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Originally posted by todd:
hi Someday Soonthe composite is based round powerful physical/sexual attraction. the node is conjunct to pluto, square to venus and mars with the midpoint of the Venus/mars square conjunct the nodal axis. the sexual energy feels to be life changing. pluto adds a physical vigors to sexuality that can be addictive in its intensity..
This! My daughter talks all the time about how the sex between them is unlike anything she's ever had, and how she she's afraid she'll never find another lover like him.
the midpoint of mars and venus is square to the sun/moon midpoint again emphasizing the deep emotional and sexual connect the relationship is based on.
I don't know if Sydney is he or she nor to I know who houss stands for.
Sydney is my daughter's name. I meant to put a different name than houss- so it's of no importance.
if Sidney is him then it would makes sense s Sydney is conjunct mars.
She's very forward, and forceful, so it makes perfect sense to me. Lol
but from the beginning the relationship is in jeopardy because strong pluto does not strengthen intimate emotional bonding in complementary way, that is thru compromises a relationship survives.
pluto gives a selfishness that is only interested in satiating their carnal desires.
usually one would expect sexuality deepen the feelings of attraction and love. but this does not usually happen with strong pluto. after a period of time goes by the sexual desire can lessen as the lapse of corresponding emotional union it is felt .
pluto/mars/venus together usually show controlling relationship and often mars try to dominate the relationship .
Yes, in their case I think they both try to control each other.
another aspect to keep in mind in relationship to love and emotions is that the eros/psyche midpoint is conjunct to nessus.
this is a emotionally abusive aspect because it degrades love basically. its effects are subtle, like any time he gives complement. he will say something to ridicule you. what is called backhanded compliments. usually these types of responses occur when you have expressed you deepest pure love.
if it is bad,it can consist of him making comments that "put" you down, and then building you up gin.
She says he never really put her down, but he would never compliment her, either. She's a Leo sun so she NEEDS compliments.
Jupiter is sextile to chiron which shows you understand the practical ways of life nd you see the larger picture of social interaction clearly.
Jupiter is quintile to Uranus and Neptune.
this tends to you and he have many different viewpoints and may want to deal totally differently to the situations round you.
Yes, yes, yes! Everyone around them sees this.
moon is exactly semisquare to the sun and mercury which gives the relationship an edge. that is you always kidding each other and giving each other bad time in a good way. so there is constant mental and emotional energy exchanged all day.this energy is constructive but it can be the cause of arguments .this is shown the moon being square to the Jupiter/uranus midpoint,
Again, you're completely right. They would be having a great time and then suddenly one of them would get mad and the arguments would start.
there is a moon/vertex/chiron conjunction which gives a desire to every thing about the other. how they feel,think,believe ect. this brings intense emotional union but if there are arguments then some really harsh cruel things can be said.
the moon/vertex/chiron stellium also gives feeling of fate or karma, you seems united by similar strange occurrences or feelings that you both have experienced... things that no one else could understand.
They had both recently lost a loved one when they met. The pain they were both enduring was not something everyone experiences at their age.
anytime there are planets with the node, sense of magic is created. it can be as if you and he live in separate reality when you are together. The strength of your aura when together can be felt by others.
my feeling is that you are much more in love with him than he is with you and this imbalance affection will become more noticeably as time goes on.
I believe this to be so, as well. I've told her that I would love to see her with someone who loves her just as much as she loves them- what parent wouldn't?
transits indicate that you re in the middle of this hot relationship. The node was conjunct mars in may. that may be when you first met but it could also be the start of the relationship, either way he was irresistible and charismatic .June thru September have been pure love and pleasure.
with the node conjunct to psyche in this period the sense of soul is unavoidable .this is like love you've never felt.
but unfortunately these free and easy feelings of love are at their ebb. the intensity of the last few months will not stay forever.
They met May/June of 2016. It was a whirlwind romance and he proposed to her about 3 mths later. By January he was over it, and lbroke it off with her. March/April he started talking to her again, and has now broken it off again. He states he cares about her- I believe he does- but I don't think he wants a relationship with her.
the period of infatuation is pst, now comes the process of establishing the routines of "normal" relationship.
todd