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Someday Soon
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posted September 21, 2017 09:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Someday Soon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Todd- My daughter would like to know what you think about this composite (everyone else is welcome to comment, as well). I have reservations about it, but what does momma know?!? Lol I told her about you and she said, "Please ask him what he thinks." I've been reading through all your past readings, and think that you're a true treasure, here. Thanks in advance.

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posted September 22, 2017 12:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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todd
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posted September 22, 2017 07:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi Someday Soon

the composite is based round powerful physical/sexual attraction. the node is conjunct to pluto, square to venus and mars with the midpoint of the Venus/mars square conjunct the nodal axis. the sexual energy feels to be life changing. pluto adds a physical vigors to sexuality that can be addictive in its intensity..

the midpoint of mars and venus is square to the sun/moon midpoint again emphasizing the deep emotional and sexual connect the relationship is based on.

I don't know if Sydney is he or she nor to I know who houss stands for.

if Sidney is him then it would makes sense s Sydney is conjunct mars.

but from the beginning the relationship is in jeopardy because strong pluto does not strengthen intimate emotional bonding in complementary way, that is thru compromises a relationship survives.
pluto gives a selfishness that is only interested in satiating their carnal desires.
usually one would expect sexuality deepen the feelings of attraction and love. but this does not usually happen with strong pluto. after a period of time goes by the sexual desire can lessen as the lapse of corresponding emotional union it is felt .

pluto/mars/venus together usually show controlling relationship and often mars try to dominate the relationship .

another aspect to keep in mind in relationship to love and emotions is that the eros/psyche midpoint is conjunct to nessus.

this is a emotionally abusive aspect because it degrades love basically. its effects are subtle, like any time he gives complement. he will say something to ridicule you. what is called backhanded compliments. usually these types of responses occur when you have expressed you deepest pure love.

if it is bad,it can consist of him making comments that "put" you down, and then building you up gin.

Jupiter is sextile to chiron which shows you understand the practical ways of life nd you see the larger picture of social interaction clearly.

Jupiter is quintile to Uranus and Neptune.
this tends to you and he have many different viewpoints and may want to deal totally differently to the situations round you.

moon is exactly semisquare to the sun and mercury which gives the relationship an edge. that is you always kidding each other and giving each other bad time in a good way. so there is constant mental and emotional energy exchanged all day.this energy is constructive but it can be the cause of arguments .this is shown the moon being square to the Jupiter/uranus midpoint,

there is a moon/vertex/chiron conjunction which gives a desire to every thing about the other. how they feel,think,believe ect. this brings intense emotional union but if there are arguments then some really harsh cruel things can be said.

the moon/vertex/chiron stellium also gives feeling of fate or karma, you seems united by similar strange occurrences or feelings that you both have experienced... things that no one else could understand.

anytime there are planets with the node, sense of magic is created. it can be as if you and he live in separate reality when you are together. The strength of your aura when together can be felt by others.

my feeling is that you are much more in love with him than he is with you and this imbalance affection will become more noticeably as time goes on.

transits indicate that you re in the middle of this hot relationship. The node was conjunct mars in may. that may be when you first met but it could also be the start of the relationship, either way he was irresistible and charismatic .June thru September have been pure love and pleasure.
with the node conjunct to psyche in this period the sense of soul is unavoidable .this is like love you've never felt.

but unfortunately these free and easy feelings of love are at their ebb. the intensity of the last few months will not stay forever.

the period of infatuation is pst, now comes the process of establishing the routines of "normal" relationship.

todd

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racole12
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posted September 22, 2017 08:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for racole12     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by todd:
hi Someday Soon

the composite is based round powerful physical/sexual attraction. the node is conjunct to pluto, square to venus and mars with the midpoint of the Venus/mars square conjunct the nodal axis. the sexual energy feels to be life changing. pluto adds a physical vigors to sexuality that can be addictive in its intensity..

the midpoint of mars and venus is square to the sun/moon midpoint again emphasizing the deep emotional and sexual connect the relationship is based on.


.but from the beginning the relationship is in jeopardy because strong pluto does not strengthen intimate emotional bonding in complementary way, that is thru compromises a relationship survives.
pluto gives a selfishness that is only interested in satiating their carnal desires.
usually one would expect sexuality deepen the feelings of attraction and love. but this does not usually happen with strong pluto. after a period of time goes by the sexual desire can lessen as the lapse of corresponding emotional union it is felt .

pluto/mars/venus together usually show controlling relationship and often mars try to dominate the relationship .

another aspect to keep in mind in relationship to love and emotions is that the eros/psyche midpoint is conjunct to nessus.

this is a emotionally abusive aspect because it degrades love basically. its effects are subtle, like any time he gives complement. he will say something to ridicule you. what is called backhanded compliments. usually these types of responses occur when you have expressed you deepest pure love.

if it is bad,it can consist of him making comments that "put" you down, and then building you up gin.

anytime there are planets with the node, sense of magic is created. it can be as if you and he live in separate reality when you are together. The strength of your aura when together can be felt by others.

transits indicate that you re in the middle of this hot relationship. The node was conjunct mars in may. that may be

todd



I had the Pluto conj NN, with Venus conj Mars squ the NN conj Pluto...And also the Sun/Moon midpoint with involved with all this... this a relationship that just ended (after 15 months of knowing each other)... it was not romantic, he was my "best friend".

There was an irritable pull to each other within mins after arriving at the location that we met.... and he is 13 years younger than me (which I normally would never allow someone this much younger than me to get close to me). We were part of a music activity and everybody thought we going to get married how deeply we connected... that's how strong our aura was (which I made it clear to him that we were never going to date/have sex b/c I wasn't in the place for that).

The first 3 months were amazing (June- Sept 2016)... I felt free, unconditionally loved, and free of judgement and assumptions. Then after that the "games" started.... he was always trying to control the relationship and me (especially with how I expressed myself, what I was doing with my life, and anything I wanted to share with him- like my parents or my health or if I had a bad day, when and how we hung out... ). \

Then it escalated to him always belittling me, tearing me down, talking down/being condensing with me, wouldn't, and physically wouldn't get close to me... there was something I was always doing wrong.

I got to a place where I was always walking on eggshells, and when I would bring this up to him we would have horrible arguments.... and it always went back to sex (even though I took that off the table from the get go). What it came down to... and he would agree to it... that it was ok for him to be mean to me (and even lie to me) but I'm wasn't allow to call him out on his actions.

Also, it got to the place he always resented me when spent time together/all the time we talked (even though he initiated 90% if it). Him saying he was trying to "save" me... but I didn't need save and he was resenting me for that.

Everytime I would allow myself to be vulnerable/trust him... he would rip me apart. And he would always say if I would act like the way he asked things wouldn't be like this. (which was not true...) and the way I was being wasn't bad...

He would also take my fears/baggage and push it in my face... for example: I'm about to have brain surgery and a couple weeks before our last argument he was like, "let me know asap when your surgery is so I can schedule my vacation around it and be in the hospital with you"... I didn't ask this of him b/c the last time I has a surgery, back in 2002, my ex finance abandoned me and I didn't want to be put into that place again... so our last fight, which I was in the hospital for (but not for surgery) he called me up, ripped me apart, didn't even ask how I was doing and then I called him out for how he was being and then he told me he was abandoning me... that he didn't want to be there for my surgery (even though he is the one that offered)... he also even start punching below the belt by saying he didn't love or care about me, that just hearing my voice/seeing me made him sick, he never wanted me in his life, and he was just in the relationship for him... The last thing he said to me... if I couldn't handle him treating me like this, or him lying to me, then we couldn't be friends. It's been almost 3 weeks and I haven't talked to him... and he hasn't even contacted me to see if I'm ok/apologize.

A couple days after that fight I signed onto our shared amazon prime acct and saw he bought this huge box of condoms and realized he started the last fight just so he had a reason/felt better about sleeping with some girl (which I always told him he could since we weren't romantic). Neither of us slept with another person when him and I were close so I guess he needed to feel "free" to do and started the fight.

We also have a lot of Pluto and Mars (and Saturn in our synastry, too)... Mars-NN double whammy, his Pluto and Saturn in hard aspect to my Moon.

Me being 38 I allowed myself into the relationship thinking it was going to be healthy, loving, free, non-romantic relationship... but it still went back to sex.

When we met there wasn't any transits to the Nodes... Tr Saturn was in the composite 7th house sextile the Mars conj Venus.

But there was a mutable grand cross in our first meeting chart...
Sun/Moon/Venus conj in Gemini
Neptune in Pisces
Saturn in Sag
Jupiter/NN conj in Virgo

And there are no transit triggers (or progressed composite to natal composite to show things going down hill or the relationship ending). It started going down hill when his Prog Moon went into Aries (and mine went into Libra).

Only thing in the progressed composite that was lining up is there was a Grand Water trine being Pluto and NN in Scp, Venus and Mars in Pisces, and ASC and Moon in Cancer.

(which usually in my relationships where is a hard Tr Saturn or Pluto to Sun, Moon, ASC, or Venus showing the end of it).

I wish I would of never met him...

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Someday Soon
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posted September 23, 2017 02:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Someday Soon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow, Todd! Thank you so much for your in depth reading. Your readings always amaze me! I left feedback within the quotes.

quote:
Originally posted by todd:
hi Someday Soon

the composite is based round powerful physical/sexual attraction. the node is conjunct to pluto, square to venus and mars with the midpoint of the Venus/mars square conjunct the nodal axis. the sexual energy feels to be life changing. pluto adds a physical vigors to sexuality that can be addictive in its intensity..

This! My daughter talks all the time about how the sex between them is unlike anything she's ever had, and how she she's afraid she'll never find another lover like him.

the midpoint of mars and venus is square to the sun/moon midpoint again emphasizing the deep emotional and sexual connect the relationship is based on.

I don't know if Sydney is he or she nor to I know who houss stands for.

Sydney is my daughter's name. I meant to put a different name than houss- so it's of no importance.

if Sidney is him then it would makes sense s Sydney is conjunct mars.

She's very forward, and forceful, so it makes perfect sense to me. Lol

but from the beginning the relationship is in jeopardy because strong pluto does not strengthen intimate emotional bonding in complementary way, that is thru compromises a relationship survives.
pluto gives a selfishness that is only interested in satiating their carnal desires.
usually one would expect sexuality deepen the feelings of attraction and love. but this does not usually happen with strong pluto. after a period of time goes by the sexual desire can lessen as the lapse of corresponding emotional union it is felt .

pluto/mars/venus together usually show controlling relationship and often mars try to dominate the relationship .

Yes, in their case I think they both try to control each other.

another aspect to keep in mind in relationship to love and emotions is that the eros/psyche midpoint is conjunct to nessus.

this is a emotionally abusive aspect because it degrades love basically. its effects are subtle, like any time he gives complement. he will say something to ridicule you. what is called backhanded compliments. usually these types of responses occur when you have expressed you deepest pure love.

if it is bad,it can consist of him making comments that "put" you down, and then building you up gin.

She says he never really put her down, but he would never compliment her, either. She's a Leo sun so she NEEDS compliments.

Jupiter is sextile to chiron which shows you understand the practical ways of life nd you see the larger picture of social interaction clearly.

Jupiter is quintile to Uranus and Neptune.
this tends to you and he have many different viewpoints and may want to deal totally differently to the situations round you.

Yes, yes, yes! Everyone around them sees this.


moon is exactly semisquare to the sun and mercury which gives the relationship an edge. that is you always kidding each other and giving each other bad time in a good way. so there is constant mental and emotional energy exchanged all day.this energy is constructive but it can be the cause of arguments .this is shown the moon being square to the Jupiter/uranus midpoint,

Again, you're completely right. They would be having a great time and then suddenly one of them would get mad and the arguments would start.

there is a moon/vertex/chiron conjunction which gives a desire to every thing about the other. how they feel,think,believe ect. this brings intense emotional union but if there are arguments then some really harsh cruel things can be said.

the moon/vertex/chiron stellium also gives feeling of fate or karma, you seems united by similar strange occurrences or feelings that you both have experienced... things that no one else could understand.

They had both recently lost a loved one when they met. The pain they were both enduring was not something everyone experiences at their age.

anytime there are planets with the node, sense of magic is created. it can be as if you and he live in separate reality when you are together. The strength of your aura when together can be felt by others.

my feeling is that you are much more in love with him than he is with you and this imbalance affection will become more noticeably as time goes on.

I believe this to be so, as well. I've told her that I would love to see her with someone who loves her just as much as she loves them- what parent wouldn't?

transits indicate that you re in the middle of this hot relationship. The node was conjunct mars in may. that may be when you first met but it could also be the start of the relationship, either way he was irresistible and charismatic .June thru September have been pure love and pleasure.
with the node conjunct to psyche in this period the sense of soul is unavoidable .this is like love you've never felt.

but unfortunately these free and easy feelings of love are at their ebb. the intensity of the last few months will not stay forever.

They met May/June of 2016. It was a whirlwind romance and he proposed to her about 3 mths later. By January he was over it, and lbroke it off with her. March/April he started talking to her again, and has now broken it off again. He states he cares about her- I believe he does- but I don't think he wants a relationship with her.

the period of infatuation is pst, now comes the process of establishing the routines of "normal" relationship.

todd


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