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Enneline
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posted February 22, 2015 06:50 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What do you think about this synastry?

Man is inside, woman outside

In the composite there is a grand trine consisting of moon, venus & uranus; also, there is a venus/mars conjunction

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Yanmorg
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posted February 22, 2015 07:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ha! You're kidding, right?

His moon in her 8th house.
His Saturn in her 5th house.

but that's only a very small part and I'm no expert.

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Enneline
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posted February 22, 2015 11:27 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
Ha! You're kidding, right?

His moon in her 8th house.
His Saturn in her 5th house.

but that's only a very small part and I'm no expert.


I am not kidding

That's really a relationship based on sex only- no feelings on both sides

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posted February 22, 2015 11:53 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's surprising, because there's a lot of indications of seriousness here: Saturn and NN on the other's Sun, squared by Juno I think, the Chiron conjunctions with Mars and NN, plus what Yanmorg mentioned. There's even a Saturn/Uranus conjunction. And mutual Pluto contacts! I'm not seeing a lot of fling aspects, at all.

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Enneline
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posted February 22, 2015 12:09 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Really?

She hardly touches his venus & moon. I don't think he would develop feelings for her

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posted February 22, 2015 01:12 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm seeing a Moon/Venus square. It also looks like her Juno is at the midpoint of his Sun/Moon opposition, squaring her Saturn and NN, conjuncting his Sun.

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Enneline
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posted February 22, 2015 01:16 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by page one:
I'm seeing a Moon/Venus square. It also looks like her Juno is at the midpoint of his Sun/Moon opposition, squaring her Saturn and NN, conjuncting his Sun.

Thank you, but do you mean he could develop feelings for her?

However, I am surprised that you guys tell me it could be serious. She asked him to be her "f*ck-buddy" and he replied "oh yeah, friends with benefits is the best"

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Aubyanne
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posted February 22, 2015 01:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Yanmorg:
Ha! You're kidding, right?

His moon in her 8th house.
His Saturn in her 5th house.

but that's only a very small part and I'm no expert.


That's basically what I said! I had to do a double take! When this synastry was first posted, I said, 'You're kidding, right?'

Hilarious. This is so not FWB material.

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Enneline
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posted February 22, 2015 02:25 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by page one:
I'm seeing a Moon/Venus square. It also looks like her Juno is at the midpoint of his Sun/Moon opposition, squaring her Saturn and NN, conjuncting his Sun.

I just checked, that's true. Wide moon venus trine, close moon venus square, juno is almost exactly opposite his sun/moon mdp.etc.

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LeeLoo2014
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posted February 22, 2015 02:50 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with the ladies, I don't like this chart for FWB, it's a heavy chart, very very heavy stuff between the two

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Enneline
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posted February 22, 2015 02:53 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I agree with the ladies, I don't like this chart for FWB, it's a heavy chart, very very heavy stuff between the two


thank you but that's the way it is. Maybe the venus quincunx uranus aspect messes things up
and she doesn't seem to be his type

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posted February 22, 2015 02:59 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Enneline
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posted February 22, 2015 03:02 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:

For example with this synastry, both people can get hurt from this relationship. Or they can suffer immense psychological transformation.


oh my gosh This is not what a fwb relationship should be like. I also think it would be the best to end it

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Enneline
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posted February 22, 2015 03:12 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
one last hope for a fwb relationship without any hurt feelings: the composite

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posted February 22, 2015 03:20 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh hell no. Sun conjunct Juno. Venus conj Mars squaring Pluto.

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Enneline
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posted February 22, 2015 03:22 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by page one:
Oh hell no. Sun conjunct Juno. Venus conj Mars squaring Pluto.

again, hurt feelings.

what a letdown. No relationship, no fwb, just nothing

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LeeLoo2014
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posted February 22, 2015 03:22 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not much luck here either

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Enneline
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posted February 22, 2015 03:23 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Not much luck here either

moon in aries in 8h...is too insense for anything. Let it go, babe

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posted February 22, 2015 03:24 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Enneline:
again, hurt feelings.

what a letdown. No relationship, no fwb, just nothing


OK, I'm gonna say it, I find the FWB concept weird and unnatural for humans. Why do you need that? It never works anyway.

How about dating to make friends or a boyfriend? If not, just a hot night with a stranger.

Sorry for being so old-fashioned

I resent the FWB concept, it's against human biology and psychology. it's more of a marketing product.

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posted February 22, 2015 03:26 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
OK, I'm gonna say it, I find the FWB concept weird and unnatural for humans. Why do you need that? It never works anyway.

How about dating to make friends or a boyfriend? If not, just a hot night with a stranger.

Sorry for being so old-fashioned


At least one of them (it's him) doesn't want to have a relationship at all and both don't have a relationship with each other BUT there's too much attraction to cut off contact: FWB is born!

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posted February 22, 2015 03:34 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Enneline, my love, you're killing me If someone doesn't want a relationship, he or she shouldn't date people because the only thing that can happen between people is RELATIONSHIPS. The so called FWB is a relationship too, and even an intimate one for that matter.

I take it the guy just wants a sexual affair and he said it from the beginning? Weird stuff...is he married? Why bother? The gal can find 1000 per minute who want that! or let her just do it and get over with it

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posted February 22, 2015 03:38 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Enneline, my love, you're killing me If someone doesn't want a relationship, he or she shouldn't date people because the only thing that can happen between people is RELATIONSHIPS. The so called FWB is a relationship too, and even an intimate one for that matter.

I take it the guy just wants a sexual affair and he said it from the beginning? Weird stuff...is he married? Why bother? The gal can find a 1000 per minute who want that! or let her just do it and get over with it



Hihihi

yes, when they met online, he (not married, no gf) didn't say it anymore when they met but she asked him to be her f*ck-buddy and he replied "yeah, friends with benefits is the best"

why can't 2 people just have fun while looking & waiting for Mr./Ms.Right?

This synastry/comp is not nice enough for a real relationship but too heavy for fwb. Sh*t

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LeeLoo2014
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posted February 22, 2015 03:41 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok. sorry I just had an anti-FWB moment, don't mind me.

Just tell them to do the deed!
Both Marses are good, so screw them and leave them just a trace of your perfume, you tell the gal!

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I'm so cappy
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posted February 22, 2015 03:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I too think this deal is worse than one night stands. A mess waiting to happen.

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I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy.

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Enneline
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posted February 22, 2015 03:48 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Ok. sorry I just had an anti-FWB moment, don't mind me.

Just tell them to do the deed!
Both Marses are good, so screw them and leave them just a trace of your perfume, you tell the gal!


Ah, you are traumatized

ok, I'll warn them and then let's see what happens.
But if a synastry/composite is that strong, do they have any chance other than dating each other? The affair must become a relationship? I thought there's a free will

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