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Topic: Haven't met anyone like him in years, but I want opinions..
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Marandana Knowflake Posts: 317 From: Earth. Registered: Dec 2013
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posted May 25, 2017 02:34 PM
Hey everybody!I just met this guy 2 weeks ago in a friend's house, the connection at first was a little shy but after a couple of hours it turned out really strong, and yes, it ended in a one night stand, the attraction was high, he's a foreigner and got back to his home country the next day, but we talk everyday, almost all day, he tells me he misses me and that he actually feels a little in love with me, I don't know what to do! I really feel like he's being honest about his feelings about me, but, the disadvantage here is that.... He lives on the other side of the planet! & I'm also starting to have some feelings for him too. Haven't met anyone like him in years I'm really worried and I don't know what do to or how this would end... I wouldn't stand another bad heartbreak I think I've had enough. What do you guys think about our synastry? Does it seem short-lived? I'm the red one, he's blue. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 4167 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 25, 2017 03:12 PM
I am not great with this type of chart. But take a look at your Venus aspects and whether they interact with Uranus/Neptune.Moon/Venus aspect to Mars/Uranus/Jupiter often suggest spontaneous attractions that want overnight gratification. Jupiter in 8th is a strong indicator of a sexual attraction to people from a culture not of your birth. The excitement of this match could be compounded (ironically enough) by the distance between you two. Is Jupiter aspecting Venus by transit? Or is there an aspect from Uranus by transit? IP: Logged |
Marandana Knowflake Posts: 317 From: Earth. Registered: Dec 2013
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posted May 25, 2017 03:42 PM
Wow, I have never ever thought about jupiter 8th being an indicator of attraction for people from different cultures, but yeah it makes a lot of sense! I've always been attracted to foreigners 😁 And answering your question, I think Jupiter is aspecting Venus by transit. So, do you think it was just the attraction of the night and that was it? IP: Logged |
margym0o Knowflake Posts: 919 From: Canada Registered: Jul 2014
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posted May 25, 2017 04:27 PM
It's kind of hard to tell but is his Venus exact conjunct your Uranus?That would explain the fireworks - it's like a jolt of electricity. IP: Logged |
Marandana Knowflake Posts: 317 From: Earth. Registered: Dec 2013
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posted May 25, 2017 07:23 PM
Yes, that's a Venus-Uranus conjunction. I know that it causes the sudden attraction, but I also know that it can be something not lasting, And I'm afraid of that. IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 3045 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted May 25, 2017 08:11 PM
Does it seem short-lived?Yes. pMoon isn't touching any of the luminaries. 2. Aries is impulsive and act first. 3. He is a Scorpio with fire. Impulsive himself. 4. He has prominant GEMINI. He is capable of carrying on a LDR for years without physical contact. Gemini is all about mental stimulation not nessrial physical. 5. I've heard it said that Aries impulsive nature makes them vulnerable to sexual seducers. IP: Logged |
Marandana Knowflake Posts: 317 From: Earth. Registered: Dec 2013
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posted May 25, 2017 08:56 PM
Thanks nine, really interesting your insight, I just got one question, what do you mean about Aries? There's barely Aries energy in the synastry. I agree on the other points you made, he might be okay with a LDR but I'm not, to be honest, maybe for a while but not for years. Ok now I'm really sad tbh but don't worry you did a good job! I don't know why I just keep attracting men that are only temporary, I'm sick of that. Thank you anyway IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 3045 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted May 25, 2017 09:02 PM
My bad. I might have gotten Aries and Pisces confused.Scratch the Aries parts. IP: Logged |
Marandana Knowflake Posts: 317 From: Earth. Registered: Dec 2013
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posted May 25, 2017 09:06 PM
Hahaha don't worry :P now it makes even more sense IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 80455 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 02, 2017 02:15 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 80455 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 06, 2017 10:07 AM
Thanks, Nine.IP: Logged |