posted July 22, 2014 12:03 AM
1. ASC is at 0 dg. Taurus which means an emphasis will be placed on physical displays of affection, sensuality, and material gifts to show love. You may be a hands-on or touchy-feely couple. Venus is in Libra which shows a great degree of emphasis placed on romantic harmony and appearing attractive and pleasant as a couple. Venus is widely conjunct Pluto [but still conjunct] means you two can give off a subtle kind of sexuality and intensity when together. 2. Venus conjunct Pluto shows that your relationship will have intense and often all-consuming themes. Love will be all or nothing. This Venus enjoys drama and power plays. The Libra emphasis will tone down jealousy issues; however, there will still be possessive themes to a degree. Venus is sextile Mars-Neptune showing an idyllic and passionate romantic love. One of you might want to act out role play fantasies [Venus-Neptune] or enjoy passionate bedroom games that tap into your darkest, most secretive desires [Neptune influence and Pluto influence on Venus].
3. Mars conjunct Neptune in the 8th is an intense placement. 8H Mars in composite indicates strong sexual urges that flow between you two, an inherent understanding of each others' sexualities. You may feel that this sexual relationship is unlike any other you have ever experienced because of the almost sacred or surreal quality the sex takes on - it feels dreamy, surreal, so good it's unreal. It's highly unlikely that either of you will have difficulty achieving orgasm or feeling extreme pleasure even if orgasm is not the goal during every encounter. You have an intuitive, almost psychic understanding of what makes each other tick. However, the fantasies may get a little out of hand and expectations could become unrealistic...Mars-Neptune can also present boundary issues. Sex may always be on the brain for one or both of you and you need to make sure that this isn't a sex-only relationship with such strong placements.
Possible other issues that can arise with this placement aspect is deception and an inability to figure out what your goals are as a couple, especially with shared resources and building a concrete foundation. Co-dependence can also come up since there is such a psychic tie between you two. Again, be aware of unrealistic expectations and goals in the relationship. It may have been possible for Yoko and John [who, ironically enough, also had Mars con. Neptune in their composite] to lay in bed and dreamily, romantically make a stand for peace while falling in love with love, but for you two, a certain realism needs to be achieved. I don't want you to be taken advantage of by this person! Mars con. Neptune is also square Saturn in the 5th, showing that one of you really wants something practical to come out of this while the other is content with existing on dreamy fantasies instead of 'getting real'. Incompatible views about sex and romance will come up. One wants the relationship to have a serious element and the other does not.
4. Mercury, Uranus and the Sun are in Scorpio in the 7th. Sun is conjunct Uranus, which shows that the merging of your egos may be transformative and shocking. This partnership may have been totally unexpected and surprises other people. You feel that your partner challenges your ideas and views of the word. Some spontaneity must exist in order for the partnership to thrive. Typically, the Sun in the 7th in Scorpio could mean total merging, almost to an obsessive or intense point, but Uranus on the Sun desires some individual freedoms to still be retained, even if this ends up being longterm. It seems neither of you are threatened by this which is good!
The issue with 7H Uranus can mean that the romantic life and partnership is faced by certain challenges from outside events that are unexpected... the relationship can begin AND end suddenly and have 'electric' elements that are both positive and negative. Uranus in Scorpio can mean that one of you opens the other's eyes to a whole new way of relating to someone else, being more sexually experimental, etc. But despite all the sparks and intense initial sexual attraction this is not a good placement for a long lasting serious partnership. Your 5H Saturn counters this, however, and can show that at least one of you is willing to work at something serious eventually.
You two are open to discussing sex, death and different philosophies together - you're never the type to shy away from discussing heavier topics together. In fact, this rapport is very important to you both with Mercury in the 29th degree and straddling the 7th and 8th house cusps. Mercury is Retrograde which means that sometimes, either or both of you have a tendency to obsess on things that have gone wrong in your relationship; you two may hold grudges against each other and use sarcasm and words as weapons against each other. Moon quincunx Mercury shows one or both of you have an insensitivity to the other's emotions at times in the way you speak.
5. The Moon is in the 1st and conjunct the ASC, placing a heavy emphasis on emotions and emotional expression as a couple. One of you has an earthy, sensual emotional expression and likes to nurture the other romantically, playfully [Moon trines 5H Jupiter]. The Moon here denotes that it is very difficult for you to hold back how to feel about each other. The Moon is not really challenged here and it shows a lovey-dovey feel that can be really touching to the other partner in the relationship. The other partner may be more eccentric and intense but really softens up with this Moon placement and can be a real 'softie' to you and your needs. I have the feeling that the Moon is closer to representing you than the other person here but correct me if I am wrong.
The Moon's ruler, Venus, is conjunct Pluto so emotions can be intense. Make sure to not harbor old hurts and resentments when something goes wrong between you two. Open communication to counteract emotional outbursts is a must.
6. Again, 5H Jupiter is generally a good sign. It denotes a fun and playful nature to the relationship, optimism and good fortune existing with your connection, and balances out 5H Saturn. I feel that 5H Saturn in Virgo shows that one partner may not be keen on having certain romantic commitments like having children. Again, the Saturn in 5H sq. Mars-Neptune in 8H shows that some dissonance exists between real life romance vs. fantasy romance. Having practical relationship responsibilities will NOT harm your sex life and this must be reinforced between you two!