posted June 29, 2018 11:04 AM            

Birth times are accurate. My boyfriend is blue and my brother is red.

I'm also just a bit worried because my brother has a crazy chart. His Mars is heavily afflicted. He has a tendency to lose control of his anger, although 8t takes him a while to react. Here's his natal:

And this is my boyfriend's natal:

posted July 02, 2018 01:46 PM            

I see your boyfriend has Ic in Virgo with Moon in Cap and Pluto on the 6th house. So I am thinking that he is the more finicky one who prefers things to prim and proper.

Pluto in 6th especially is particular about rituals and daily cleaning habits.

Can your brother maintain good cleaning habits?

Your brother's Moon is in tense Scorpio, Ic in peace loving Tau with Merc in 6th.

Scorpio is moody and sensitive at times. So there are days of introversion. But I am hopeful of that Merc in 6th- likes to keep busy.

Also Mars adds to being able to relate to each others everyday motivations. This helps a lot with same sex living together.

Your boyfriend's Mars square Saturn. Your brother's own Mars square Saturn is compounded by "don't tell me what to do" Uranus.

Both have Mars in water.So emotional standoffs can happen. They will need to learn to talk it out.

Living arrangements work if the two people understand each others boundaries and are thoughtful and tolerant.

They should know for instance that my roomy does not appreciate music at a certain time.

Nor will my roomy be pleased if I bring my drunk friends over in the middle of the week for an after party etc.

posted July 02, 2018 06:28 PM            

My boyfriend is actually kinda messy, but he doesn't like dirty. That's the only thing I can say. He doesn't like his stuff being moved because he "put things in a certain place so he remembers". He also is quite habitual, doesn't really like a lot of change in his daily routine at home. He likes his food made a certain way too.

My brother is the same way. He's messy, but usually keeps to himself in his own room. He understands that common areas like the living room need to be kept clean at least, even though there's a bit of mess.

They both don't like having people over as much unless it's people close to them. The only thing I can think of is maybe the music thing. My boyfriend has a tendency to blast music in the morning. I hope my brother doesn't mind.