posted June 19, 2018 10:17 PM            

I look at our synastry and composite and there is no nodal stuff except for his northnode conjunct exact my asteroid name.

My psyche conjuncts his AC,SUN,PLUTO,EROS,JUNO, JUPITER and PRIAPUS.

^^Perhaps that is why I feel his eyes speak to me.

posted June 24, 2018 02:31 PM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
I think the one who owes is the Saturn person and that may be why they are the one who feels the weight and feel responsible for the other, but on the other hand, they cannot let go as they know somehow they should stick around to pay their debt.

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Thank you. I am no longer chatting with this Individual. I had this exact conjunction as well with an intern last year at my job. It's not a good placement when the conjunction is exact, the Venus person does not feel comfortable around Saturn, there is a hesitancy and or difficulty trusting Saturn or just doesn't feel confident around Saturn so avoids Saturn bc they feel awkward.

As the Saturn person I find their issues around me strange and have little patience and understanding for it and eventually I get irritated and feel repulsed by them.

posted June 25, 2018 09:43 AM            

There is no doubt that we are soulmates. We have a lot of other connections too, on both of our North Nodes; and indeed my saturn/his venus-mars conjunction is square his nodes (by 3degrees).

My experience of saturn-venus in synastry is that it is very binding. And yes, like you hypatia238, the eye thing is very strong - I can stare into his eyes for the longest time.

It's not an easy conjunction, for sure, but it's one for growth on both sides. Subconsciously, I feel that he (venus-mars) looks to me for maturity in some ways, I (saturn) look to him to help me lighten up.

That sense of wanting to be there for him - in whatever capacity - is very strong indeed. I love him unconditionally and would do pretty much anything for him, even though we are not together.

In fact it's something we've talked about before - no matter where he is or what we're both doing or if we haven't spoken in years, my door will never be shut to him if he needs me.

posted June 25, 2018 11:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Stellia:

That sense of wanting to be there for him - in whatever capacity - is very strong indeed. I love him unconditionally and would do pretty much anything for him, even though we are not together.

In fact it's something we've talked about before - no matter where he is or what we're both doing or if we haven't spoken in years, my door will never be shut to him if he needs me.

Maybe that's my karmic responsibility coming through, I don't know. It's a powerful aspect for sure - and I understand why it's so common in married couples.

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Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

posted June 27, 2018 01:38 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Thank you. I am no longer chatting with this Individual. I had this exact conjunction as well with an intern last year at my job. It's not a good placement when the conjunction is exact, the Venus person does not feel comfortable around Saturn, there is a hesitancy and or difficulty trusting Saturn or just doesn't feel confident around Saturn so avoids Saturn bc they feel awkward.

As the Saturn person I find their issues around me strange and have little patience and understanding for it and eventually I get irritated and feel repulsed by them.

But this is the case with the exact conjunction, with guys I have this conjunction widely I am happy to be in their life and they want me in theirs. It plays out more positively with the wide conjunction definitely, I simply want to be there for Venus, they can count on me.

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posted June 27, 2018 02:22 PM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
Bella, what orbs are you using for wide conjunction

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posted July 03, 2018 11:35 AM            

So in light of that if I look back on the people I have that with I don't think this is a good aspect, it is and is not. Its complicated with this aspect.

As the saturn person I tend to feel repulsed by the venus person sooner or later, there is something about this aspect that feels icky.

Yet I had it with a client that I had a connection with so there are exceptions but overall I get the sense this is not a good placement. Maybe with that client me been her therapist and not making her situation more challenging was the debt that I had for her, she was able to reunify with her kids. I was supportive of her. With the guy I was with last year he ended up going back to school to get his Bachelor's degree in Math because of my influence and presence in his life, maybe that is why I came into his life. With the intern that was in my job last year I am not sure what debt I owed him, It was awkward been in each other's presence but maybe he learned something from me in spite of that, I have no clue with that one but he chose not to pursue counseling and instead get a PhD in Theology, something along those lines so perhaps his life direction was defined more and altered during his stay with us.

posted July 03, 2018 11:40 AM            

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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
Hi,

The way I lave studied/learned is that while equally karmic and impactful, it is the Saturn person who is the needier of the two and comes to collect the debt from the Venus person.

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Saturn Needy? Saturn is the teacher. I would think Venus would be needy.

posted July 06, 2018 01:49 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Ok so I don't have venus conjunct saturn with the guy I am with now after all. He lied about his bday when we first met and I understand why.

So in light of that if I look back on the people I have that with I don't think this is a good aspect, it is and is not. Its complicated with this aspect.

As the saturn person I tend to feel repulsed by the venus person sooner or later, there is something about this aspect that feels icky.

Yet I had it with a client that I had a connection with so there are exceptions but overall I get the sense this is not a good placement. Maybe with that client me been her therapist and not making her situation more challenging was the debt that I had for her, she was able to reunify with her kids. I was supportive of her. With the guy I was with last year he ended up going back to school to get his Bachelor's degree in Math because of my influence and presence in his life, maybe that is why I came into his life. With the intern that was in my job last year I am not sure what debt I owed him, It was awkward been in each other's presence but maybe he learned something from me in spite of that, I have no clue with that one but he chose not to pursue counseling and instead get a PhD in Theology, something along those lines so perhaps his life direction was defined more and altered during his stay with us.

Saturn seems to provide support to venus around pushing them in the right direction or finding their way, helping them along their journey somehow, helping them get back on track in some way. That is the impression I am getting as the saturn person but once that support is provided you part ways.

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you are describing exactly how i perceive the perspective of saturn. i have been the venus person and i have received the "fathering" side even if stern father, but father side. i have never felt i owed anything (exatly the opposite, i feel entittled)