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rubynoir
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posted September 11, 2017 05:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rubynoir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've noticed the following synastry aspects with the guy I'm currently with and they're all quite tight orbs.

Everything has been amazing when we are together, great chemistry, so much affection, and brilliant sex. We talk for hours and make each other laugh non stop and he opens up a lot to me about his past and his future but when I go home he seems to withdraw. This is getting worse the closer we become.


Could there be a sense of fear or evaluating our relationship?

His Sun trine my Moon
His Saturn trine my Venus
His Saturn opposite my Ascendant
His Venus trine my Sun
His Venus opposite my Jupiter
His Mars sextile my Mars
His Mars trine my Pluto

Me - 29.07.1993 - 7:12 am - Coventry, England
Him- 8.04.`993 - Unknown - Arad, Romania

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margym0o
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posted September 11, 2017 11:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What is Uranus doing in your synastry and/or composite?

Sometimes Uranus can be blamed for that hot/cold thing, or the "out of sight, out of mind" feeling where the connection seems to dwindle when you're not around each other. Especially this early on.

Saturn I wouldn't peg as being responsible for this dynamic. I feel like Saturn shows up later on once a relationship has been firmly established as a feeling of responsibility for the other person.

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rubynoir
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posted September 11, 2017 12:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for rubynoir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for your response

I can see that we have in Synastry

His Sun square my Uranus (very tight)
His Mercury sextile my Uranus
His Mars opposite my Uranus
His Uranus trine my Mars

Composite
Venus trine Uranus

I do feel an on off quality so I guess that might explain this unsettled energy I'm feeling. Is there any way I can stabilize this relationship or is this typical of these aspects? I've had an open and honest conversation and he appears to be on the same page face to face but when I leave this push and pull dynamic begins...

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rubynoir
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posted September 11, 2017 06:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for rubynoir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Doesn't matter anymore he ended it this evening lol

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