posted September 28, 2017 08:50 PM            

Venus and Pluto are conjunct by a few minutes. When I calculate the midpoint for the moon/venus and/or moon/pluto they are 2° conjunct the IC and 1° square the Vx. I'm not sure how to interpret this. Help please?

(I know we have an absolutely horrible composite, but any insights into our chart is very appreciated. I'm too close to see it objectively. I'm sure it's no surprise this relationship has caused much heartache and grief. Just need help understanding it, so I can process it all. )

posted September 29, 2017 07:15 PM            

this is a difficult composite because the node and vertex are emphasized . when these two energy axis are a integral part of the chart/relationship, then a otherworldly feeling can arise.

venus conjunct to pluto and eros with the node squaring this pattern can be very confusing. venus/pluto shows a sexual chemistry tht is deep and intense and frightening sometimes. this aspect is extremely carnal in nature but has very little empathy for love. eros is opposed to Venus/pluto so in the beginning there was an element of romantic feelings but these romantic feelings did not last long because the focus of venus/pluto is sensuality and not emotional intimacy.it was probably confusing when the first rush of sexual excitement did not lead to emotional bonding and love.pluto tend to be domineering and controlling so the emergence of these qualities was not expected.

this emotional confusion was exacerbated by the opposition between the moon/sun midpoint and the psyche/eros midpoint. this pattern shows that the relationship brought the most idealistic and romantic feelings possible to you.
so initially the intense sexual energy was probably felt as I extension for the ethereal love that you felt.

but the pain started when you realized he was only interested in you sexually and all the romantic notions fell to the wayside.

with the moon opposed to Jupiter and the Jupiter/juno midpoint square to amore, I have to believe that from the beginning you mut have thought this would lead to marriage and he may have made the same allusions .

posted September 29, 2017 08:13 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
hi VestasLight

this is a difficult composite because the node and vertex are emphasized . when these two energy axis are a integral part of the chart/relationship, then a otherworldly feeling can arise.

venus conjunct to pluto and eros with the node squaring this pattern can be very confusing. venus/pluto shows a sexual chemistry tht is deep and intense and frightening sometimes. this aspect is extremely carnal in nature but has very little empathy for love. eros is opposed to Venus/pluto so in the beginning there was an element of romantic feelings but these romantic feelings did not last long because the focus of venus/pluto is sensuality and not emotional intimacy.it was probably confusing when the first rush of sexual excitement did not lead to emotional bonding and love.pluto tend to be domineering and controlling so the emergence of these qualities was not expected.

this emotional confusion was exacerbated by the opposition between the moon/sun midpoint and the psyche/eros midpoint. this pattern shows that the relationship brought the most idealistic and romantic feelings possible to you.
so initially the intense sexual energy was probably felt as I extension for the ethereal love that you felt.

but the pain started when you realized he was only interested in you sexually and all the romantic notions fell to the wayside.

with the moon opposed to Jupiter and the Jupiter/juno midpoint square to amore, I have to believe that from the beginning you mut have thought this would lead to marriage and he may have made the same allusions .

todd

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Todd... many, many thanks for sharing your gift. I mean this sincerely. You were 100% correct.

In typical Venus/Pluto fashion the relationship ended horribly. Lots of hurt feelings... but I still want him back. I can't get over him. I can only hope that in time he will feel the same too.

What do you charge to do a full composite reading?