posted October 07, 2020 04:16 PM            

Me: 09/29/1971 at 9:30 a.m in Ascoli Piceno (Italy)
Him: 05/07/1980 at 11:00 a.m in Ascoli Piceno (Italy)

posted October 07, 2020 09:42 PM            

This looks like a binding serious passionate but complex and maybe stormy relationship.
In the Composite chart, North Node is conjunct Mars and trine Vertex and Mercury, so there's a soulmate feeling of being meant together and with Jupiter sextile Venus/Juno there are strong feelings of devotion and committment. Sun is conjunct Saturn, this is also a very binding aspect which gives a serious tone though, as if duties and responsibilities to each other have a weight and this might restrain the most romantic emotions. Mars/North Node is square to Venus/Juno, this is a strong sexual aspect which makes the relationship very passionate but carrying an aggressive trait as one of the two might become excessively dominant over the other, arguments and fights might arise making things exciting but draining in the long run.
Chiron is square Sun/Saturn forming a Grand Cross with Moon square Uranus... this suggests that the relationship might be restricted by some particular responsibility/issue from one of the two interfering and making the relationship emotionally unstable...
Sun/Saturn is square to Uranus, this is unfortunately a strong divisive or break up/divorce aspect. There could be conflicting goals or strong incompatibility in your life paths and the man might start neglecting the relationship, with this aspect potential break up can be abrupt and painful.
My feeling is that this is a very passionate bond but with some conflicting traits and there's also something challenging on a basic plane in your lives or in the life of one of you that might bring a burden and that will pose priorities of one of you with more weight or making one of you dependent from the other's decisions, will or needs...

posted October 08, 2020 04:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Alaska71:
Thank you very much Stoika7. Yes, there are limits in our relationship, I’m married and he’s a single man. I’m very involved and it’s difficult to let go. What about synastry? Is he involved too?
Kind regards

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He's involved as his Sun/Chiron is on your DSC, but this could suggest that he's attracted to you as a counterwight to his own inner "wounds", likely an emotional/abandonment issue he has with Chiron square Moon, but your Mars conjunct his Moon is square to this so this could be a strong sexual/emotional glue but that can become "toxic"... you also have your Pluto square his Venus which can also be a toxic trait and very hard to let go... his Mars/Jupiter on your MC and square to your Jupiter, I think he would want you to leave your husband and will be uncompromising and could start to arise troubles about your marriage, but his Saturn is unaspected and his Pluto/Jupiter midpoint is conjunct Saturn, so I think that his urge to have you only for him could be only a possessive desire but if you leave your marriage he might not be a reliable/stable partner, he's not going to care about your troubles if you leave your husband, so be careful.