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Topic: MOON/PLUTO in relationships
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Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6993 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted January 03, 2011 04:45 PM
I described it this way on another thread. ======================================================Well in Synastry we have a both way Moon Sextile Pluto and in the Composite we have the Moon conjunct Pluto.. So we have Moon/Pluto 3 ways.. I think the composite intensifies the synastry's sextile.. I feel it very deeply and to the core... I feel he HAS HAS HAS to be in my life.. That I cant be with out him, yet at the same time, Im not afraid of loosing him, bc I know he will just always be there.. If that makes any sense at all.. If one of us does pulls away from the other, THEN the fear comes to the front, and you start to worry, did I do something, what happen, you will do just about anything to get that reassurance, that the other person is still there.. Once the other person acknowledges yes Im still here, then every thing is better.. Like a sigh of relief. Until the "other" person than pulls away, then that person will do anything to get that reassurance. It seems like its a never ending cycle that you cant get away from.. This is absolutely the hardest time I have had to pull away from some one.. What makes it worse, we stopped seeing each other over a year ago, but cant break the bond... One one feels like we are loosing the other,its a literal hell. We stopped talking once, for 3 months, I have never in my life been so miserable.. Not even when I split with the ex of over 10 years... This was just a short fling... lol Shrug its a complete and total mess... I finally stopped trying to escape and accepted its better to have him, in my life verses being miserable... But at the same time I desperately want to pull away, and get this out of my system.. It seems to be an impossible task. ======================================================================================== As I said before I feel this Moon/Pluto very deeply and to the core... I have experienced the trine before but not the Conjunction, and not in a composite.. Ive really had to sit a face some things here.. ITs very odd.. BUTTTT I THINK I GOT IT!! I think I now know, why it has affected me so deeply and to the core of me... Synastry Both way's Moon sextile Pluto Composite Moon conjunct Pluto. My Draconic Pluto conjuncts his Natal Moon His Natal Pluto conjuncts my Draconic Moon My DR Moon/Pluto midpoint conjuncts his Natal Moon/pluto midpoint. ====================================== Ok so why so much moon/Pluto.. What does it all mean? What does Pluto want from me??? I wonder what the reasoning is for all this moon/pluto? It seems to be both ways, but I have read that the female feels the moon/pluto more.. But I know he feels it.. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73155 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 03, 2011 05:02 PM
Check out the thread about Venus conjunct the MC in synastry,Lioness. We discussed Moon/Pluto in synastry,there. That got me thinking some more about it,though. I think what we term "love" is Venus/Mars or Venus/Pluto love. Moon/Pluto love is very different though,I think. The Moon represents the mother.Maternal love is a unique love. You have children,Lioness, so you have experienced it. It is the most intimate love there is,I think. You carry the baby in your body and breastfeed,if you do. The baby is as much a part of your body and soul as any human will ever be. For all the days of the child's life,you can enter in to his space as no other person can. Moon/Pluto feels child like,I would say. It is not the nightclub love of beautiful people. It is the love of curling up on a sofa. Maybe,one has a cold.Maybe,one looks terrible or feels terrible but you love him ,anyway,cuz the love is more than romantic. It is soulful.------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. Pluto conjunct Deja ,Bruh. IP: Logged |
Maka Knowflake Posts: 210 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted January 03, 2011 05:43 PM
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VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 6614 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 03, 2011 05:52 PM
Lioness,i think i saw this thread coming I had moon sq pluto,me the moon,and it was the most all consuming/tearing platonic relationship i ever had. I always will remember him. And i am sure he cherish memory of me.IP: Logged |
Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 672 From: Boston,USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted January 03, 2011 05:56 PM
What about Pluto opposite Moon synastry? I am the Moon Is it still bonding aspect? is it so bad as other sites claim to be?
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Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6993 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted January 03, 2011 05:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by Still_Hopeful: What about Pluto opposite Moon? I am the Moon Is it still bonding aspect?
Yest conjunction, and opposites and squares are siminlar. Its very bonding... IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 6614 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 03, 2011 05:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by Still_Hopeful: What about Pluto opposite Moon? I am the Moon Is it still bonding aspect?
Yes,even slightly easier to handle IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6993 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted January 03, 2011 06:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by VenusDiSirius: Lioness,i think i saw this thread coming I had moon sq pluto,me the moon,and it was the most all consuming/tearing platonic relationship i ever had. I always will remember him. And i am sure he cherish memory of me.
You broke away??? Was that hard? IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6993 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted January 03, 2011 06:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by Maka: I have Moon trine Pluto,they have Moon conjuct PlutoIn synastry there is a Moon/Pluto Double Whammy In the composite Moon conjuct Pluto We both have water moons which intensifies the aspects more and our moons are both in the 3rd house. It's hell to get away from this person..
I remember one day telling this person I just didn't want to "feel" anything anymore and the person said "I can't accept that and I am sorry I feel the way I do for you, but I do.." We distance ourselves the longest was 4 months of hell, we saw different people and I was in one of my deepest depressions to date (Pluto transiting my 12th house at the time). Then the person came back, they always do I chalk it up to the fact they have a Scorpio Moon and probably feel comfortable in these Moon/Pluto aspects. And in that time (we've known eachother for 4 years; sometimes we loose count, because we felt we've known eachother longer than that) we consumated, because time just "felt" right if you know what I mean and I didn't feel obligated to do so, because I was with the person...I WANTED to deep down and I knew this person felt the same way Now here we are, together again.
Ahhh... A good story..
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Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 672 From: Boston,USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted January 03, 2011 06:03 PM
hmmm I do not like this aspect. i feel overwhelmed and somewhat control by the Pluto. Or may be I am just projecting. Venus why did u get away? too overwhelming? too platonic
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AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 8749 From: Dublin, CA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 03, 2011 06:03 PM
Hmmm...I have Moon conjunct Pluto natally. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 6614 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 03, 2011 06:04 PM
I never break away really,or stop loving someone. I just move on. Next stage,transformed by love,new challenges,new hunger... I never had desire pick up the phone or sth... Maybe i am decieved by the idea of fated relationships? IP: Logged |
Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 672 From: Boston,USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted January 03, 2011 06:06 PM
Venus, spoken like a true Aqua, do you have any heavy Aqua influence in a chart?I have Moon opposite Pluto in synastry 4 degree. Is it too far away? or you would consider this aspect ONLY with closer degree? IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 6614 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 03, 2011 06:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by Still_Hopeful: hmmm I do not like this aspect. i feel overwhelmed and somewhat control by the Pluto. Or may be I am just projecting. Venus why did u get away? too overwhelming? too platonic
It was consumated by only one kiss. At the time i thought that tongue was THE organ of the body Yes,pluto is stronger... But u r addicted IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 6614 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 03, 2011 06:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by Still_Hopeful: Venus, spoken like a true Aqua, do you have any heavy Aqua influence in a chart?
Adore aqua energy. Only in sidreal,sun conjunct moon,5th degree I have 11th H sun,though very well aspected IP: Logged |
Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 672 From: Boston,USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted January 03, 2011 06:10 PM
Addicted to Pluto? or Pluto addicted to MOON?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73155 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 03, 2011 06:10 PM
AG Can you describe what Moon conjunct Pluto feels like,natally. You know my annoying Gemini ------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. Pluto conjunct Deja ,Bruh. IP: Logged |
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 5819 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 03, 2011 06:10 PM
Maybe Moon-Pluto couples are learning lessons about letting go of each other Pluto is also the planet of elimination, throwing away the trash,getting rid of what's no longer useful
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VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 6614 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 03, 2011 06:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by Still_Hopeful: Addicted to Pluto? or Pluto addicted to MOON?
Moon addicted to pluto. I think 4 degree could work,with luminaries anything is possible. Glaucus,great remark!!!! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73155 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 03, 2011 06:14 PM
No ,Raymond We ,woman ,are gonna hold on to our Moon/Pluto's like a pair of designer shoes in a bargain basement ------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. Pluto conjunct Deja ,Bruh. IP: Logged |
Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 672 From: Boston,USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted January 03, 2011 06:14 PM
Glaucus , Don't you think Pluto has a harder time to let go? To give up control, rather than moon?IP: Logged |
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9947 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 03, 2011 06:14 PM
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Maka Knowflake Posts: 210 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted January 03, 2011 06:15 PM
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Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9947 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 03, 2011 06:17 PM
Yea I agree I think it's Moon addicted to Pluto. I have the square natally, and when someone's Moon goes to conjunct mine you wouldn't believe all the needs and feelings that come up in them directed to me. Then I become the mother/lover.It really is like touching some basement part of them, that they had no idea existed so strongly, because not only are they getting Moon conj Moon (which is strong in itself), but they're getting the hard aspect from Pluto as well. They become very vulnerable. And the vulnerability is sooo attractive cos it's coming from a Capricorn Moon man, who typically seems not eager to reveal himself, but they do to me, it's the sweetest thing. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 6614 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 03, 2011 06:20 PM
Pluto likes its moon certain way:completely bewitched,depending... When moon breaks away,or tries to,i think it would also meaning breakng the pluto's spell.IP: Logged |