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Enneline unregistered
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posted February 22, 2015 06:50 AM
What do you think about this synastry?Man is inside, woman outside In the composite there is a grand trine consisting of moon, venus & uranus; also, there is a venus/mars conjunction
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Yanmorg Knowflake Posts: 1843 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 22, 2015 07:28 AM
Ha! You're kidding, right?His moon in her 8th house. His Saturn in her 5th house. but that's only a very small part and I'm no expert. IP: Logged |
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posted February 22, 2015 11:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by Yanmorg: Ha! You're kidding, right?His moon in her 8th house. His Saturn in her 5th house. but that's only a very small part and I'm no expert.
I am not kidding That's really a relationship based on sex only- no feelings on both sides IP: Logged |
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posted February 22, 2015 11:53 AM
That's surprising, because there's a lot of indications of seriousness here: Saturn and NN on the other's Sun, squared by Juno I think, the Chiron conjunctions with Mars and NN, plus what Yanmorg mentioned. There's even a Saturn/Uranus conjunction. And mutual Pluto contacts! I'm not seeing a lot of fling aspects, at all.IP: Logged |
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posted February 22, 2015 12:09 PM
Really? She hardly touches his venus & moon. I don't think he would develop feelings for her IP: Logged |
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posted February 22, 2015 01:12 PM
I'm seeing a Moon/Venus square. It also looks like her Juno is at the midpoint of his Sun/Moon opposition, squaring her Saturn and NN, conjuncting his Sun.IP: Logged |
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posted February 22, 2015 01:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by page one: I'm seeing a Moon/Venus square. It also looks like her Juno is at the midpoint of his Sun/Moon opposition, squaring her Saturn and NN, conjuncting his Sun.
Thank you, but do you mean he could develop feelings for her? However, I am surprised that you guys tell me it could be serious. She asked him to be her "f*ck-buddy" and he replied "oh yeah, friends with benefits is the best" IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 6718 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted February 22, 2015 01:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by Yanmorg: Ha! You're kidding, right?His moon in her 8th house. His Saturn in her 5th house. but that's only a very small part and I'm no expert.
That's basically what I said! I had to do a double take! When this synastry was first posted, I said, 'You're kidding, right?' Hilarious. This is so not FWB material. IP: Logged |
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posted February 22, 2015 02:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by page one: I'm seeing a Moon/Venus square. It also looks like her Juno is at the midpoint of his Sun/Moon opposition, squaring her Saturn and NN, conjuncting his Sun.
I just checked, that's true. Wide moon venus trine, close moon venus square, juno is almost exactly opposite his sun/moon mdp.etc. IP: Logged |
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posted February 22, 2015 02:50 PM
I agree with the ladies, I don't like this chart for FWB, it's a heavy chart, very very heavy stuff between the two ------------------
I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... IP: Logged |
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posted February 22, 2015 02:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: I agree with the ladies, I don't like this chart for FWB, it's a heavy chart, very very heavy stuff between the two
thank you but that's the way it is. Maybe the venus quincunx uranus aspect messes things up and she doesn't seem to be his type IP: Logged |
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posted February 22, 2015 02:59 PM
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posted February 22, 2015 03:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
For example with this synastry, both people can get hurt from this relationship. Or they can suffer immense psychological transformation.
oh my gosh This is not what a fwb relationship should be like. I also think it would be the best to end it IP: Logged |
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posted February 22, 2015 03:12 PM
one last hope for a fwb relationship without any hurt feelings: the composite IP: Logged |
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posted February 22, 2015 03:20 PM
Oh hell no. Sun conjunct Juno. Venus conj Mars squaring Pluto.IP: Logged |
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posted February 22, 2015 03:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by page one: Oh hell no. Sun conjunct Juno. Venus conj Mars squaring Pluto.
again, hurt feelings. what a letdown. No relationship, no fwb, just nothing IP: Logged |
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posted February 22, 2015 03:22 PM
Not much luck here either IP: Logged |
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posted February 22, 2015 03:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: Not much luck here either
moon in aries in 8h...is too insense for anything. Let it go, babe IP: Logged |
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posted February 22, 2015 03:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by Enneline: again, hurt feelings.what a letdown. No relationship, no fwb, just nothing
OK, I'm gonna say it, I find the FWB concept weird and unnatural for humans. Why do you need that? It never works anyway. How about dating to make friends or a boyfriend? If not, just a hot night with a stranger. Sorry for being so old-fashioned I resent the FWB concept, it's against human biology and psychology. it's more of a marketing product. ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... IP: Logged |
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posted February 22, 2015 03:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: OK, I'm gonna say it, I find the FWB concept weird and unnatural for humans. Why do you need that? It never works anyway.How about dating to make friends or a boyfriend? If not, just a hot night with a stranger. Sorry for being so old-fashioned
At least one of them (it's him) doesn't want to have a relationship at all and both don't have a relationship with each other BUT there's too much attraction to cut off contact: FWB is born!
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posted February 22, 2015 03:34 PM
Enneline, my love, you're killing me If someone doesn't want a relationship, he or she shouldn't date people because the only thing that can happen between people is RELATIONSHIPS. The so called FWB is a relationship too, and even an intimate one for that matter.I take it the guy just wants a sexual affair and he said it from the beginning? Weird stuff...is he married? Why bother? The gal can find 1000 per minute who want that! or let her just do it and get over with it
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posted February 22, 2015 03:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: Enneline, my love, you're killing me If someone doesn't want a relationship, he or she shouldn't date people because the only thing that can happen between people is RELATIONSHIPS. The so called FWB is a relationship too, and even an intimate one for that matter.I take it the guy just wants a sexual affair and he said it from the beginning? Weird stuff...is he married? Why bother? The gal can find a 1000 per minute who want that! or let her just do it and get over with it
Hihihi yes, when they met online, he (not married, no gf) didn't say it anymore when they met but she asked him to be her f*ck-buddy and he replied "yeah, friends with benefits is the best" why can't 2 people just have fun while looking & waiting for Mr./Ms.Right? This synastry/comp is not nice enough for a real relationship but too heavy for fwb. Sh*t
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posted February 22, 2015 03:41 PM
Ok. sorry I just had an anti-FWB moment, don't mind me.Just tell them to do the deed! Both Marses are good, so screw them and leave them just a trace of your perfume, you tell the gal! IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 9778 From: Death Star Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 22, 2015 03:46 PM
I too think this deal is worse than one night stands. A mess waiting to happen.------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
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posted February 22, 2015 03:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: Ok. sorry I just had an anti-FWB moment, don't mind me.Just tell them to do the deed! Both Marses are good, so screw them and leave them just a trace of your perfume, you tell the gal!
Ah, you are traumatized ok, I'll warn them and then let's see what happens. But if a synastry/composite is that strong, do they have any chance other than dating each other? The affair must become a relationship? I thought there's a free will
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