because I've always been told silence is sometimes the best form of revenge; but it's hard for me to do that. If I'm silent on a matter, it probably means I've reached a point where things have gone very far. In that instance, I wouldn't speak on it... But I would need to walk it out (furiously). Either way... It all has to come out or it hurts my body.

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PisceanDream
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posted November 18, 2014 11:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PisceanDream     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Me?

Well, no matter how hard it is to swallow. I cut it off. I shove it in my closet, bind it up, tell it to be quiet. If it starts banging on the door, I kick the $hit out of it, kick it in the head. Ignore it, don't feed it.

Wait... What are we talking about again?

Oh yes, sorry.
If I have to cut off my leg to get away from it I will.
If I have to cut friendships, give up a hang-out spot... whatever it takes. I choke it, freeze it, it's dead, it's gone. I put on a smile and act like my life was not once ever disturbed by it.
Eventually, I forget that it was ever there. Until it starts smelling. OH NO! No no, that's something else.

Ok seriously, that's kind of it. I drop it and move forward no matter how it hurts. It's an internal thing too. I ignore my own pain, create happiness and shove it down my own throat until one day, I believe it.


Unreal how I am the exact same... Amazing, really. Every single word.


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