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Topic: Test your skills! Can you guess what this relationship was like?
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Lalafortunaea
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posted July 13, 2018 09:34 AM
  
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alegna
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posted July 13, 2018 10:45 AM
Looks like a powerful and strong reltionship.
Perhaps some opposition to it, obstacle to overcome or some heavy karmic influence causing difficulties, but i'd guess they married and were happy togetherIP: Logged |
margym0o
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posted July 13, 2018 01:47 PM
I'm going to guess that it was a deeply passionate and emotive relationship but never really found its way. The identity of the relationship was vague and not very grounded. Perhaps living more outside of themselves than working on what was happening inside the relationship. My guess is the female was more invested than the male, with the female being more kind and sympathetic but the male was very independent with a bold personality. Maybe a lot of heated arguments and resentment built up. I'm guessing it was more him that drove them apart ultimately. Was this a workplace relationship? Or maybe one where they spent periods of time apart?IP: Logged |
StoneMoon
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posted July 13, 2018 07:51 PM
I second the work connection, or actually a teacher student affair. With his Saturn on her ASC, he definitely took the teacher/parent role and could be very heavy on her. In composite they have Saturn conjunct the NN in 2nd house, and trine the MC. I feel like this benefitted one of them in terms of career path. The composite cluster in the 9th house makes me feel school/university too. Definitely instrumental to life lessons.But definitely emotional- sun trine moon, moon conjunct venus, mars juno, pluto sun.... great connections! She has 7th house Pluto in Scorpio so she draws Pluto types for growth, and he is definitely that! Agree that she was more affected. He hits her 7th house and 8th house ruler, so she took this seriously. She does seem his type, with her ASC in Taurus and thats his 7th house. I would say the karma is all about transformation, with Pluto being such an active player. The learning wasn't all one sided though- check out her Jupiter stimulating his Mercury. 8th house ruler to 8th house ruler. He does have Saturn on his DSC, and she's not really a Saturn type. So he probably needed more stability than she could offer, and this could very well have been the downfall. He probably criticized her for her youth, perceived irresponsibility a immaturity. In composite the Mars Uranus in the 10th looks like trouble. It could translate to fun sex, and erratic but fun energy. But I would say with it out in the open in the 10th it would lead to break up. Saturn in composite is not as strong as I would like, though that conjunction to NN and trine to MC is nice. I just don't see it hitting personal planets. And that composite Saturn is on top of her moon, so I imagine it got very heavy for her. It's also opposite her Mars, so did she feel stifled? She learned alot about responsibility in this relationship. He did too, with it trine his Sun, but it was different for him. Not as heavy. Otherwise I like the composite! Sun trine ASC, no outer planets in harsh aspect. Lots of passion! IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea
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posted July 14, 2018 07:53 AM
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Originally posted by margym0o:
I'm going to guess that it was a deeply passionate and emotive relationship but never really found its way. The identity of the relationship was vague and not very grounded. Perhaps living more outside of themselves than working on what was happening inside the relationship. My guess is the female was more invested than the male, with the female being more kind and sympathetic but the male was very independent with a bold personality.
All of that is correct, however, as far as I can tell we were both as invested, unless there's something I didn't know at the time.
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Maybe a lot of heated arguments and resentment built up. I'm guessing it was more him that drove them apart ultimately. Was this a workplace relationship? Or maybe one where they spent periods of time apart?
That's really good so far!
Not heated arguments per se but some big differences that caused disagreements, and some domination outside of the relationship that caused some resentment. Not work place exactly, but meeting each other during an event regarding a mutual hobby. And YES, there was time spent a part, in other cities where we resided! It was divided between close and long distance. quote:
Originally posted by alegna:
Looks like a powerful and strong reltionship.
Perhaps some opposition to it, obstacle to overcome or some heavy karmic influence causing difficulties, but i'd guess they married and were happy together
We were for the most part happy together, regardless of other things. I even can look back fondly at it, even if there were some difficulties. We were going to get married, and I was engaged to him, but one thing lead to another and it didn't happen. quote:
or actually a teacher student affair.[quote]
Not actual teacher/student - but that roleplay was involved! [quote]But definitely emotional- sun trine moon, moon conjunct venus, mars juno, pluto sun.... great connections!
Yes, it was very emotional. We were very sensitive and trusting with one and other. quote:
She has 7th house Pluto in Scorpio so she draws Pluto types for growth, and he is definitely that! Agree that she was more affected. He hits her 7th house and 8th house ruler, so she took this seriously.
Yep, VERY seriously! quote:
So he probably needed more stability than she could offer, and this could very well have been the downfall. He probably criticized her for her youth, perceived irresponsibility a immaturity.
That's pretty darn spot on. Though he did often keep his criticisms to himself, but they were felt. I think he secretly liked the erratic behavior and instability, it shook him up. quote:
It could translate to fun sex, and erratic but fun energy. But I would say with it out in the open in the 10th it would lead to break up.
Very, very fun sex. Almost limitless, boundless, freely expressed sex on all levels. Though, yes, eventually, one day, a break up did happen. quote:
It's also opposite her Mars, so did she feel stifled?
Yes, though it was later in the relationship that it became too stifling and heavy. Earlier years, it was pleasant and welcome, and even needed.
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