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Topic: At a crossroad. Is this worth it?
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q1123
Newflake Posts: 6
From: Canada
Registered: Sep 2015
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posted September 06, 2015 09:50 PM
  
I have never experienced such a weird situation with a man. We are clearly so attracted to each other but we can't even speak or make eye contact. Were both reluctant to make the first move. I read somewhere that if someone makes you feel nervous and uneasy then they are not the person for you. I'm losing my mind honestly. I just want to know if pursing him is worth the risk...Synastry (I'm blue, he's red)
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manderin
Knowflake Posts: 387
From: New York, NY USA
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted September 06, 2015 10:22 PM
If you can't share the birth info then could you paste the synastry using sidereal and whole signs? IP: Logged |
q1123
Newflake Posts: 6
From: Canada
Registered: Sep 2015
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posted September 06, 2015 10:29 PM
I have no idea how to get a sidereal synastry chart, do you mind helping me? IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 4785
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 06, 2015 10:46 PM
VALENTINE-KARMA, PSYCHE-EROS, MOON-CHIRON, and CHIRON-AMOR are definitely complicated.IP: Logged |
q1123
Newflake Posts: 6
From: Canada
Registered: Sep 2015
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posted September 06, 2015 10:52 PM
@Aubyanne Hmm, I thought those were good aspects  Complicated as in doomed?IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 4785
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 06, 2015 11:57 PM
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Originally posted by q1123:
@Aubyanne Hmm, I thought those were good aspects Complicated as in doomed?
No, no, EROS even near PSYCHE might be felt. As to the CHIRON aspects ... that can be difficult, yes. VALENTINE-KARMA seems interesting. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 4785
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 06, 2015 11:58 PM
Also, DESTINN conjunct JUNO is intriguing.How close is his PLUTO conjunct your SUN? IP: Logged |
q1123
Newflake Posts: 6
From: Canada
Registered: Sep 2015
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posted September 07, 2015 12:05 AM
Ahhh okay. Right?! I was thinking the same thing... sucks that theres barely any info when it comes to asteroids in synastry.We both have Sun-Pluto aspects in our natal charts so they are repeated in synastry. His Pluto conjunct my sun (3 degrees) and my Pluto opposes his sun (0 degrees) IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 4785
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 07, 2015 12:07 AM
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Originally posted by q1123:
Ahhh okay. Right?! I was thinking the same thing... sucks that theres barely any info when it comes to asteroids in synastry.We both have Sun-Pluto aspects in our natal charts so they are repeated in synastry. His Pluto conjunct my sun (3 degrees) and my Pluto opposes his sun (0 degrees)
Okay, I've never found PLUTO to be active in the manner you're referring to outside of 0º25. However, where your PLUTO is opposite his SUN? That's intriguing. There's a tonne of information on asteroids in synastry, actually. How far is his EROS from your PSYCHE? It looks about 5º-6º. IP: Logged |
q1123
Newflake Posts: 6
From: Canada
Registered: Sep 2015
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posted September 07, 2015 12:12 AM
Sorry got a little confused, what do you mean in the manner I'm referring to? I think his Pluto conjuncting my sun is something since Pluto rules his 8th house. Is 8th house synastry bad?His Eros is 24 gemini and my psyche is at 16 gemini... too far to make it valuable? IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 4785
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 07, 2015 12:21 AM
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Originally posted by q1123:
Sorry got a little confused, what do you mean in the manner I'm referring to? I think his Pluto conjuncting my sun is something since Pluto rules his 8th house. Is 8th house synastry bad?His Eros is 24 gemini and my psyche is at 16 gemini... too far to make it valuable?
Oh, that's way away from a conjunction. Nevermind. It's more like 'Psyche and Eros in the same sign', which would apply. And -- hello, fellow Psyche in Gemini. :: waves ::  Mine's at 20º. You're definitely loading up his 8H -- your SUN, MOON, MERC, PLUTO, and VALENTINE are all there. As to your SUN being conjunct his 8R, it's almost overkill, with everything else being in his 8H. Now when you're speaking of 'we can't even make contact' level of fear and intimidation, I've not seen that outside of 0º hard aspects to PLUTO. But, hey, his PLUTO is 0º opposite your SUN, I believe you'd said -- which would show the potential for unease on his behalf, too. Why on earth do you think there's this much drama between you? Do you both have some serious trauma in your backgrounds? IP: Logged |
q1123
Newflake Posts: 6
From: Canada
Registered: Sep 2015
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posted September 07, 2015 12:30 AM
Okay, I thought so too. Does them being in the same sign make any difference? Awesome tehe *waves back* It's really strange honestly. I want to know how he feels and I have a feeling we could get along and that I would understand him (My ascendant 2 Libra conjunct his moon 3 libra) Well both of our last relationships were disasters, we both got cheated on and experienced heartbreak so I think it's a fear on both sides of the same thing reoccurring but that's just my guess. I have moon, venus and mars square saturn natally so I am usually this reluctant and scared when it comes to love. He has moon square venus... I don't know. I hope we can fully communicate one day, I have a feeling we'll end laughing at how scared we were of each other. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 4785
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 07, 2015 01:36 AM
Yeah. Being a former profiler, fear is entirely relative. And here, obviously, kind of silly.  Good luck! IP: Logged |
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