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Topic: What are lilith relationships like?
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Dwhelps
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posted June 26, 2022 08:01 PM
  
I met this man not long ago online and we’ve only been talking through chat so far.I’ve never felt so much lust so early on.
It doesn’t feel like a great energy going on between us. But the thing that really bothers me and is really unlike me usually…. Is that ever since I met him, I’ve been crying and remembering / dreaming of some traumatic things that happened in my past. Even though he hasn’t done or said anything to trigger that.
It’s a little difficult for me.
And I can’t really understand why… I am also worried about the Nessus in our composite too. If anyone would take a look and give some insight, I’d appreciate it lots! Anyone also have experience with Composite Sun conj Lilith? Composite Mercury conj Chiron?
How did that play out? http://imgur.com/a/cwXQ4zw
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Randall
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posted June 27, 2022 11:28 AM
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Dwhelps
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posted June 30, 2022 11:28 AM
Please anyone!
Here is a synastry with other asteroids:
He’s red, I’m blue.http://imgur.com/a/zZs5vHy IP: Logged |
StoneMoon
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posted June 30, 2022 05:36 PM
Well in terms of composite I would be more concerned with the Uranus and Neptune issues. Neptune is opposite Venus and square Moon, so I would think you are not seeing him clearly. And given the number of negative asteroids you included, I think you suspect this already. The grand water trine of Venus, Pluto, and Jupiter is really lovely. Deep passion and emotional connection, really beautiful. And the Mercury Chiron could be painful, but maybe it's as you are already experiencing? He's stirring up the pains and wounds that are already within you. Sun is wide trine Moon, so there is a nice flow and harmony. Mars Uranus opposite Juno doesn't look promising. Saturn is opposite the composite Sun, so I really feel like it may become oppressive over time. And for synastry, perhaps you are feeling (also) his Mars opposite your Venus, which is your chart ruler? Your DSC ruler Mars though is square his Pluto Moon. I think this will stir up his own issues and distrust surrounding women. He makes a T square with this to your Mars Jupiter square. With his Mars in Scorpio, I am not really liking that combo. Again, you already feel resistance, so listen to that. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted July 14, 2022 06:44 PM
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Dwhelps
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posted July 23, 2022 02:54 PM
@StoneMoon! Sorry I only saw this reply now!
At first there were many misunderstandings in our friendship/relationship, now I don’t feel as much hesitancy as I’m beginning to learn to understand him.
We are quite different in our approaches to love - he’s different from anyone I have ever dated.
But it is refreshing to me.I haven’t ever felt this way about someone… it’s different than my other relationships. I tried plugging in other better asteroids. I tend to plug in “negative” asteroids straight off the bat for fear of getting into another abusive one as I’ve had my share of abusive relationships! I’m going to put some more thought in your interpretation and how it might be playing out with us! In our natal charts, he has Uranus hard aspects and I have a Neptune hard aspect so that might make that energy easier. I also found out that I have Valentine conj his NN, and he has Valentine conj my SN in synastry. In our composite that shows as Valentine square the nodes. I feel like I really adore this guy, even though he doesn’t have any of the usual characteristics I am attracted to… and I don’t know him well enough to feel this assertive - it’s just bringing out a different me. I’ve never really been the forward one but here I feel…. like I can’t let go of this one until I’ve tried! It’s really different from my usual relationship dynamics. IP: Logged |
Stawr
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From: N. America
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posted August 03, 2022 12:17 AM
I feel like Lilith bonds are strong. I have Lilith conjunct my husband's pluto exactly. We can be dark with each other. I also feel like we are a power couple. They say this can be a Bonnie and Clyde bond. And it's hard to tell which one has more control. I also have Lilith conjunct my sisters Venus. We had our rivalry when we lived under the same roof. But once she moved out we are close like best friends. I have Lilith trine Lilith with a guy I know. We are almost telepathic. We have the same taste in music and we enjoy each others darkness. IP: Logged |
Stawr
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posted August 03, 2022 12:23 AM
Oh my God my husband's Lilith opposes my Chiron. I have built up resentment towards him over him hurting my feelings. We are working it out in therapy. His Lilith is in my 8th house. His Lilith conjuncts my Uranus and sextiles my Mercury. IP: Logged |
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