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Topic: Planets on NN..
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3l3n
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posted October 03, 2015 08:40 AM
  
I have come to realize that planets on the others NN or the other way round, have the tendancy to hold you back after a while, despite the fact that they started out as a helpful and enlightening procedure. Does anyone else agree with this? IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted October 03, 2015 10:18 AM
Hmm!Maybe to whatever extent you have not reached your NN, you fail to connect deeply with the other person's planet? So it's not that they hold you back, but you are still holding yourself back, and the distance between your NN and the other's planet becomes more and more obvious as it remains static over time? Though another theory is, maybe we need to develop these qualities within ourselves, but when they are being exhibited by another person, we tend to lapse into receiving the energy instead of generating it? I know that I tend to feel like a student around people whose sun is conjunct my NN. While that is great for me as a learning experience, I can't remain a student, nor do I want to make the mistake of thinking I have to Single White Female them, be their clone. I mean sometimes that is disorienting, just because I bring too much astro-analysis to the table, and wonder how I'm supposed to make the best of the synastry. Of course my NN is in Scorpio so I'm bringing my occult leanings to every interaction.  I don't know anyone whose moon or Mars is conjunct my NN.... Venus on my NN has frustrated me because I cannot close the gap. And being the Venus person in a Venus-NN synastry was frustrating for me, as well....though only in a romantic context. Platonically, this is fine. Well I just don't have enough experience with planets on my NN to give a comprehensive answer, but I'm throwing my limited impressions into the arena. Looking forward to seeing others' answers, as I've been wondering about planet-NN contacts for a while. IP: Logged |
3l3n
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posted October 03, 2015 10:28 AM
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Originally posted by Faith:
Though another theory is, maybe we need to develop these qualities within ourselves, but when they are being exhibited by another person, we tend to lapse into receiving the energy instead of generating it?
This is what I have been seeing more often with NN synastries around me Thanx for the explanation Faith
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Ami Anne
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posted October 03, 2015 10:40 AM
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3l3n
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posted October 03, 2015 10:48 AM
I agree Ami Anne. but I do see that they have the tendency to hold you back once you have learned the purpose they are there for IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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posted October 03, 2015 01:37 PM
Perhaps if you've got a skipped step, and it's SNODE-oriented, trying to relate to your NNODE might feel premature.Depends upon what you mean by 'holding one back', I think; in what way? By failing to grow? Or by moving too far ahead too quickly -- to where you feel as if you can't progress, as you're more liable to succumb to inertia? IP: Logged |
Orange
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posted October 03, 2015 01:50 PM
Ive got a busy South Node in my natal, so I dont like anyone's planets on it. I cringe when someone puts a planet on it.And I haven't had much experience with people placing their planets on my North Node, which means I subconsciously avoid them, but my current love has his Venus on my NN, and he brought lots of love with it. Not sure how I will feel it in the future, but it feels like we look in the same direction, riding along. IP: Logged |
3l3n
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posted October 03, 2015 02:05 PM
Thanx for explaining everyone.
What I see is that if someone isn't ready to let go of their SN, they tend to sit in the comfort of the planet conjucting their NN and not evolveIP: Logged |
3l3n
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posted October 03, 2015 02:10 PM
Have any of you with anothers planet conjuct your NN been able to easily move on with your life without this person?IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted October 03, 2015 02:21 PM
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And I haven't had much experience with people placing their planets on my North Node, which means I subconsciously avoid them...
I think I do that, too. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted October 03, 2015 02:25 PM
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Originally posted by 3l3n:
Have any of you with anothers planet conjuct your NN been able to easily move on with your life without this person?
It rarely comes up in synastry... When it does, I don't technically ever let them go. I assume we are on pause. That's my obsessive Scorpio NN trine 8H moon and sextile never-say-die Cap sun. We might be done, but I keep a "well...you never know" mentality, as a cushion around that thought. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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posted October 03, 2015 02:33 PM
I think it comes in cycles.I'm baffled how many men (specifically, men) have their SUN 0º conjunct my NNODE; so much to where I've memorised the date, so when I hear that birthday, I pay closer attention. They all have something in common, too. They actively give of themselves -- almost selflessly -- towards my future. They become indebted to me, even without my asking; 'whatever I can do to help' becomes their mantra. Amazing. Only time that failed -- and spectacularly -- was with an ex-producer. We also had a DW EROS-PSYCHE conjunction. I've tried to clear the karma, but ... something is amiss with that guy. My boyfriend has his VENUS/KARMA on my NNODE; I'm quite fond of it, actually. IP: Logged |
athenaia
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posted October 03, 2015 05:04 PM
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Originally posted by Orange:
Ive got a busy South Node in my natal, so I dont like anyone's planets on it. I cringe when someone puts a planet on it.And I haven't had much experience with people placing their planets on my North Node, which means I subconsciously avoid them
Orange, I agree with this so much. I love observing Leos, I love famous media-based and historical Leos... I just love everything Leo represents, honestly, but I cannot have any Leo hovering near my SN in synastry. I feel like they're the opposite end of a magnet and I have to take several large step backwards every time I sense the energy in my proximity. Very innate instinct. For someone to touch my NN, they would also be touching my moon. So truthfully I do like Moon/NN with me being the NN - however these have all been platonic (albeit GREAT and deeply forward-propelling) friendships in my life. I had a Venus conjunct my NN once and as Faith said I felt as if we "couldn't close the gap" - very frustrating! But I feel like I still learn from the experience every day... I identify with my NN to the fullest extent, but it's true. I do not have a lot of Aqua people in my life. Gemini and Libra, yes, so the trine seems more comfortable in this regard.. you know how they say people run from their twin flames because the magnitude of the energy is just too intense to absorb rationally? I guess that's how I feel about me being the NN in synastry. It's just a LOT spiritually/psychically to deal with (Moon contacts aside) IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
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posted October 03, 2015 05:17 PM
My mars is conjunct my bfs NN in libra.
Our relationship has made him decide to move back to his hometown, something he's thought about doing for many years.
His Mars is on my SN in scorpio. I'm good with that. Taurus placements in a man give me the heebies.IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted October 03, 2015 06:52 PM
I have a Sun-SN conjunction exact and a Chiron-SN at 1 degree in the synastry with a Pisces man and although I can understand where the descriptions are coming from with the SN in synastry, but being that his SN is unaspected or just midly unaspected and we have many supporting aspects (Saturn on the DSC exact, Sun/Moon/Mars-saturn conjunction, and Venus-Saturn sextile) it just allows us to get close to one anothwr a lot faster than normal. Of course it's VERY karmic, but I feel it's positive. It just depends on the synastry.IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted October 03, 2015 07:10 PM
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Originally posted by GypseeWind:
My mars is conjunct my bfs NN in libra.
Our relationship has made him decide to move back to his hometown, something he's thought about doing for many years.
His Mars is on my SN in scorpio. I'm good with that. Taurus placements in a man give me the heebies.
Oh wow....that's really nice that you inspired him to move. Mars conjunct either node sounds good and active, not as passive as Venus-NN might be be. I guess it depends on the sign of the node, which planets are best for it. Pluto on my Scorpio NN feels like "WHOA THERE! BE A LITTLE MORE INTENSE WHY DON'T YOU??" I am okay with it now that I recognize it. I don't think these people see themselves or feel their energy the way I do. ETA: Not criticizing, just saying it's dramatic/obvious to me.
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Gabby
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posted October 03, 2015 08:46 PM
I seem to, lately, have many ppl coming into my life conjuncting my NN, it was 4 men in a row that came into my life, they all have sun on my NN.
All of them seem to keep me as close as they can and don't forget about me. But all were married when we met so I moved on. Now 2 are single but I've moved on. They keep finding interesting ways to pop back in my life....almost seem a bit stalkerish to! Lol
But I have a scorp NN, so what do you expect? What is it about scorpios and loving being able to control everything? Chose your food and want to tell you what to wear or pick out your clothes? I just met a guy in early sept, his Venus and Moon are on my NN...so far i completely adore him!! Actually I know I could love him. I feel so drawn and want to learn from him. The Sun on my NN seemed to controlling and dominating but Moon and Venus feels so beautiful and flowing!
He still likes to chose me food...but it seems to be in a more loving way instead of just domineering. IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
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posted October 04, 2015 12:53 AM
Oy, my ex scorpio used to stand behind me in the kitchen and try to tell me how to cook (though he couldn't do it on his own) he had a Sag moon. Current scorpio has a gem moon, much better! He's more into suggesting....  IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
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posted October 04, 2015 01:01 AM
@Faith, yes I'm wondering if people who have Mars conj ones nodes come into our lives when we need to make a major change but haven't been able to.
We also have DW vertex conj asc, so it definitely seems like all this was 'supposed' to happen.IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted October 04, 2015 08:32 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
What is it about scorpios and loving being able to control everything? Chose your food and want to tell you what to wear or pick out your clothes?
 My husband is like this, good thing I often agree with his taste, but sheeshhhhh.... He has Scorpio NN like me, but I don't think that's the problem, I think it's his stellium containing Pluto. IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh
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posted October 04, 2015 08:35 PM
Anything on my north node opposes my personal planets in Aries, which isn't the best thing to experience. :PIP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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posted October 04, 2015 08:55 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
What is it about scorpios and loving being able to control everything? Chose your food and want to tell you what to wear or pick out your clothes?
:: shiver :: That's a nightmare right there. I completely respect submissive tendencies in others, but noooooo, thaaaank you! IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted October 04, 2015 08:57 PM
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Originally posted by GypseeWind:
@Faith, yes I'm wondering if people who have Mars conj ones nodes come into our lives when we need to make a major change but haven't been able to.
We also have DW vertex conj asc, so it definitely seems like all this was 'supposed' to happen.
Wow...DW with ASC Vertex! I might have that with my father, if my chart rectification is correct. I think it is. My father and I have very interlocking and meaningful synastry...it seems to affect my life long after he has passed. Like I meet people who kind of reverberate his chart, having several features in common with him. Anyway...back on topic... I agree with you. Well my experience with Taurus Mars on my SN was, they really tried to push me ahead. I don't know any Scorpio Mars people in person. But I had a weird dream about recently that insisted I need this placement in my life...and showed me pics of Scorpio Mars celebrities.  Funky. My husband's Mars squares my nodal axis, bolts me onto a see-saw ~ ups and downs. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted October 04, 2015 09:01 PM
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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
:: shiver :: That's a nightmare right there.I completely respect submissive tendencies in others, but noooooo, thaaaank you!
I'm not submissive!  I'm stupid. There's a difference.
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Faith
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posted October 05, 2015 12:45 AM
^^ Just being silly. Not because the issue is silly, but sometimes I just have to laugh at the absurdities of my life.... Truthfully, "submissive" is a touchy word for me. Sorry for the tangent but I wanted to say that I don't relate to the word "submissive" ~ and my husband would laugh his head off if anyone told him he had a submissive wife. Yet, I honor many of his preferences, partly out of sympathy for them (Pisces moon) and sometimes because I just don't care enough to fight it (Pisces moon.) Where it gets stupid is where I can't see that a line has been crossed, and yield when I shouldn't, so I regret that and have to fight hard to reverse concessions. Sorry for digressing.  IP: Logged |
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