posted December 01, 2023 05:07 PM            

i started uni a while ago and there’s been this guy who i’ve had my eye on. i didn’t notice how much he would stare at me until i started paying attention to him out of my own volition and ever since then we exchange long glances all the time.

there’s this weird feeling of almost knowing each other already- and when i used the pattern app to look at our synastry, it talked about there being a possible past life love link.

my issue is knowing wether he is actually interested/intrigued with me. i can’t tell if he’s looking at me because i’m looking at him and he’s weirded out or if he’s making eye contact back, i’m so torn. i’ve talked to him about 3-4 times because we are in the same friend group, that’s how i asked him about his birthday (subtly).

it’s like every time we talk there’s an unspoken tension in the air- or maybe this is just me deluding myself? i can’t tell anymore, i feel a bit crazy.

i’d appreciate any help if possible.

this is our synastry chart and i’m the inner circle.

posted December 01, 2023 07:12 PM            

The Moon/Venus conjunction on both parts is lovely. There might be some lovely-dovey appreciation of each other.

Beside this, there are not so much compatibility. Suns are in 12/1 position, he falls with his Sun/Moon in your 12th house, which is a red flag because you might be disillusioned by him and it will not be his fault, but mostly because you can't see him for who he is.

You are saturnian with the ruler of 7th in the 1st. He has Saturn in the same sign as Sun/Moon, it's very wide the orb, but you might still feel it. This is a good sign for compatibility, but I don't know how well is felt considering the degree orb. Sun/Saturn is almost the same as Saturn on the ASC.
It might be some familiarity because of this and because you both have in the natal chart Sun/Moon in the same sign. But it's mostly that kind of thing when you meet someone and it's too much like you.

But that Mars on his Moon might be problematic. You are a girl and it doesn't come naturaly the use of Mars to you and him using his Moon.
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posted December 03, 2023 12:10 PM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
It's your Mars on his Sun/Moon that is making this uncomfortable feeling between you two.
Unfortunately, it's a crush.

The Moon/Venus conjunction on both parts is lovely. There might be some lovely-dovey appreciation of each other.

Beside this, there are not so much compatibility. Suns are in 12/1 position, he falls with his Sun/Moon in your 12th house, which is a red flag because you might be disillusioned by him and it will not be his fault, but mostly because you can't see him for who he is.

You are saturnian with the ruler of 7th in the 1st. He has Saturn in the same sign as Sun/Moon, it's very wide the orb, but you might still feel it. This is a good sign for compatibility, but I don't know how well is felt considering the degree orb. Sun/Saturn is almost the same as Saturn on the ASC.
It might be some familiarity because of this and because you both have in the natal chart Sun/Moon in the same sign. But it's mostly that kind of thing when you meet someone and it's too much like you.

But that Mars on his Moon might be problematic. You are a girl and it doesn't come naturaly the use of Mars to you and him using his Moon.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/012294.html

check this thread as it's not easy to explain it.

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posted December 04, 2023 08:37 AM            

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Originally posted by sashavittoria:
Without the degrees listed it’s hard to tell, but it does look like your MC/IC axis square his nodal axis, which would indicate some past life interaction. However, with nothing on the south nodes, I’m not convinced there was past life love specifically.

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Ahh yeah i did feel there was some weird recognition going on, even if it isnt in a romantic way. I dont know how to feel about the air between us and the cryptic eye contact. He is a very introverted and quiet guy who doesnt talk much to anyone and im not the bravest so i havent talked to him much, but i suppose itll stay that way and thats okay. I dont see much going on in our synastry chart either as far as i can tell, however second opinions are always nice to get.