posted January 15, 2014 03:58 PM
People don’t love whom they should. They love whom they do. The charts show all. They show how and why we love. Some loves will not turn out well. Some will turn out well.The chart will show the nature of the relationship just a surely as a blueprint shows the nature of the house.One aspect that seems to overwhelm people in the manner of a tidal wave is Nessus and Dejanira.When one sees an obsessive relationships, such that people cannot keep their hands off each other, it may well be Nessus/Deja. The pure power of this relationship exceeds any aspect in synastry. If any aspect will make a normally sane person go nuts, it would be this one.
If you think about people who threw away everything to be with a person, I bet it was a Nessus/Deja relationship. To describe it with a picture, these relationships are a conflagration. Do you know the Pointer Sisters song”Fire”? That would be one song for the Nessus/Deja relationship. There are many others such as The Sugarbabes song, “Lost in You”
At any rate, if the Nessus/Deja bug bites you, you best hold onto your hat. Listen to your friends who will be able to see what you can’t. It is obvious to those around you that you are not crazy in love but just plain crazy.
These relationships, which start with fireworks, seem to end with a thud. When they end, the love often turn to revenge. When you see the woman smash the man’s car windows with a golf club( which I have seen), it is most likely Nessus/Deja. There seems to be one of these relationships that is one to a lifetime. Perhaps, the people learn. Perhaps, one to a lifetime is all one gets. I don’t know about that but I do know that the traits of this relationship can be ascertained once one has experienced it or seen it enough in others. To sum it up, I would say that it is close to impossible for a person to resist a Nessus/Deja relationship.
If we leave Asteroids for a moment and go to planets, there is nothing like Moon/Pluto. It is second to Nessus/Deja. Moon/Pluto does not have the level of abuse of the Nessus/Deja relationship. I think Nessus/Deja relationships are unique in that they almost exactly mirror past childhood abuse. That is why they are so intense. That is why they are so magical, too. That may be why they don’t work. One cannot go back and make right that which was wrong. That one sentence sums up the sturm und drang of the Nessus/deja relationship.
On to Moon/Pluto, which is equally magical in it’s own way. These do not seem to last either, but I cannot make a doctrine of that because I have not seen enough. Moon/Pluto has the magic of the most primal of loves, the love of a mother. The mother’s love is combined with sexual and romantic love. There is probably nothing as intimate as this, nothing as breathtaking. This relationship does seem to be one to a lifetime. If one does not understand a romance novel, such as Wuthering Heights, one has not had a Moon/Pluto relationship. If one has had one, one will never forget the person.
Third in line for primal love would be Pluto/Venus. This is a tamer love than Moon/Pluto but not tame, by any means.
There are other aspects for pure attraction such as Uranus. If there are no soul aspects, however, the relationship probably will not last. Uranus heats up what it touches but it may cool it down, just as fast. Uranus is a wild card like electricity, which it rules. If Cupid bites you such that you want to be with the person day and night. Then, one day, it is all over, check out Uranus.You will likely see that it was prominent.
Planets are the main structure of the relationship and asteroids are second. This can reverse when there are very strong asteroids and they are exact. Nessus and Deja would be a perfect example of that. However, generally speaking the planets are the core of any relationship. If the planets are the soup, the asteroids are the spices.
Certain asteroids are pure hot pepper. One would be Lilith. Lilith is raw sexuality. If one person’s Lilith touches another person’s ASC, Sun or Moon, there will be fireworks in the manner of Uranus. Lilith does not connote staying power either, in the manner of Uranus.
Apollo makes for worship. The planet person will worship the Apollo. One cannot help whom one looks at as a Greek god. The worship may not last. We would need to see if there is true soul in the chart. True soul would be Moon trine Moon, for example.
I have left a lot unsaid as it seems I do in everything I write. There is so much to say but I will stop here for this article and await your Comments, as always.
Lindaland
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